Buyer beware ( Archived) (32)

Sep 7, 2018 8:14 AM CST Buyer beware
Tson77
Tson77Tson77Summerside, Prince Edward Island Canada1 Threads 6 Posts
Hi, I'm fairly new to this site and just have a question. If you happen to be getting to know someone on here and find out that this man can be a great threat to other women can we post their pic along with the info we have? Heres the situation, I started getting tobknow someone on here..everything was going very well except that my intuition was screaming at me to beware..there was just something so i started doing a little investigating and found out through a little internet searching that he almost beat his last spouse to death. The court article was horendous...mu worry is, this man will troll these sites and eventually find a woman who will indeed fall for his crap and get into a potentialy life threatning situation and i have his pic along with the info that could save the next woman in his life. Just not sure if i can share that, if i cant please women and men..remember the internet is a great tool to find the truth out about people..please please do a bit of investigation before you get too far into a relashionship with anyone. And follow your gut..if somethings nagging you that it doesnt seem right..theres reason, follow it. Have a good day everyone.
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Sep 7, 2018 8:33 AM CST Buyer beware
MikeD12
MikeD12MikeD12Broadstairs, Kent, England UK16 Threads 2 Polls 2,809 Posts
If you post internet link or links to what you describe without naming and as your opinion & suggest taking a look as advice that would not break rules as its a warning based on your opinion .
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Sep 7, 2018 8:42 AM CST Buyer beware
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
Tson77: Hi, I'm fairly new to this site and just have a question. If you happen to be getting to know someone on here and find out that this man can be a great threat to other women can we post their pic along with the info we have? Heres the situation, I started getting tobknow someone on here..everything was going very well except that my intuition was screaming at me to beware..there was just something so i started doing a little investigating and found out through a little internet searching that he almost beat his last spouse to death. The court article was horendous...mu worry is, this man will troll these sites and eventually find a woman who will indeed fall for his crap and get into a potentialy life threatning situation and i have his pic along with the info that could save the next woman in his life. Just not sure if i can share that, if i cant please women and men..remember the internet is a great tool to find the truth out about people..please please do a bit of investigation before you get too far into a relashionship with anyone. And follow your gut..if somethings nagging you that it doesnt seem right..theres reason, follow it. Have a good day everyone.
I'd say you would be in danger of being banned by the mods.
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Sep 7, 2018 8:49 AM CST Buyer beware
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
Tyson77 I don't think I would take the chance of getting into trouble with the mods and just better to say nothing.
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Sep 7, 2018 8:59 AM CST Buyer beware
wobblyheed
wobblyheedwobblyheedSunderland, Tyne and Wear, England UK14 Threads 785 Posts
Post and be damned.

You can always set up another profile.

I'd rather risk a ban than leave some unsuspecting woman at the hands of a psycho.
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Sep 7, 2018 9:09 AM CST Buyer beware
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
Totally against site rules....and for very good reasons imo.
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Sep 7, 2018 9:27 AM CST Buyer beware
wobblyheed
wobblyheedwobblyheedSunderland, Tyne and Wear, England UK14 Threads 785 Posts
bodleing2: .and for very good reasons imo.
I can see where you're coming from, but the OP has said there is evidence elsewhere on the internet.

Why not out him?

He also, can just make another profile. Just means he has to start from scratch grooming his next potential victim
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Sep 7, 2018 10:00 AM CST Buyer beware
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
wobblyheed: I can see where you're coming from, but the OP has said there is evidence elsewhere on the internet.

Why not out him?

He also, can just make another profile. Just means he has to start from scratch grooming his next potential victim
I also can understand what you're saying, but if this kind of 'outing' is allowed it opens the door for all kinds of accusations about other members.
For all we know, these claims could be completely bogus, or not, we just don't know for certain.
She should write to admin to let them know of her concerns and let them deal with it.
There have been many cases in the UK where totally innocent people have been victimised or even seriously injured by so called name and shame situations.
There's right and proper ways of dealing with this and I don't believe naming someone on a public forum is the correct way of going about it.
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Sep 7, 2018 10:08 AM CST Buyer beware
wobblyheed
wobblyheedwobblyheedSunderland, Tyne and Wear, England UK14 Threads 785 Posts
bodleing2: I also can understand what you're saying, but if this kind of 'outing' is allowed it opens the door for all kinds of accusations about other members.
For all we know, these claims could be completely bogus, or not, we just don't know for certain.
She should write to admin to let them know of her concerns and let them deal with it.
There have been many cases in the UK where totally innocent people have been victimised or even seriously injured by so called name and shame situations.
There's right and proper ways of dealing with this and I don't believe naming someone on a public forum is the correct way of going about it.
You're 100% right.

I let the mention of evidence elsewhere override my common sense.

