Yes, I get angry now and then, with myself and with other people... I go through it and vent it out usually in a very productive way... And, no, that's not a joke...
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
pKrema: Yes, I get angry now and then, with myself and with other people... I go through it and vent it out usually in a very productive way... And, no, that's not a joke...
pKrema: Yes, I get angry now and then, with myself and with other people... I go through it and vent it out usually in a very productive way... And, no, that's not a joke...
How can anger be productive. It may make you feel better but what about the person at the receiving end if it’s not you?
MsContessa: How can anger be productive. It may make you feel better but what about the person at the receiving end if it’s not you?
Who said there is a person at the receiving end...? One may get me angry but it doesn't mean I vent my anger at them... I do a lot of things when angry, things I usually postpone for example... And, no, anger doesn't make me feel better but the work I accomplish does...
pKrema: Yes, I get angry now and then, with myself and with other people... I go through it and vent it out usually in a very productive way... And, no, that's not a joke...
Yes I understand , controlled or channeled can be productive. All that energy can be harnessed and channeled to a project.
pKrema: Who said there is a person at the receiving end...? One may get me angry but it doesn't mean I vent my anger at them... I do a lot of things when angry, things I usually postpone for example... And, no, anger doesn't make me feel better but the work I accomplish does...
When you use it to energies that makes sense! You can hardly hurt yourself too much!
pKrema: Yes, I get angry now and then, with myself and with other people... I go through it and vent it out usually in a very productive way... And, no, that's not a joke...
Anger is a great motivator. It has motivated me many times to do things I didn't want to do but needed to be done. There are many legitimate reasons to get angry and not all of them are caused by people. Sometimes that anger can be used to fix the cause of the anger in the first place, whether it be by confronting a person who has done or is doing something wrong or just repairing something that's broken. That doesn't mean every time you get angry at someone you should confront them. often times it's just not worth the additional problems it may cause. Better to direct your anger elsewhere.
bigjb62: Anger is a great motivator. It has motivated me many times to do things I didn't want to do but needed to be done. There are many legitimate reasons to get angry and not all of them are caused by people. Sometimes that anger can be used to fix the cause of the anger in the first place, whether it be by confronting a person who has done or is doing something wrong or just repairing something that's broken. That doesn't mean every time you get angry at someone you should confront them. often times it's just not worth the additional problems it may cause. Better to direct your anger elsewhere.
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Where does it lead U....