Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life! ( Archived) (59)

Aug 5, 2018 8:59 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
SweetnFunnyChic
SweetnFunnyChicSweetnFunnyChicSharjah, United Arab Emirates10 Threads 5 Polls 374 Posts
I would not be okay with with my partner being in touch or meeting an ex. What is the need? I have met quite a few guys who still talk to their exes behind their partner's back and that's just weird and wrong. If my partner told me he is in touch with his ex I would make my feelings about it known but I wouldn't be happy about it. The past is the past why mix it into the present relationship? Its not like there are kids! If he still insisted on her being part of his life I would cut him loose.
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Aug 5, 2018 10:29 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
annaroach: Any opinions on this subject, some work , some don't , is their always an element of
distrust involved?

Would love to hear your comments on this possibly sensitive subject!


It does not affect me if my partner stays in contact with her ex. however, I love my privacy, and I keep it to a healthy level.

I did not keep contact with an ex, as I believe everyone deserves a piece of mind. I want them to liver life without my "presence". .

When in a relationship i follow the rule "I dont need nobody else…… I got you !!!". works for me. .
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Aug 5, 2018 11:47 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
That is a good attitude,, not to mind your partner being in contact with her ex.
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Aug 5, 2018 8:10 PM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
Wouldn’t have a problem with it, as long as no boundaries are broken, meaning he know where I stand, and I know where he stand
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Aug 5, 2018 8:35 PM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
Limun: very noble of you ,and im not question here your choice of Men you date , i believe you`re an excellent judge of character ,yet
Trust is something , in my personal opinion, that has to be built up, worked on ...
Are you honestly telling me that you wouldn't feel awkward if your partner prefers or gives more priority to the old relationship than the new one
Honestly...cordial is one thing....giving an old relationship priority over ours....then there would be a problem.......scold
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Aug 5, 2018 8:41 PM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
mca21979
mca21979mca21979Utica area, New York USA2 Threads 25 Posts
I believe the past is the past. When the relationship ends, so does all contact. If I still felt I needed to see and talk to them then it shouldn't have ended. Kids complicate it for some people but I personally still would not keep them as a friend. I would only be civil for the sake of the children.
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Aug 6, 2018 2:26 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
serene56
serene56serene56Myplace, New South Wales Australia543 Threads 10 Polls 27,957 Posts
annaroach: Any opinions on this subject, some work , some don't , is their always an element of
distrust involved?

Would love to hear your comments on this possibly sensitive subject!
The only valid reason I could think of for a partner's ex hanging around is because of shared children.

I dated a couple of guys with kids but there always seemed to be drama involved, ex-wise


Who needs it roll eyes
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Aug 6, 2018 2:35 AM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
serene56: The only valid reason I could think of for a partner's ex hanging around is because of shared children.

I dated a couple of guys with kids but there always seemed to be drama involved, ex-wise


Who needs it



Not me and i'm wiser for it professor
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Aug 11, 2018 3:51 PM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
annaroach: Any opinions on this subject, some work , some don't , is their always an element of
distrust involved?

Would love to hear your comments on this possibly sensitive subject!
This one!
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Aug 11, 2018 4:01 PM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
annaroach: This one!
I like this one betterer thumbs up
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Aug 11, 2018 4:03 PM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Lookin4missright: I like this one betterer
Thanks !thumbs up
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Aug 11, 2018 4:07 PM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
Contact with exes. Profiles with no pics. Our actions speak volumes.
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Aug 11, 2018 4:15 PM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Vierkaesehoch: Contact with exes. Profiles with no pics. Our actions speak volumes.
Good or bad?
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Aug 11, 2018 4:23 PM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
Could be either. Just should be understood and interpreted, as it might affect the current relationship. And the old ones, for that matter. But today was helped by the twins' mom with a conjoint yard sale. In our case, better for the girls. Better for us. Worse for the lawyers.
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Aug 11, 2018 4:27 PM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Vierkaesehoch: Could be either. Just should be understood and interpreted, as it might affect the current relationship. And the old ones, for that matter. But today was helped by the twins' mom with a conjoint yard sale. In our case, better for the girls. Better for us. Worse for the lawyers.


Yeah, i really don't agree with giving money to Lawyers
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Aug 11, 2018 4:30 PM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
I would prefer not....Its not something I want to deal with....I don't have any exes to add to the equation either.......wine
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Aug 11, 2018 4:33 PM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
Yep. their mom and I never married, and in this State, that means no 50:50 forced by courts on (typically) dad's assets. But I helped her and the girls, with housing, autos, education, etc. The right thing to do, of course, and zero scheisters to suck everyone dry.
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Aug 11, 2018 4:39 PM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Vierkaesehoch: Yep. their mom and I never married, and in this State, that means no 50:50 forced by courts on (typically) dad's assets. But I helped her and the girls, with housing, autos, education, etc. The right thing to do, of course, and zero scheisters to suck everyone dry.
Very clever , and as you said the right thing to dothumbs up
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Aug 11, 2018 5:10 PM CST Do You Think That A New Relationship Can Withstand,Ex'es, Being Part Of Your Partners Life!
Thanks, ar. But believe me, as proud as I am of such help, and of our evolved friendship, rarely does even hinting at it with a potential new partner bring anything but a mad rush for the door. As we mention in our forums/blogs. Strange.
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