Speed Dating....What To Reveal. (90)
deedee123xo:
The idea of it being you are given 3 minuses
My fear is that I would be given a lot more than 3.The idea of it being you are given 3 minuses
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deedee123xo: The concept of sped dating is something I havnt seen discussed here..
The idea of it being you are given 3 minuses with one person to reveal what you want known...also to ask what you want to know..
So with that in mind...what do you deem most important to have known to them
What do you deem important to ask
Given that you only have one and a half minutes for each
I'd ask what happened to his previous relationship. And I'd repeat (as it's already in my profile) that I don't do housekeeping.The idea of it being you are given 3 minuses with one person to reveal what you want known...also to ask what you want to know..
So with that in mind...what do you deem most important to have known to them
What do you deem important to ask
Given that you only have one and a half minutes for each
That's said, I don't see any point in speed dating.
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AlecSmart: My fear is that I would be given a lot more than 3.
Oh, you wouldn't hold out a couple of rounds? You look quite healthy on your photo: robust and confident.------ This thread is Archived ------
I always wanted to try speed dating. I would ask them first what they are looking for at this point in life, what type of woman they are seeking. If I like their answers I will explain what I'm looking for. Then we can exchange digits or wait till after the event.
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AlecSmart: My fear is that I would be given a lot more than 3.
The bigger fear Alec is that after the 3 minutes are up your onto the next one....speed dating is a long stream of people to "interview"....with 3 minutes for each.Somehow I can see no questions being asked on your date rather you will have her in stitches for the entire time.
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Tulefell: I'd ask what happened to his previous relationship. And I'd repeat (as it's already in my profile) that I don't do housekeeping.
That's said, I don't see any point in speed dating.
Don't knock it till you try it Tulefell That's said, I don't see any point in speed dating.
Would you actually reveal a negative in the 1 1/2 minutes??
That's interesting.
Not that not being domesticated is a negative but your putting yourself in possibly a bad light
Would nose that time to sell yourself well.let them slowly see any "negatives" later
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SweetnFunnyChic: I always wanted to try speed dating. I would ask them first what they are looking for at this point in life, what type of woman they are seeking. If I like their answers I will explain what I'm looking for. Then we can exchange digits or wait till after the event.
I'm not sure what happens at the end of these things because I've never tried it but often wondered about it.Yes I would myself ask them to describe themselves in 3 sentences.
Then ask what their ideal life was.
I would also ask them if they wanted children
And they feel about travelling..
I'm not sure what I would want to reveal as yet.
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deedee123xo: The concept of sped dating is something I havnt seen discussed here..
The idea of it being you are given 3 minuses with one person to reveal what you want known...also to ask what you want to know..
So with that in mind...what do you deem most important to have known to them
What do you deem important to ask
Given that you only have one and a half minutes for each
What the hell are you doing here?The idea of it being you are given 3 minuses with one person to reveal what you want known...also to ask what you want to know..
So with that in mind...what do you deem most important to have known to them
What do you deem important to ask
Given that you only have one and a half minutes for each
lets go !
what's in the safe?
Hey, D
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Bogart_1960: What the hell are you doing here?
lets go !
what's in the safe?
Hey, D
That's unique lets go !
what's in the safe?
Hey, D
A.I'm here because I'm trying to find you
B. Yes let's get out of here.
C. Oh just some whips and chains
Hey Bogie
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Bogart_1960: What the hell are you doing here?
lets go !
what's in the safe?
Hey, D
That's unique lets go !
what's in the safe?
Hey, D
A.I'm here because I'm trying to find you
B. Yes let's get out of here.
C. Oh just some whips and chains
Hey Bogie
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deedee123xo: Don't knock it till you try it Tulefell
Would you actually reveal a negative in the 1 1/2 minutes??
That's interesting.
Not that not being domesticated is a negative but your putting yourself in possibly a bad light
Would nose that time to sell yourself well.let them slowly see any "negatives" later
Well... indeed they say that everything is interesting at least once. But how come that a refusal to be domestic servant might be seen as negative? By whome? I certainly don't date extreme religious freaks, at any speed.Would you actually reveal a negative in the 1 1/2 minutes??
That's interesting.
Not that not being domesticated is a negative but your putting yourself in possibly a bad light
Would nose that time to sell yourself well.let them slowly see any "negatives" later
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Tulefell: Well... indeed they say that everything is interesting at least once. But how come that a refusal to be domestic servant might be seen as negative? By whome? I certainly don't date extreme religious freaks, at any speed.
The negative being that your leading with a "I don't do.......".Not being domesticated is a personal choice....
Being a servant is a whole other term and meaning
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First thing I do is to see if they have a healthy sense of humor. Very telling about mental health, intelligence, outlook on life, adaptability, sense of self worth and ability to self reflect/depreciate, and lots more. One figures out the rest as we go along.
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deedee123xo: That's unique
A.I'm here because I'm trying to find you
B. Yes let's get out of here.
C. Oh just some whips and chains
Hey Bogie
A.I'm here because I'm trying to find you
B. Yes let's get out of here.
C. Oh just some whips and chains
Hey Bogie
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deedee123xo: The negative being that your leading with a "I don't do.......".
Not being domesticated is a personal choice....
Being a servant is a whole other term and meaning
Didn't think about it from that perspective, will reformulate: I spend all my leasure time on plein air, preferably near / on water. And then ask him whether he likes cooking / vacuum cleaning.Not being domesticated is a personal choice....
Being a servant is a whole other term and meaning
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Tulefell: Didn't think about it from that perspective, will reformulate: I spend all my leasure time on plein air, preferably near / on water. And then ask him whether he likes cooking / vacuum cleaning.
I only say that because of the time frameIn 1 1/2 minutes for someone to hear 'it dont' even once could sway a decision.
Just looking out for u
Haha I find alot more men nowadays are far more into helping around the house so ur luck is in.
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I cook clean iron washing even make the bed up all you women take your time now with the mail lol
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Vierkaesehoch: First thing I do is to see if they have a healthy sense of humor. Very telling about mental health, intelligence, outlook on life, adaptability, sense of self worth and ability to self reflect/depreciate, and lots more. One figures out the rest as we go along.
I have to disagree.One common trait in people who suffer from depression is the need to "be funny to put a face on"....you don't get a full mental health picture from a minute and a half.
So why not try find out about life values..common interests...because if u don't have them ..the best form of mental health isn't going to make for a good relationship.
Where as having common interests and goals wI'll see a relationship develop further even if there is some slight mental health issues.
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Vierkaesehoch: First thing I do is to see if they have a healthy sense of humor. Very telling about mental health, intelligence, outlook on life, adaptability, sense of self worth and ability to self reflect/depreciate, and lots more. One figures out the rest as we go along.
I have to disagree.One common trait in people who suffer from depression is the need to "be funny to put a face on"....you don't get a full mental health picture from a minute and a half.
So why not try find out about life values..common interests...because if u don't have them ..the best form of mental health isn't going to make for a good relationship.
Where as having common interests and goals wI'll see a relationship develop further even if there is some slight mental health issues.
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The idea of it being you are given 3 minuses with one person to reveal what you want known...also to ask what you want to know..
So with that in mind...what do you deem most important to have known to them
What do you deem important to ask
Given that you only have one and a half minutes for each