Mercedes_00: Have never loved nor been in love with a guy except for my son as a mother.
HOW is THAT possible, M? You just got done saying "Based on past experience..I'm a bloody idiot." WHAT is MORE "foolish/idiotic" than "Love"? If you've NEVER BEEN in "love", you HAVEN'T TASTED the depths of foolishness/idiocy that ARE available - to us ALL! As an "idiot", you're STILL a virgin, IF you've never TRIED "love"!
Bearwoman: You modern people think of men as being a science project when you mention the term chemistry.
Asking a question such as as time went on did I grow to love him over time. Are you nuts.,I fell in love with him the first time I met him geesh.We were married almost 40 years and he gave two handsome sons who grew up to be responsible adult men.
You modern people shpuld have your modern wording up your butt.
Aren't you being JUST A TAD "HARSH", BW? People, today, are no different that YOU are/were! We HAVEN'T changed! Only word things differently!
ChesneyChrist: You get the chance to veto, the choice to not act on your feelings. The heart wants it wants although you don’t have to listen to it. Impulse control.
And I would say longer term relationships require impulse control and two partners need to complement one another in a more practical way. It’s to handle life’s mundanity, to commit to one partner forever will involve a lot of boredom and boredom tolerance is the secret ingredient in death do us part. Boredom will destroy impulsive people in whatever they do.
Define "destroy", please? I've been "impulsive", for 70 years, and counting, now! I'm STILL "active" (at least, the LAST TIME I looked)!
guysimple: if a lover guy meet a girl/lady(not in love but pretend/pass time) these guys become super bitter and started thinking that all the women are like that and ( they are ready to destroy innocent/ girl/lady/ who truly believe in love). guy never trust her as they have already faced your kind of woman..
Dont make world bitter Guys are super easy......if they are hurt they are super dangerous ( History is the proof)
But is the "guy" interested IN/attracted TO the woman, by WHAT? You SAY "love"! Would you care to DEFINE that?
And IF the guy (or woman) becomes "bitter", it's only because they're a spoiled brat, whose ONLY "INTEREST" is in their OWN "gratification"! And has NOTHING WHATSOEVER to do, with "love"! One thing that CAN BE said, about "love", is that it's NOT "selfish"!
No offense meant, GS, but I THINK you have a VERY POOR "understanding" of "love"! At least, what "I" THINK of, when I contemplate "love". "Love" is NOT as many things, as it IS! And SOME of those things are "possessive", "self-centered", "controlling", etc. IF ANY of those "thoughts/feelings" are involved, in your relationship, it's NOT "love" you're feeling, but "OWNERSHIP/TITLE", you WANT! JMO
INTERESTING, that a woman should post this, M! But you're liable to provoke a whole NEW series of comments, with that! But "I" ENJOY reading people's reactions, to "things" (such as this)! GOOD job!
Let_Us: INTERESTING, that a woman should post this, M! But you're liable to provoke a whole NEW series of comments, with that! But "I" ENJOY reading people's reactions, to "things" (such as this)! GOOD job!
Bearwoman: Let_Us You remind me of one of my former sister in laws who thought that they were an authority of everything in regards to raising children,running a business etc. Just reframe from replying to me or I will contact the mods and tell them that you are harassing me.And if that gets me no where I will contact the POWDER PUFFS FROM MELBOURNE AUSTRALIA and knock your lights out with their sequences things ..
I've read on how you talk to some other people on here too.Take your psychologists crap and you know exactly what you can do it.
Leave me totally alone or I will follow through on what I say I will do.
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