Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
My ex used to accuse me of all his bad habits. After the divorce I looked it up:- Transference.
Very interesting subject, look it up.
I have seen this phenomenon quite a few times under the trolls especially. Even tho they try to hide their personalities, it shines thru clearly, by the way they treat others, very badly, and accuse them of things that r not applicable to that person at all.
I currently have a troll trying to psych-analyze me. My personality is one of the most complex, and he believes that the info I have made public to date, r sufficient to do it. Well good luck to him and whoever else feel so inclined.
Yes, coming back to this subject, I'm finding the troll telling me I have his characteristics.
Well good luck to him, as I'm happy to know myself exceptionally well, and being falsely accused no-one likes, but some will go as far as believing it, till they find out otherwise.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
M4_Mischief: Then those aren't the right men for you....or maybe its a chance to heal the past with your ex....maybe they are there to teach you something before you find the right man.....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
aries1234: Do you think you might be in denial, a husband and a lot of CS can't be wrong, ytu looking closer to home, JMO
The British have this funny way of reasoning, that everything, never mind how wrong, is made right somehow, by convincing all the stupid....the rest see things as they r.....
I know of some people who are always having pity parties and blaming others for their very own short comings in life.A good share of the time some people actually bring things on themselves.
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
aries1234: Well I live mostly in Finland, where, i return this Sunday, they seem to understand my reasoning quite well, as well as the British, they have seen some of your posts and had a good laugh
Where were u born and raised...U act typically British....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Bearwoman: I know of some people who are always having pity parties and blaming others for their very own short comings in life.A good share of the time some people actually bring things on themselves.
We all bring things on ourselves, because of ur personality, looks, dress, talk, work, etc....
Pity parties r for the leeches, that will suck u try of all sympathy, and then ask for more....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
Bearwoman: Not everyone brings things on themselves.
Our very actions, and inactions, create jealousy and hate in others....then they feel they have to retaliate....we don't ask for it....it's for free....makes them feel good....
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Very interesting subject, look it up.
I have seen this phenomenon quite a few times under the trolls especially. Even tho they try to hide their personalities, it shines thru clearly, by the way they treat others, very badly, and accuse them of things that r not applicable to that person at all.
I currently have a troll trying to psych-analyze me. My personality is one of the most complex, and he believes that the info I have made public to date, r sufficient to do it. Well good luck to him and whoever else feel so inclined.
Yes, coming back to this subject, I'm finding the troll telling me I have his characteristics.
Well good luck to him, as I'm happy to know myself exceptionally well, and being falsely accused no-one likes, but some will go as far as believing it, till they find out otherwise.
How often do u get falsely accused on Cs ?