Anger....is it productive....? ( Archived) (47)

Aug 19, 2018 2:53 AM CST Anger....is it productive....?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Can we just forget what the thick, clever books say and actually speak for our own experience...?! dunno
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Aug 19, 2018 3:11 AM CST Anger....is it productive....?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
pKrema: Can we just forget what the thick, clever books say and actually speak for our own experience...?!
I agree, books are a perception of other people ideologies on life and not necessarily suited to your own.
People have to get out there & experience it themselves .
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Aug 19, 2018 3:18 AM CST Anger....is it productive....?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
One2note: I agree, books are a perception of other people ideologies on life and not necessarily suited to your own.
People have to get out there & experience it themselves .
I never try and put in a box behaviour or feeling, emotion or a person...
Everyone comes with their unique experience and there's always something new to be learned from it...
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Aug 19, 2018 3:19 AM CST Anger....is it productive....?
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
tangeos: When we base our actions on such feeling as anger it often leads to stupid actions and to misery because what we really experience in the moment is just signaling the quality of our thinking at that moment.
We experience anger for several reasons including it being a defense mechanism.... suppressed anger is really bad for you as it remains simmering so it is best to get it out! You are right about stupid actions so you really have to be focused on something productive and be alone! Working with the public can be very stressful but when the public are your bread and butter; that tends to focus the mind.
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Aug 19, 2018 4:26 AM CST Anger....is it productive....?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
The anger I can’t find a reason for is passive aggression. If regular anger can be a reproductive advantage and lifesaver in a dangerous situation then what’s the point of passive aggression?

Passive aggression receive nil points for passion, it’s no good in a scrape and nor is it a particularly honest feeling. There are some occasions when the truth comes out because of real anger. Or is that the point of passivity? It never does anything good per se it simply enfeebles the potentially bad.
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Aug 20, 2018 1:35 AM CST Anger....is it productive....?
chris27292729
chris27292729chris27292729IOS island, South Aegean Greece93 Threads 15,811 Posts
Anger 99%
is counter productive.-
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Aug 22, 2018 5:18 AM CST Anger....is it productive....?
Bogart_1960
Bogart_1960Bogart_1960Ask me !, Provence-Alpes-Cote d'Azur France36 Threads 1 Polls 10,012 Posts
depends, advice - Good / Bad....?
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