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Jul 19, 2018 9:37 AM CST Take a stand......
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
Peoples:-
Having a strong backbone is recommended for everyone....
When making decisions....stand by them.....don't turn into jelly.....and renege on everything....
That is weak....and ur scared ur loose ur job... or acquaintance….as friends will stand by U...…

Be strong....not weak....people will respect u then.....or r u a push over...…..


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Jul 19, 2018 9:46 AM CST Take a stand......
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
I am a human, I have my moments of weakness, and thank God for that or I would think there's something wrong with me...
I never feared I'll lose my job or friends...
My job depends on me and how I treat my clients...
And if my friends are easy to lose, well...they weren't true friends...
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Jul 19, 2018 9:53 AM CST Take a stand......
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
pKrema: I am a human, I have my moments of weakness, and thank God for that or I would think there's something wrong with me...
I never feared I'll lose my job or friends...
My job depends on me and how I treat my clients...
And if my friends are easy to lose, well...they weren't true friends...
Yes Krem.....diplomatic as always....I'm not....I say my say.....
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Jul 19, 2018 10:20 AM CST Take a stand......
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
pKrema: They can call me whatever they like, if that makes them feel important...
Some people are so transparent, it's almost boring to see them pretend...but to be honest, it's entertaining as well...(rarely tho)...
I have this rare ability, of feeling people out, by sensing....it also works on the Internet....during communications......Thus I can be just Me.....If u have ever laughed at me, I'm sure I must have been very funny then.....
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Jul 19, 2018 11:07 AM CST Take a stand......
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
I have plenty back bone laugh

But I refuse to waste it here....where most are fake to be honest with you.
Why get worked up and upset over a picture and some text....because that's all it is.
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Jul 19, 2018 11:08 AM CST Take a stand......
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
deedee123xo: I have plenty back bone

But I refuse to waste it here....where most are fake to be honest with you.
Why get worked up and upset over a picture and some text....because that's all it is.
Dd...This stuff is all over the Internet...it is not just here.....
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Jul 19, 2018 11:15 AM CST Take a stand......
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
deedee123xo: I've no doubt it is...but I don't do social media apart from here and one other place and that's it....much prefer real people.
Type in ur Nickname here....on the Internet...U'll get the fright of ur life......
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Jul 22, 2018 11:36 AM CST Take a stand......
SweetnFunnyChic
SweetnFunnyChicSweetnFunnyChicSharjah, United Arab Emirates10 Threads 5 Polls 374 Posts
I'm blunt with who ever I work with, when I was very young older women would pass mean comments or start rumors or creepy old men would hit on me I left the job to avoid them once I got older I changed 360 I told off anyone and everyone, I have kept jobs and lost jobs I don't give a damn found one right after. There were friends who could not relate to some stuff going on in my life I had to make a lot of tough decisions and they would not understand kept judging me and asking me to change my mind so I cut them off, they tried to come back into my life I blocked them everywhere. People that meet me say I say it like it is, men from my country want a submissive woman, yeah no thanks I'll pass I want an alpha male. I am who I am I'm not gonna change for anyone. Once my mind is made up that's it. I encourage my gfs to be strong they are always worried what will the guy think what will this colleague say I told them if you go through life trying to make everyone happy and trying to gain everyone's approval you are gonna be miserable. So now they are trying to speak up....its a start....
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Jul 22, 2018 11:41 AM CST Take a stand......
Snookums33
Snookums33Snookums33Joburg, Gauteng South Africa601 Threads 2 Polls 5,760 Posts
SweetnFunnyChic: I'm blunt with who ever I work with, when I was very young older women would pass mean comments or start rumors or creepy old men would hit on me I left the job to avoid them once I got older I changed 360 I told off anyone and everyone, I have kept jobs and lost jobs I don't give a damn found one right after. There were friends who could not relate to some stuff going on in my life I had to make a lot of tough decisions and they would not understand kept judging me and asking me to change my mind so I cut them off, they tried to come back into my life I blocked them everywhere. People that meet me say I say it like it is, men from my country want a submissive woman, yeah no thanks I'll pass I want an alpha male. I am who I am I'm not gonna change for anyone. Once my mind is made up that's it. I encourage my gfs to be strong they are always worried what will the guy think what will this colleague say I told them if you go through life trying to make everyone happy and trying to gain everyone's approval you are gonna be miserable. So now they are trying to speak up....its a start....
If I had to find a guy for u, it will be an independent male, sure of himself, a good job, decent, kind and caring....U deserve the best.....Now to find him....is another story altogether.....

U remind me of a younger me.....
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