Any Advise To Tread Wisely??? (22)

Jul 7, 2018 12:56 PM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
Hi Everybody
This is my first thread...

I recently noticed a woman had returned to CS from about a year's absence. I can only assume she had found a mate and followed it through to its fruition...and now she is back. Her profile is very much in-line with who I'm looking for.

I did have contact with her for about a month in May 2017. As far as I can tell, there was no animosity in losing contact with each other. Our respective schedules were very much conflicting...14 hour time difference...difficult to find an agreeable time...as well I work about 12-16 hrs per day.

I routinely vacation in her country and did try to contact her the last time I was there...with no response.

The advise I'm looking for...is it wrong to try and re-establish a connection? I don't want to barrel ahead and possibly scare her off. Nothing has changed with my workload and it will still be difficult to find time. Should I wait until I'm in her country?

Any thoughts?
Jul 7, 2018 1:01 PM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
secludedStar
secludedStarsecludedStarUtah, USA11 Threads 1,851 Posts
Dancing on egg shells only leads to one thing

- a bunch of broken egg shells on the floor. .

( i threw it up-. ALl you gotta do is catch)
Jul 7, 2018 1:04 PM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria2,320 Posts
Hmmmm, may be she is wise enough to know that such great distance relationship won't work and if she invests emotions and time in it it will only break her heart...
14 hours time difference wow that's a lot of miles...
Many are afraid of one tenth of that...
If I knew someone I like is coming to my country I'd definitely meet them no matter the intentions...
Jul 7, 2018 1:13 PM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
Thank you for your words pKrema!!

Yes I understand the distance issue. Maybe I'll put it on the back burner for now until my return there becomes more of a reality...flight and accommodations and such.

Cheers
Jul 7, 2018 1:21 PM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria2,320 Posts
thaicurious: Thank you for your words pKrema!!

Yes I understand the distance issue. Maybe I'll put it on the back burner for now until my return there becomes more of a reality...flight and accommodations and such.

Cheers
I do hope it works for you, and the lady meets you after all...One never knows before he tries...
Distance can be a bother but not something that can not be dealt with...one way or another...
Good luck! cheers
Jul 7, 2018 1:26 PM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
If there’s a will, there’s a way wink

I’m 13 hours ahead of my Arty and I sometimes have to sacrifice my sleep in order to be able to Skype with him but the rewards are immeasurable coz we’d have a tremendous good time talking, reminiscing, joking.....applause but sometimes arguing too blues but it’s always HIS fault! grin
Jul 7, 2018 1:38 PM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
MiMiArt: If there’s a will, there’s a way

I’m 13 hours ahead of my Arty and I sometimes have to sacrifice my sleep in order to be able to Skype with him but the rewards are immeasurable coz we’d have a tremendous good time talking, reminiscing, joking..... but sometimes arguing too but it’s always HIS fault!



laugh
Jul 7, 2018 1:48 PM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
Good morning, Lookin’ reunion
Jul 7, 2018 1:51 PM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
MiMiArt: Good morning, Lookin’
Good morning funnybum wave hug coffee
Jul 7, 2018 1:57 PM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
Lookin4missright: Good morning funnybum
Almost 3am here. MiMi better sleep before Arty checks on the blogs/forum to see if MiMi has defied his orders! giggle

I’ll get dark circles and eye bags if I don’t have enough of beauty sleep and Arty doesn’t want a panda for a wife. grin
Jul 7, 2018 2:08 PM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
MiMiArt: Almost 3am here. MiMi better sleep before Arty checks on the blogs/forum to see if MiMi has defied his orders!

I’ll get dark circles and eye bags if I don’t have enough of beauty sleep and Arty doesn’t want a panda for a wife.
5am here

rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing You're a funny bugger M laugh

Ok night night Panda hug teddybear lips << on the cheek



happy place
Jul 7, 2018 2:24 PM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
thaicurious: Hi Everybody
This is my first thread...

I recently noticed a woman had returned to CS from about a year's absence. I can only assume she had found a mate and followed it through to its fruition...and now she is back. Her profile is very much in-line with who I'm looking for.

I did have contact with her for about a month in May 2017. As far as I can tell, there was no animosity in losing contact with each other. Our respective schedules were very much conflicting...14 hour time difference...difficult to find an agreeable time...as well I work about 12-16 hrs per day.

I routinely vacation in her country and did try to contact her the last time I was there...with no response.

