Hi, I'm fairly new to this site and just have a question. If you happen to be getting to know someone on here and find out that this man can be a great threat to other women can we post their pic along with the info we have? Heres the situation, I started getting tobknow someone on here..everything was going very well except that my intuition was screaming at me to beware..there was just something so i started doing a little investigating and found out through a little internet searching that he almost beat his last spouse to death. The court article was horendous...mu worry is, this man will troll these sites and eventually find a woman who will indeed fall for his crap and get into a potentialy life threatning situation and i have his pic along with the info that could save the next woman in his life. Just not sure if i can share that, if i cant please women and men..remember the internet is a great tool to find the truth out about people..please please do a bit of investigation before you get too far into a relashionship with anyone. And follow your gut..if somethings nagging you that it doesnt seem right..theres reason, follow it. Have a good day everyone.
If you post internet link or links to what you describe without naming and as your opinion & suggest taking a look as advice that would not break rules as its a warning based on your opinion .
Tson77: Hi, I'm fairly new to this site and just have a question. If you happen to be getting to know someone on here and find out that this man can be a great threat to other women can we post their pic along with the info we have? Heres the situation, I started getting tobknow someone on here..everything was going very well except that my intuition was screaming at me to beware..there was just something so i started doing a little investigating and found out through a little internet searching that he almost beat his last spouse to death. The court article was horendous...mu worry is, this man will troll these sites and eventually find a woman who will indeed fall for his crap and get into a potentialy life threatning situation and i have his pic along with the info that could save the next woman in his life. Just not sure if i can share that, if i cant please women and men..remember the internet is a great tool to find the truth out about people..please please do a bit of investigation before you get too far into a relashionship with anyone. And follow your gut..if somethings nagging you that it doesnt seem right..theres reason, follow it. Have a good day everyone.
I'd say you would be in danger of being banned by the mods.
wobblyheed: I can see where you're coming from, but the OP has said there is evidence elsewhere on the internet.
Why not out him?
He also, can just make another profile. Just means he has to start from scratch grooming his next potential victim
I also can understand what you're saying, but if this kind of 'outing' is allowed it opens the door for all kinds of accusations about other members. For all we know, these claims could be completely bogus, or not, we just don't know for certain. She should write to admin to let them know of her concerns and let them deal with it. There have been many cases in the UK where totally innocent people have been victimised or even seriously injured by so called name and shame situations. There's right and proper ways of dealing with this and I don't believe naming someone on a public forum is the correct way of going about it.
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bodleing2: I also can understand what you're saying, but if this kind of 'outing' is allowed it opens the door for all kinds of accusations about other members. For all we know, these claims could be completely bogus, or not, we just don't know for certain. She should write to admin to let them know of her concerns and let them deal with it. There have been many cases in the UK where totally innocent people have been victimised or even seriously injured by so called name and shame situations. There's right and proper ways of dealing with this and I don't believe naming someone on a public forum is the correct way of going about it.
You're 100% right.
I let the mention of evidence elsewhere override my common sense.
bodleing2: I also can understand what you're saying, but if this kind of 'outing' is allowed it opens the door for all kinds of accusations about other members. For all we know, these claims could be completely bogus, or not, we just don't know for certain. She should write to admin to let them know of her concerns and let them deal with it. There have been many cases in the UK where totally innocent people have been victimised or even seriously injured by so called name and shame situations. There's right and proper ways of dealing with this and I don't believe naming someone on a public forum is the correct way of going about it.
I agree the mods rule about naming and shaming is for a very good reason, what's to stop someone maliciously spreading untruths as an act of revenge, we have seen the instances of pure hatred on here, i say, privately send your fears to ad,min. . They are the people to deal with it .
aries1234: I agree the mods rule about naming and shaming is for a very good reason, what's to stop someone maliciously spreading untruths as an act of revenge, we have seen the instances of pure hatred on here, i say, privately send your fears to ad,min. . They are the people to deal with it .
It's unfortunate that there are people around who would use this platform for vengeful purpose, and I'm not suggesting the OP is one of them. But, more harm than good can be cause by allowing or condoning public outings, it can become a very slippery slope indeed.
Tson77: Hi, I'm fairly new to this site and just have a question. If you happen to be getting to know someone on here and find out that this man can be a great threat to other women can we post their pic along with the info we have? Heres the situation, I started getting tobknow someone on here..everything was going very well except that my intuition was screaming at me to beware..there was just something so i started doing a little investigating and found out through a little internet searching that he almost beat his last spouse to death. The court article was horendous...mu worry is, this man will troll these sites and eventually find a woman who will indeed fall for his crap and get into a potentialy life threatning situation and i have his pic along with the info that could save the next woman in his life. Just not sure if i can share that, if i cant please women and men..remember the internet is a great tool to find the truth out about people..please please do a bit of investigation before you get too far into a relashionship with anyone. And follow your gut..if somethings nagging you that it doesnt seem right..theres reason, follow it. Have a good day everyone.
Report him and accompany your report with the link
aries1234: I'd say you would be in danger of being banned by the mods.
The right answer is to understand the rules and not just obey out of fear because if you're honest with yourself that's not really a consequence worth worrying about, is it? Being banned from a website is not a high price for saving a woman's life. Doing the right thing for completely the wrong reason, how typical of Brexit kind.
Tson77: Hi, I'm fairly new to this site and just have a question. If you happen to be getting to know someone on here and find out that this man can be a great threat to other women can we post their pic along with the info we have? Heres the situation, I started getting tobknow someone on here..everything was going very well except that my intuition was screaming at me to beware..there was just something so i started doing a little investigating and found out through a little internet searching that he almost beat his last spouse to death. The court article was horendous...mu worry is, this man will troll these sites and eventually find a woman who will indeed fall for his crap and get into a potentialy life threatning situation and i have his pic along with the info that could save the next woman in his life. Just not sure if i can share that, if i cant please women and men..remember the internet is a great tool to find the truth out about people..please please do a bit of investigation before you get too far into a relashionship with anyone. And follow your gut..if somethings nagging you that it doesnt seem right..theres reason, follow it. Have a good day everyone.
reasons for beating up his ex, was it self defence? has he been doing some time behind bars ? is his ex alive?
ChesneyChrist: The right answer is to understand the rules and not just obey out of fear because if you're honest with yourself that's not really a consequence worth worrying about, is it? Being banned from a website is not a high price for saving a woman's life. Doing the right thing for completely the wrong reason, how typical of Brexit kind.
Wow what a reaction to something which at the moment has no proof just the promise of it ,fro a woman, haybe he dumped her.
I bet you knitted at the scaffold
What happened to a man is innocent until proven guilty.
aries1234: Wow what a reaction to something which at the moment has no proof just the promise of it ,fro a woman, haybe he dumped her.
I bet you knitted at the scaffold
What happened to a man is innocent until proven guilty.
'I didn't expect a knee jerk reaction fro you.
You only came back with the "innocent until proven" argument when Dedo posted. Before that, you were all about her being banned from CS, the worst.thing.ever!
unlaoised: You only came back with the "innocent until proven" argument when Dedo posted. Before that, you were all about her being banned from CS, the worst.thing.ever!
Rubbish ny posts are there for every one to see, showing your fabrications
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