I'll go make tea now.
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Sep 7, 2018 10:09 AM CST Buyer beware
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
bodleing2: I also can understand what you're saying, but if this kind of 'outing' is allowed it opens the door for all kinds of accusations about other members.
For all we know, these claims could be completely bogus, or not, we just don't know for certain.
She should write to admin to let them know of her concerns and let them deal with it.
There have been many cases in the UK where totally innocent people have been victimised or even seriously injured by so called name and shame situations.
There's right and proper ways of dealing with this and I don't believe naming someone on a public forum is the correct way of going about it.
I agree the mods rule about naming and shaming is for a very good reason, what's to stop someone maliciously spreading untruths as an act of revenge, we have seen the instances of pure hatred on here, i say, privately send your fears to ad,min. . They are the people to deal with it .
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Sep 7, 2018 10:20 AM CST Buyer beware
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
aries1234: I agree the mods rule about naming and shaming is for a very good reason, what's to stop someone maliciously spreading untruths as an act of revenge, we have seen the instances of pure hatred on here, i say, privately send your fears to ad,min. . They are the people to deal with it .
It's unfortunate that there are people around who would use this platform for vengeful purpose, and I'm not suggesting the OP is one of them.
But, more harm than good can be cause by allowing or condoning public outings, it can become a very slippery slope indeed.
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Sep 7, 2018 12:39 PM CST Buyer beware
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
Tson77: Hi, I'm fairly new to this site and just have a question. If you happen to be getting to know someone on here and find out that this man can be a great threat to other women can we post their pic along with the info we have? Heres the situation, I started getting tobknow someone on here..everything was going very well except that my intuition was screaming at me to beware..there was just something so i started doing a little investigating and found out through a little internet searching that he almost beat his last spouse to death. The court article was horendous...mu worry is, this man will troll these sites and eventually find a woman who will indeed fall for his crap and get into a potentialy life threatning situation and i have his pic along with the info that could save the next woman in his life. Just not sure if i can share that, if i cant please women and men..remember the internet is a great tool to find the truth out about people..please please do a bit of investigation before you get too far into a relashionship with anyone. And follow your gut..if somethings nagging you that it doesnt seem right..theres reason, follow it. Have a good day everyone.
Report him and accompany your report with the link
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Sep 7, 2018 12:40 PM CST Buyer beware
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
wobblyheed: I can see where you're coming from, but the OP has said there is evidence elsewhere on the internet.

Why not out him?

He also, can just make another profile. Just means he has to start from scratch grooming his next potential victim
If only but ......mumbling
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Sep 7, 2018 1:06 PM CST Buyer beware
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
aries1234: I'd say you would be in danger of being banned by the mods.
The right answer is to understand the rules and not just obey out of fear because if you're honest with yourself that's not really a consequence worth worrying about, is it? Being banned from a website is not a high price for saving a woman's life. Doing the right thing for completely the wrong reason, how typical of Brexit kind.
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Sep 7, 2018 1:09 PM CST Buyer beware
Limun
LimunLimunAbidos, Central Serbia Serbia6 Threads 1 Polls 1,923 Posts
Tson77: Hi, I'm fairly new to this site and just have a question. If you happen to be getting to know someone on here and find out that this man can be a great threat to other women can we post their pic along with the info we have? Heres the situation, I started getting tobknow someone on here..everything was going very well except that my intuition was screaming at me to beware..there was just something so i started doing a little investigating and found out through a little internet searching that he almost beat his last spouse to death. The court article was horendous...mu worry is, this man will troll these sites and eventually find a woman who will indeed fall for his crap and get into a potentialy life threatning situation and i have his pic along with the info that could save the next woman in his life. Just not sure if i can share that, if i cant please women and men..remember the internet is a great tool to find the truth out about people..please please do a bit of investigation before you get too far into a relashionship with anyone. And follow your gut..if somethings nagging you that it doesnt seem right..theres reason, follow it. Have a good day everyone.
reasons for beating up his ex, was it self defence?
has he been doing some time behind bars ?
is his ex alive?
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Sep 7, 2018 1:18 PM CST Buyer beware
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
ChesneyChrist: The right answer is to understand the rules and not just obey out of fear because if you're honest with yourself that's not really a consequence worth worrying about, is it? Being banned from a website is not a high price for saving a woman's life. Doing the right thing for completely the wrong reason, how typical of Brexit kind.
Wow what a reaction to something which at the moment has no proof just the promise of it ,fro a woman, haybe he dumped her.

I bet you knitted at the scaffold

What happened to a man is innocent until proven guilty.

'I didn't expect a knee jerk reaction fro you.
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Sep 7, 2018 1:21 PM CST Buyer beware
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
aries1234: Wow what a reaction to something which at the moment has no proof just the promise of it ,fro a woman, haybe he dumped her.

I bet you knitted at the scaffold

What happened to a man is innocent until proven guilty.

'I didn't expect a knee jerk reaction fro you.
You only came back with the "innocent until proven" argument when Dedo posted. Before that, you were all about her being banned from CS, the worst.thing.ever! roll eyes
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Sep 7, 2018 1:31 PM CST Buyer beware
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
unlaoised: You only came back with the "innocent until proven" argument when Dedo posted. Before that, you were all about her being banned from CS, the worst.thing.ever!
Rubbish ny posts are there for every one to see, showing your fabrications
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Sep 7, 2018 1:32 PM CST Buyer beware
unlaoised
unlaoisedunlaoisedTwilight zone, Wicklow Ireland34 Threads 12,152 Posts
aries1234: Rubbish ny posts are there for every one to see, showing your fabrications
Yes they are....and 99% of your comments here are of absolutely no use, bar insulting OP or the poster previous to you. It's what you do.
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Sep 7, 2018 1:38 PM CST Buyer beware
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
unlaoised: Yes they are....and 99% of your comments here are of absolutely no use, bar insulting OP or the poster previous to you. It's what you do.
Sorry i' watching Coronation Streetwave
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