The advise I'm looking for...is it wrong to try and re-establish a connection? I don't want to barrel ahead and possibly scare her off. Nothing has changed with my workload and it will still be difficult to find time. Should I wait until I'm in her country?

Any thoughts?
Fortune follows the brave Thaicurious. Take your own advice and follow your gut feeling. If you like/love her and you think she might feel the same, don’t let your pride or distance get in the way! The worst she can say is no! conversing too many full relationship graveyards due to pride!
Jul 7, 2018 2:35 PM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
MsContessa: Fortune follows the brave Thaicurious. Take your own advice and follow your gut feeling. If you like/love her and you think she might feel the same, don’t let your pride or distance get in the way! The worst she can say is no! too many full relationship graveyards due to pride!


No need to call him names professor


rolling on the floor laughing
Jul 7, 2018 2:35 PM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
You contacted her then you got no answer, I say move along cause she hasn’t even reach out to you
Jul 7, 2018 2:47 PM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
marlindaponline today!
marlindaponline today!marlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada289 Posts
A month is not that long to be chatting with someone, but I think it would be a good idea to message her now. and to see if she remembers who you are.
Jul 7, 2018 2:51 PM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
guysimpleonline today!
guysimpleonline today!guysimpledelhi, India30 Threads 15 Polls 2,815 Posts
thaicurious: Hi Everybody
This is my first thread...

I recently noticed a woman had returned to CS from about a year's absence. I can only assume she had found a mate and followed it through to its fruition...and now she is back. Her profile is very much in-line with who I'm looking for.

I did have contact with her for about a month in May 2017. As far as I can tell, there was no animosity in losing contact with each other. Our respective schedules were very much conflicting...14 hour time difference...difficult to find an agreeable time...as well I work about 12-16 hrs per day.

I routinely vacation in her country and did try to contact her the last time I was there...with no response.

The advise I'm looking for...is it wrong to try and re-establish a connection? I don't want to barrel ahead and possibly scare her off. Nothing has changed with my workload and it will still be difficult to find time. Should I wait until I'm in her country?

Any thoughts?
You still didn't have that much passion ....what it need to be called you are in love...
Love is crazy like addiction---- we take action dont get time to ask....

I wouldn't give any suggestion ... As I dont want you to change yourself....just be human ( nothing else matter)

I would only say be yourself. Be bold.......................... no advice will work( for longer time)
you might impress her today but what about the future do you these people always to advice you how to win her heart.....( this is never gonna work) ....
You like her there is no doubt...
Be the man....grin ( I think its only advice I can give you)hug
Jul 8, 2018 4:52 AM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
Lookin4missright: No need to call him names
Well, that is his name...
He could have chosen a better one doh
Jul 8, 2018 4:56 AM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
No crime in messaging her.
Jul 8, 2018 7:10 AM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
Well it all starts with just one message to her to find out if she is still single/ looking/willing to re-engage with you again.

I don't know yer previous history...nor do I need to know....but be sure you have thought about it yourself first....what is it you want if you are not living in the same country.
You maybe ok with long distance but she may not....

these are questions she can only answer, not us for you.

But please be sure of what you want....theres nothing worse than being led along by someone who doesn't know what they want as the is hurtful and unnecessary time wasting.

But hopefully ye are on the same page...if yer are then I wish you both well.

bouquet
Jul 8, 2018 7:52 AM CST Any Advise To Tread Wisely???
ChesneyChristonline now!
ChesneyChristonline now!ChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK4,007 Posts
thaicurious: Hi Everybody
This is my first thread...

I recently noticed a woman had returned to CS from about a year's absence. I can only assume she had found a mate and followed it through to its fruition...and now she is back. Her profile is very much in-line with who I'm looking for.

I did have contact with her for about a month in May 2017. As far as I can tell, there was no animosity in losing contact with each other. Our respective schedules were very much conflicting...14 hour time difference...difficult to find an agreeable time...as well I work about 12-16 hrs per day.

I routinely vacation in her country and did try to contact her the last time I was there...with no response.

The advise I'm looking for...is it wrong to try and re-establish a connection? I don't want to barrel ahead and possibly scare her off. Nothing has changed with my workload and it will still be difficult to find time. Should I wait until I'm in her country?

Any thoughts?
Without a meaningful connection in the meantime it’s like booking her in advance. I’d wait until you’re there.
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