None... I don't think it's possible to forgive without forgetting... If we want to learn from our mistake we can not really forget about them... Revenge is poisonous ... So, none...
joedockanson: Revenge gives satisfaction ! peace of mind. otherwise , you can't function normally.
yup..for some time after that comes ,regrets, pain ,bitterness but then you start questioning ,why do people wanna ``play`` with you knowing that they`re gonna lose ...you start hesitating with the next ``player`` because you`re scared of yourself ...you don`t really want to hurt them
Revenge is hard work, it's also a sign that you've been 'gotten too'... I say don't give your neysayer that satisfaction, ignoring them is starving them of attention...which is better by far...
Arthur_Sixpence: Revenge is hard work, it's also a sign that you've been 'gotten too'... I say don't give your neysayer that satisfaction, ignoring them is starving them of attention...which is better by far...
Limun: I was kinda wondering about all those forgiving people ...
lets say you have a good friend or relative , who`s found himself ,or herself in distress and need your help a sleepover ,shower ,dinner and a hug
next morning you see the friend ,relative is gone along with your jewelry ,money,phone car ...would you call the police or forgive and forget ?
Well lets see now I don't have any relatives that I associate with after disowning them.
I have one true friend that I would trust with everything I own and who has slept over on occasion and I have really nothing they would steal from me so I guess your post wouldn't apply to me.
Call the cops first. Forgiveness would come much later once I got over the anger. It's important to forgive for our own sake and just as important not to forget.
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