SweetnFunnyChicSharjah, United Arab Emirates374 posts
I would not be okay with with my partner being in touch or meeting an ex. What is the need? I have met quite a few guys who still talk to their exes behind their partner's back and that's just weird and wrong. If my partner told me he is in touch with his ex I would make my feelings about it known but I wouldn't be happy about it. The past is the past why mix it into the present relationship? Its not like there are kids! If he still insisted on her being part of his life I would cut him loose.
Limun: very noble of you ,and im not question here your choice of Men you date , i believe you`re an excellent judge of character ,yet Trust is something , in my personal opinion, that has to be built up, worked on ... Are you honestly telling me that you wouldn't feel awkward if your partner prefers or gives more priority to the old relationship than the new one
Honestly...cordial is one thing....giving an old relationship priority over ours....then there would be a problem.......
I believe the past is the past. When the relationship ends, so does all contact. If I still felt I needed to see and talk to them then it shouldn't have ended. Kids complicate it for some people but I personally still would not keep them as a friend. I would only be civil for the sake of the children.
Could be either. Just should be understood and interpreted, as it might affect the current relationship. And the old ones, for that matter. But today was helped by the twins' mom with a conjoint yard sale. In our case, better for the girls. Better for us. Worse for the lawyers.
Vierkaesehoch: Could be either. Just should be understood and interpreted, as it might affect the current relationship. And the old ones, for that matter. But today was helped by the twins' mom with a conjoint yard sale. In our case, better for the girls. Better for us. Worse for the lawyers.
Yeah, i really don't agree with giving money to Lawyers
Yep. their mom and I never married, and in this State, that means no 50:50 forced by courts on (typically) dad's assets. But I helped her and the girls, with housing, autos, education, etc. The right thing to do, of course, and zero scheisters to suck everyone dry.
Vierkaesehoch: Yep. their mom and I never married, and in this State, that means no 50:50 forced by courts on (typically) dad's assets. But I helped her and the girls, with housing, autos, education, etc. The right thing to do, of course, and zero scheisters to suck everyone dry.
Very clever , and as you said the right thing to do
Thanks, ar. But believe me, as proud as I am of such help, and of our evolved friendship, rarely does even hinting at it with a potential new partner bring anything but a mad rush for the door. As we mention in our forums/blogs. Strange.
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