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Sep 8, 2018 9:47 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
joedockanson
joedockansonjoedockansonElmhurst, New York USA42 Threads 135 Posts
Revenge or Forgiveness: Which Road Do You Walk?
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Sep 8, 2018 9:57 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
joedockanson: Revenge or Forgiveness: Which Road Do You Walk?
Forgiveness if not for their sake but my own sake then I move on..I don't hold grudges as some do.
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Sep 8, 2018 10:03 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
None...
I don't think it's possible to forgive without forgetting...
If we want to learn from our mistake we can not really forget about them...
Revenge is poisonous ...
So, none...
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Sep 8, 2018 10:06 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
Limun
LimunLimunAbidos, Central Serbia Serbia6 Threads 1 Polls 1,923 Posts
joedockanson: Revenge or Forgiveness: Which Road Do You Walk?
both
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Sep 8, 2018 10:11 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
joedockanson
joedockansonjoedockansonElmhurst, New York USA42 Threads 135 Posts
Revenge gives satisfaction ! peace of mind.
otherwise , you can't function normally.
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Sep 8, 2018 10:14 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
joedockanson: Revenge or Forgiveness: Which Road Do You Walk?
I like to Believe... Live by the sword, Die by the sword


wave
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Sep 8, 2018 10:15 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
joedockanson: Revenge gives satisfaction ! peace of mind.
otherwise , you can't function normally.
I disagree with the revenge part giving one satisfaction.
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Sep 8, 2018 10:19 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
Why should I give my power away by seeking revenge?
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Sep 8, 2018 10:20 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
Limun
LimunLimunAbidos, Central Serbia Serbia6 Threads 1 Polls 1,923 Posts
joedockanson: Revenge gives satisfaction ! peace of mind.
otherwise , you can't function normally.
yup..for some time
after that comes ,regrets, pain ,bitterness
but then you start questioning ,why do people wanna ``play`` with you knowing that they`re gonna lose ...you start hesitating with the next ``player`` because you`re scared of yourself ...you don`t really want to hurt them
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Sep 8, 2018 10:21 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
joedockanson
joedockansonjoedockansonElmhurst, New York USA42 Threads 135 Posts
Bearwoman: I disagree with the revenge part giving one satisfaction.
probably you surrounded by nice people.
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Sep 8, 2018 10:27 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
joedockanson: probably you surrounded by nice people.
Not always nice people but it was how my mother had raised me from a child.
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Sep 8, 2018 10:30 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Bearwoman: Not always nice people but it was how my mother had raised me from a child.
teddybear ditto
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Sep 8, 2018 10:32 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
Arthur_Sixpence
Arthur_SixpenceArthur_SixpenceEnnis, Clare Ireland51 Threads 4 Polls 1,001 Posts
Revenge is hard work, it's also a sign that you've been 'gotten too'... I say don't give your neysayer that satisfaction, ignoring them is starving them of attention...which is better by far... thumbs up
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Sep 8, 2018 10:33 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
galrads: ditto
teddybear Back at you galards.
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Sep 8, 2018 10:34 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
joedockanson: Revenge or Forgiveness: Which Road Do You Walk?
Always Forgiveness!
I also practise Ho'Oponopono
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Sep 8, 2018 10:35 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
Arthur_Sixpence: Revenge is hard work, it's also a sign that you've been 'gotten too'... I say don't give your neysayer that satisfaction, ignoring them is starving them of attention...which is better by far...
Agree! thumbs up
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Sep 8, 2018 11:02 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
daniela777: Always Forgiveness!
I also practise Ho'Oponopono
teddybear
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Sep 8, 2018 11:21 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
Limun
LimunLimunAbidos, Central Serbia Serbia6 Threads 1 Polls 1,923 Posts
I was kinda wondering about all those forgiving people ...

lets say you have a good friend or relative , who`s found himself ,or herself in distress and need your help
a sleepover ,shower ,dinner and a hug

next morning you see the friend ,relative is gone along with your jewelry ,money,phone car ...would you call the police or forgive and forget ?
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Sep 8, 2018 11:27 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
Limun: I was kinda wondering about all those forgiving people ...

lets say you have a good friend or relative , who`s found himself ,or herself in distress and need your help
a sleepover ,shower ,dinner and a hug

next morning you see the friend ,relative is gone along with your jewelry ,money,phone car ...would you call the police or forgive and forget ?
Well lets see now I don't have any relatives that I associate with after disowning them.

I have one true friend that I would trust with everything I own and who has slept over on occasion and I have really nothing they would steal from me so I guess your post wouldn't apply to me.

grin
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Sep 8, 2018 11:28 AM CST Revenge or forgiveness
LucyMaud
LucyMaudLucyMaudunknown, Alberta Canada153 Posts
Call the cops first. Forgiveness would come much later once I got over the anger. It's important to forgive for our own sake and just as important not to forget.
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