Socialising with Workmates (31)
serene56: The organisation I work with is big on regular after-work get togethers ~ dinners, trivia nights etc
I feel a bit hesitant about socialising with colleagues and management, how do you feel about this
As I have no idea which organisation you belong to i can't say. is it the convicts welfare club?I feel a bit hesitant about socialising with colleagues and management, how do you feel about this
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Hi Serene 
The hesitation is a good thing. It’s good to be on good terms with work colleagues but one must also be very careful at the same time.
Be nice, be cordial but never reveal too much of your personal details and info lest they’d use it against you in the future for their personal gain.
Or maybe I’ve been watching too much Chinese drama series...
The hesitation is a good thing. It’s good to be on good terms with work colleagues but one must also be very careful at the same time.
Be nice, be cordial but never reveal too much of your personal details and info lest they’d use it against you in the future for their personal gain.
Or maybe I’ve been watching too much Chinese drama series...
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serene56: The organisation I work with is big on regular after-work get togethers ~ dinners, trivia nights etc
I feel a bit hesitant about socialising with colleagues and management, how do you feel about this
Don't hasitate dear . it's bad for your job career . I feel a bit hesitant about socialising with colleagues and management, how do you feel about this
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serene56: The organisation I work with is big on regular after-work get togethers ~ dinners, trivia nights etc
I feel a bit hesitant about socialising with colleagues and management, how do you feel about this
I would go out occasionally, but not regularly.I feel a bit hesitant about socialising with colleagues and management, how do you feel about this
Maybe a Christmas party, or a summer BBQ or something.
But generally I tend to leave work at work, and social life outside of work.
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aries1234: As I have no idea which organisation you belong to i can't say. is it the convicts welfare club?
Obviously you missed the memo that I'm English.------ This thread is Archived ------
MiMiArt: Hi Serene
The hesitation is a good thing. It’s good to be on good terms with work colleagues but one must also be very careful at the same time.
Be nice, be cordial but never reveal too much of your personal details and info lest they’d use it against you in the future for their personal gain.
Or maybe I’ve been watching too much Chinese drama series...
The hesitation is a good thing. It’s good to be on good terms with work colleagues but one must also be very careful at the same time.
Be nice, be cordial but never reveal too much of your personal details and info lest they’d use it against you in the future for their personal gain.
Or maybe I’ve been watching too much Chinese drama series...
I get along well with pretty much everyone at work but once the day is over I switch off from all of it basically
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MiMiArt: Hi Serene
The hesitation is a good thing. It’s good to be on good terms with work colleagues but one must also be very careful at the same time.
Be nice, be cordial but never reveal too much of your personal details and info lest they’d use it against you in the future for their personal gain.
Or maybe I’ve been watching too much Chinese drama series...
Wow Mimi miskeen orang ?The hesitation is a good thing. It’s good to be on good terms with work colleagues but one must also be very careful at the same time.
Be nice, be cordial but never reveal too much of your personal details and info lest they’d use it against you in the future for their personal gain.
Or maybe I’ve been watching too much Chinese drama series...
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MiMiArt: Hi Serene
The hesitation is a good thing. It’s good to be on good terms with work colleagues but one must also be very careful at the same time.
Be nice, be cordial but never reveal too much of your personal details and info lest they’d use it against you in the future for their personal gain.
Or maybe I’ve been watching too much Chinese drama series...
Very nice thought very good thoughts The hesitation is a good thing. It’s good to be on good terms with work colleagues but one must also be very careful at the same time.
Be nice, be cordial but never reveal too much of your personal details and info lest they’d use it against you in the future for their personal gain.
Or maybe I’ve been watching too much Chinese drama series...
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mollybaby: I would go out occasionally, but not regularly.
Maybe a Christmas party, or a summer BBQ or something.
But generally I tend to leave work at work, and social life outside of work.
Yes I'm happy to get involved in all the activities re team building days, fundraising events and so on, they're fun (and mandatory Maybe a Christmas party, or a summer BBQ or something.
But generally I tend to leave work at work, and social life outside of work.
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Aaah, so you're with the redcoats hey? no wonder the convicts are trying to lure you away from the video cameras...
I'd say a polite appearance, and then I have to go and feed the dog or whatever. After a few times it will be obvious you're not doing it all as a way of increasing your social circle.
I'd say a polite appearance, and then I have to go and feed the dog or whatever. After a few times it will be obvious you're not doing it all as a way of increasing your social circle.
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pat8lanips: Aaah, so you're with the redcoats hey? no wonder the convicts are trying to lure you away from the video cameras...
I'd say a polite appearance, and then I have to go and feed the dog or whatever. After a few times it will be obvious you're not doing it all as a way of increasing your social circle.
I keep it simple and say No I'd say a polite appearance, and then I have to go and feed the dog or whatever. After a few times it will be obvious you're not doing it all as a way of increasing your social circle.
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serene56: I keep it simple and say No
I have no problem saying no either. It cuts out a lot of unnecessary crap
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MiMiArt: Do you mean ‘miskin’ in Malay as in ‘poor’?
I mean always care poor people . Because you are very good lady. 
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serene56: Obviously you missed the memo that I'm English.
So were the convicts
I would do as Molly said, two or three times a year, to keep up the goddip on the latest affairs.------ This thread is Archived ------
aries1234: So were the convicts I would do as Molly said, two or three times a year, to keep up the gossip on the latest affairs.
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mollybaby: I have no problem saying no either.
It cuts out a lot of unnecessary crap
Woman after my own heart It cuts out a lot of unnecessary crap
There's no pressure at all, the events just pop up on everyone's emails and if you're interested you sign up
But every now and then someone goes Are you coming tomorrow night
And I go No
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aries1234: So were the convicts I would do as Molly said, two or three times a year, to keep up the goddip on the latest affairs.
Some of us don't get off on gossip 
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serene56: Some of us don't get off on gossip
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I feel a bit hesitant about socialising with colleagues and management, how do you feel about this