Breaking up (63)
I know it is not an easy thing to discuss because of the soured feelings but I am confident, there are some of us, who would like to remember a bit of that.
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if your' both not facing forward
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There's not point, in looking back.
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There's not point, in looking back.
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There's no easy way out...
Ideal situation is when both have come to this point where you don't see any meaning to keep on going on...together...
But that rarely happens, one will be hurt more than the other one...
Maybe take a break, see how it feels...then talk it over and make a final decision...
Ideal situation is when both have come to this point where you don't see any meaning to keep on going on...together...
But that rarely happens, one will be hurt more than the other one...
Maybe take a break, see how it feels...then talk it over and make a final decision...
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Dreams:
Realites:
''Dreams and realities of race. Dreams always run ahead but always real win.''
Realites:
''Dreams and realities of race. Dreams always run ahead but always real win.''
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You can "rationalize" things and in theory "working on it" sounds fine but if the passion is gone, its gone and it rarely ever comes back.
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Track16: You can "rationalize" things and in theory "working on it" sounds fine but if the passion is gone, its gone and it rarely ever comes back.
I hear you Track.Got killed by cheating.
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InstincThis: if your' both not facing forward
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There's not point, in looking back.
Yes instinc. Still the uneasiness, though is a killer..
There's not point, in looking back.
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pKrema: There's no easy way out...
Ideal situation is when both have come to this point where you don't see any meaning to keep on going on...together...
But that rarely happens, one will be hurt more than the other one...
Maybe take a break, see how it feels...then talk it over and make a final decision...
Krema yes to that. Ideal situation is when both have come to this point where you don't see any meaning to keep on going on...together...
But that rarely happens, one will be hurt more than the other one...
Maybe take a break, see how it feels...then talk it over and make a final decision...
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BlueLifeTr: Dreams:
Realites:
''Dreams and realities of race. Dreams always run ahead but always real win.''
Wow the puffed up lips.Realites:
''Dreams and realities of race. Dreams always run ahead but always real win.''
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lindsyjones: I don't look forward to this part of a relationship. Yet it is inevitable. When things are not working as planned and or the so called love is going sideways for whatever reason. What is next? Forward or Reverse?
I am not the person that is easily convinced that trust and commitment will get restored if both are willing to work it out. Really?
I am finding the right door to get out at the moment. lol, hopefully the door is wide open.
Anyways share your feelings if you can relate to this.
Do you find ending a relationship quite easy? Or hard? I know it depends, but to me, it is a very uneasy feelings to go through.
Hey PhyllisI am not the person that is easily convinced that trust and commitment will get restored if both are willing to work it out. Really?
I am finding the right door to get out at the moment. lol, hopefully the door is wide open.
Anyways share your feelings if you can relate to this.
Do you find ending a relationship quite easy? Or hard? I know it depends, but to me, it is a very uneasy feelings to go through.
Guess who sang this song
Knowing me, knowing you
There is nothing we can do
Knowing me, knowing you
We just have to face it, this time we're through
Breaking up is never easy, I know but I have to go
Knowing me, knowing you
It's the best I can do
Of course it hurts but if you both talk and have the proper closure then it would be easier to both side
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Breakups are a very tough for one or all sides. But there's a side that's often left out. When you have children, and then breakup. In every case (infants excluded) you're causing undue psychological damage to your children and I believe they never get completely over it. It may not be obvious, but it's still there. The only time it's better to breakup is when there's violence in the relationship. The children's exposure to violence is far worse then the breakup. Once you have children you have made a commitment to raise them as a couple in a happy home and it is you duty to see it through.
Sadly people are no longer being taught that, but being taught it's OK to think only of yourself.
Sadly people are no longer being taught that, but being taught it's OK to think only of yourself.
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bigjb62: Breakups are a very tough for one or all sides. But there's a side that's often left out. When you have children, and then breakup. In every case (infants excluded) you're causing undue psychological damage to your children and I believe they never get completely over it. It may not be obvious, but it's still there. The only time it's better to breakup is when there's violence in the relationship. The children's exposure to violence is far worse then the breakup. Once you have children you have made a commitment to raise them as a couple in a happy home and it is you duty to see it through.
