Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
pKrema: Sorry Snook, I am taking a break and don't want any attention, might put a face back when mods force me... If on an island I'll depend on weather and natural resources...and the fate...
The point is:- If u r alone, u can plan, else not, or u have to take human machinations into account.....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
pKrema: I can only plan when everything depends on me and me alone... When I have all the pieces and have to make something out of them... When other elements are present you can never expect anything to go as you planned it...
U have a habit, of putting most of what I think into words.....nice.....I don't have to say anything.....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
mykingdomforanam: I live on an island; and I planned on going to the Farmers Market this week; but a hurricane is hanging around; and the market was closed Wednesday, and today.
Since I know things don't always go according to our plans, I planned on the possibility of not leaving my house for a month or two; so it won't matter to me if it rains like this for another week, or two, or more.
Here by me, we don't have hurricanes as yet, u don't know what will happen in the future with the weather changing constantly. We actually have a very nice climate, at present, and the past. It is very windy here by me at present, but some things seems to not be changing, as August is our windy month.
Ur island sounds nice......I hope ur far away from the tourists....?
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
pKrema: Yes, work plans are not in the same pot as life plans... But planning on your life could be fun, especially when not alone...and you can always play around and make it even better... Working hard should be balanced with a pinch of sweet craziness...
I work too hard, most of the time....with just my kids and animals to relieve the tension...oh...yes...a good book too.....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
pKrema: I know exactly how it feels... But it's up to you to break the circle... I am trying that myself...
Yes, a man to make sweet love to me....at the moment.....can do to relax..... The thing is I have been on this site almost 5 years, and no luck, whatsoever.....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
pKrema: You are not the only one with no luck, may be it's time to get out and about...
I don't have the time or the energy....to flaunt myself....as I thought that by this time I would have liked and met someone here on Cs.....I am just not interested at present.....
Snookums33OPJoburg, Gauteng South Africa5,760 posts
ysabeljhen: Don't lose hope Snook believe u will have him in due time there is someone there for u that is really for u
Do u realise that I have been single since 1992......That is almost 27 years now.....The chances r definitely not very good at all.....I will not lie to myself.....I'm too picky.....
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do they happen as planned...?
When its done on the spur of the moment,
do u have a better chance of it working out.....?
When having some idea of what u want to achieve,
with no planning, and no expectations,
is the result more expected/unexpected....?