pKrema: Well, I believe most people have good intentions when giving an advice... But you can't make anyone take it...and their will should be respected, no matter if they are right or wrong...
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
pKrema: Well, I believe most people have good intentions when giving an advise... But you can't make anyone take it...and their will should be respected, no matter if they are right or wrong...
When u go to the Dr, u get a prescription, but not all Dr's prescribe the correct medicine, as they did not ask all the relevant questions, due to whatever reason, short on time, mostly.....
Now it works the same way with uninvited advice. U did not ask for the advice, but this person thinks they know better, but do not always know all the background, and even if they did, r not necessarily correct......
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
pKrema: The doctors are not always right, that's true but they do give advices, that's their job... When I decide I should say what I think of a certain situation I try not to make it sound like advising the person... People don't always see the good intentions or value of an advice...wanted or unwanted... It's not about who knows better... Sometimes people who are not involved can see better what's going on then those involved...and have a better evaluation of the situation...
Very true:- a looker-on can sometimes see the situation better...
But I stick to uninvited advice is uninvited...and thus not wanted or required....and can quite upset people....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
pedro27: a bottle of wine then candles all around the bath then we both become naked in the bath rose pattles every where, and I will leave the rest up to ur imagination
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
pedro27: only on special nights though...!
Yah, like every night....that would make it too regular....and it must be totally unplanned, spur of the moment, but u need to still get all the goodies before hand....so planned come what may....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
bodleing2: I must have interpreted it wrong...looks like advice to me.
Where were u educated....UK....There uninvited advise is seen as everyday talking....and everyone does it all the time.....just being social....not so....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
unlaoised: Hang on. On the one hand, nothing new has interested you in the past 15 years and the very next post.....people interest you
Ur trying ur tricks again....
Now use ur brain: If I have studied psychology, people has always interested me....but I notice certain things about them, that fascinates me....so to make a long story short....
Ur again jumping to the wrong conclusions….
Be a darling and try to use ur brain to better effect, except snide remarks....
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The person giving the advice,
we presume means well.....?
But do they always....?