Sadly people are no longer being taught that, but being taught it's OK to think only of yourself.
Hey BigSadly people are no longer being taught that, but being taught it's OK to think only of yourself.
I do agree with you but the tthing is even u wanted not to have that breaking up coz of the childten and yes we commityed to care for their right and needs but suppose both sides fight every now and then
then it wouldnt be good for the kids to see because thiscwill cause then psychologically.
just my opinion buddy
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lindsyjones: I don't look forward to this part of a relationship. Yet it is inevitable. When things are not working as planned and or the so called love is going sideways for whatever reason. What is next? Forward or Reverse?
I am not the person that is easily convinced that trust and commitment will get restored if both are willing to work it out. Really?
I am finding the right door to get out at the moment. lol, hopefully the door is wide open.
Anyways share your feelings if you can relate to this.
Do you find ending a relationship quite easy? Or hard? I know it depends, but to me, it is a very uneasy feelings to go through.
The fact that you feel that the relationship is ending means that you have been giving it thought and in essence you are also coming to terms with the breakup. However, your partner may have no idea. You must discuss how you feel about him and the relationship with him. Otherwise, for him, you are creating a car crash breakup and a great deal of rejection. Be kind, allow him be part of the breakup! Everyone in a relationship deserves openness and honesty!I am not the person that is easily convinced that trust and commitment will get restored if both are willing to work it out. Really?
I am finding the right door to get out at the moment. lol, hopefully the door is wide open.
Anyways share your feelings if you can relate to this.
Do you find ending a relationship quite easy? Or hard? I know it depends, but to me, it is a very uneasy feelings to go through.
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ysabeljhen: Hey Big
I do agree with you but the tthing is even u wanted not to have that breaking up coz of the childten and yes we commityed to care for their right and needs but suppose both sides fight every now and then then it wouldnt be good for the kids to see because thiscwill cause then psychologically.
just my opinion buddy
It's the parents responsibility to work things out for the children. That includes not fighting in front or within earshot of them. But we are all human and sometimes with most couples fights in front of the kids can happen. It's still better for a child to see that then to go through a divorce.I do agree with you but the tthing is even u wanted not to have that breaking up coz of the childten and yes we commityed to care for their right and needs but suppose both sides fight every now and then then it wouldnt be good for the kids to see because thiscwill cause then psychologically.
just my opinion buddy
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Generally for me it boils down to things I cant live with......in that way its an easy decision but its not easy living without the good positive things that you loved about your partner....it takes awhile to get over and move on......
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bigjb62: It's the parents responsibility to work things out for the children. That includes not fighting in front or within earshot of them. But we are all human and sometimes with most couples fights in front of the kids can happen. It's still better for a child to see that then to go through a divorce.
It should be thst way but @ times we tend to be fed up if the same old problems are never resolved.If kids are nomore kids they would understand if we let them understand what has been hapening.
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bigjb62: Breakups are a very tough for one or all sides. But there's a side that's often left out. When you have children, and then breakup. In every case (infants excluded) you're causing undue psychological damage to your children and I believe they never get completely over it. It may not be obvious, but it's still there. The only time it's better to breakup is when there's violence in the relationship. The children's exposure to violence is far worse then the breakup. Once you have children you have made a commitment to raise them as a couple in a happy home and it is you duty to see it through.
Sadly people are no longer being taught that, but being taught it's OK to think only of yourself.
That sums it up!!Sadly people are no longer being taught that, but being taught it's OK to think only of yourself.
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I weight the pros and cons and then make my decicion.
If things,to my opinion, aren't going to improve for the better in the
future,then is "good by charlie".
If things,to my opinion, aren't going to improve for the better in the
future,then is "good by charlie".
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ysabeljhen: It should be thst way but @ times we tend to be fed up if the same old problems are never resolved.If kids are nomore kids they would understand if we let them understand what has been hapening.
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I am not the person that is easily convinced that trust and commitment will get restored if both are willing to work it out. Really?
I am finding the right door to get out at the moment. lol, hopefully the door is wide open.
Anyways share your feelings if you can relate to this.
Do you find ending a relationship quite easy? Or hard? I know it depends, but to me, it is a very uneasy feelings to go through.