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Jul 25, 2018 1:42 PM CST just looking
4radiance
4radiance4radiancetrenton, New Jersey USA1 Threads 9 Posts
people who come to my profile and don't say anything ... annoying, frustrating, insulting ... add to that the fact that no on is responding to any (well-written, indeed) messages of mine ... not bitter, things take time ... but what a waste.
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Jul 25, 2018 1:44 PM CST just looking
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
How are you insulted?
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Jul 25, 2018 1:44 PM CST just looking
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
4radiance: people who come to my profile and don't say anything ... annoying, frustrating, insulting ... add to that the fact that no on is responding to any (well-written, indeed) messages of mine ... not bitter, things take time ... but what a waste.
How long are you on this site??
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Jul 25, 2018 1:45 PM CST just looking
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
well you could have my inbox full of likes and disappearances instead.....laugh
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Jul 25, 2018 6:01 PM CST just looking
Mr Radiance, You’re pouting and they don’t have to say anything, I read people profiles all the time and don’t say nothing, oh and they may not be interested so they don’t have to respond
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Jul 26, 2018 1:24 AM CST just looking
Car54
Car54Car54Noneya, Luxembourg Belgium4 Threads 378 Posts
4radiance: people who come to my profile and don't say anything ... annoying, frustrating, insulting ... add to that the fact that no on is responding to any (well-written, indeed) messages of mine ... not bitter, things take time ... but what a waste.
Women are curious by nature. They will go on your profile simply because it's there, they haven't seen it yet and they can't help but take a look...must...look...at...profile.. to...save...my...life laugh
Don't take it the wrong way. If you get insulted by Woman nature then you might as well turn gay now because it isn't gonna get better, only worse.
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Jul 26, 2018 1:35 AM CST just looking
Rachie14
Rachie14Rachie14Stafford, Staffordshire, England UK1 Threads 2,330 Posts
I just think the OP is arrogant. angel
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Jul 26, 2018 2:15 AM CST just looking
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
Rachie14: I just think the OP is arrogant.
Lets welcome fresh meat to the forums, or would you like Mr Gillies to keep trolling you conversing
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Jul 26, 2018 2:18 AM CST just looking
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
The guy is just impatient (read desperate), calm down people... comfort
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Jul 26, 2018 12:43 PM CST just looking
4radiance
4radiance4radiancetrenton, New Jersey USA1 Threads 9 Posts
been off and on this site a few times, and i keep coming back expecting to get something going.

as far as women being curious (and not ignorant) well if they were then they would message and have conversation.

insulted because i am not just a physical image and prejudice sucks.

not looking for advice fellow posters but insight is welcome.
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Jul 26, 2018 12:45 PM CST just looking
4radiance
4radiance4radiancetrenton, New Jersey USA1 Threads 9 Posts
because i know that it is due to prejudice and shallow thinking ... i should feel more insulted by myself for thinking that i would even have decent conversation with anyone.
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Jul 26, 2018 12:47 PM CST just looking
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
The best advice I can give you is not to check your WVM. That way you will be happily oblivious to people who check your profile without emailing you.
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Jul 26, 2018 12:47 PM CST just looking
4radiance
4radiance4radiancetrenton, New Jersey USA1 Threads 9 Posts
pKrema: The guy is just impatient (read desperate), calm down people...
desperate for conversation and real connections. don't try to insult me.
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Jul 26, 2018 12:50 PM CST just looking
4radiance
4radiance4radiancetrenton, New Jersey USA1 Threads 9 Posts
Car54: If you get insulted by Woman nature then you might as well turn gay now because it isn't gonna get better, only worse.
i do not think that they have any singular nature, but the singularity lies in social conditioning.

being gay is not an option nor desirable, and if this is only going to get worse then what is the point?
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Jul 26, 2018 12:53 PM CST just looking
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
4radiance have you experienced the very same issue in real life as you do being on a dating site?
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Jul 26, 2018 1:11 PM CST just looking
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
4radiance: desperate for conversation and real connections. don't try to insult me.
You just called yourself desperate but when I said it, it counts as a insult... dunno
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Jul 26, 2018 1:21 PM CST just looking
2intrigued
2intrigued2intriguedMississauga, Ontario Canada11 Threads 18,576 Posts
4radiance: people who come to my profile and don't say anything ... annoying, frustrating, insulting ... add to that the fact that no on is responding to any (well-written, indeed) messages of mine ... not bitter, things take time ... but what a waste.
Welcome to CS cswelcome Dating sites are virtual candy stores and a lot of folks prefer window shopping...it is what it is. dunno
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Jul 26, 2018 1:22 PM CST just looking
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
pKrema: You just called yourself desperate but when I said it, it counts as a insult...
At least you got a answer to your question.
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Jul 26, 2018 7:09 PM CST just looking
4radiance
4radiance4radiancetrenton, New Jersey USA1 Threads 9 Posts
Bearwoman: 4radiance have you experienced the very same issue in real life as you do being on a dating site?
no it is very easy for me to talk to people in person, whether it is someone at random or as expected.
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Jul 26, 2018 7:10 PM CST just looking
4radiance
4radiance4radiancetrenton, New Jersey USA1 Threads 9 Posts
pKrema: You just called yourself desperate but when I said it, it counts as a insult...
it's all about context idea
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