How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids? ( Archived) (61)

Sep 11, 2018 7:56 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
UrbanQueen92
UrbanQueen92UrbanQueen92New Holstein, Wisconsin USA1 Threads 1 Posts
I'm a single mom and I want to date but I have two young boys and a baby on the way.. Just seems impossible to date another guy..one: I'd never have any alone time with him..2. Sex offenders run around everywhere 3. I'm set in my ways.
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Sep 11, 2018 8:09 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
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UrbanQueen92: I'm a single mom and I want to date but I have two young boys and a baby on the way.. Just seems impossible to date another guy..one: I'd never have any alone time with him..2. Sex offenders run around everywhere 3. I'm set in my ways.
You shouldn't date. You made the decision to have children and now the most important thing for you to do is to raise them without confusing them by bringing another man into their lives that's not their biological father. If you wern't serious about about raising them with their father then why did you have kids with him?
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Sep 11, 2018 8:12 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
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UrbanQueen92: I'm a single mom and I want to date but I have two young boys and a baby on the way.. Just seems impossible to date another guy..one: I'd never have any alone time with him..2. Sex offenders run around everywhere 3. I'm set in my ways.
Wow...judging a woman and belonging to collarspace...hypocrisy at its finest...lol...laugh
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Sep 11, 2018 8:17 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
InstincThis
InstincThisInstincThishere, Utah USA15 Threads 1 Polls 2,637 Posts
bigjb62: You shouldn't date. You made the decision to have children and now the most important thing for you to do is to raise them without confusing them by bringing another man into their lives that's not their biological father. If you wern't serious about about raising them with their father then why did you have kids with him?
Ding* ~ Hit that shit, right on the nail.
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Sep 11, 2018 8:22 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
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loulou77: Wow...judging a woman and belonging to collarspace...hypocrisy at its finest...lol...
Let the trolling begin.
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Sep 11, 2018 8:24 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
TE11X
TE11XTE11X#####, Cork Ireland83 Posts
bigjb62: Let the trolling begin.
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Sep 11, 2018 8:34 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
InstincThis
InstincThisInstincThishere, Utah USA15 Threads 1 Polls 2,637 Posts
UrbanQueen92: I'm a single mom and I want to date but I have two young boys and a baby on the way.. Just seems impossible to date another guy..one: I'd never have any alone time with him..2. Sex offenders run around everywhere 3. I'm set in my ways.
No kidding ~> - people who don't respect the Fact of what happens._ sounds familiar no.? -

You heard it here._!
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Sep 11, 2018 9:05 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
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UrbanQueen92: I'm a single mom and I want to date but I have two young boys and a baby on the way.. Just seems impossible to date another guy..one: I'd never have any alone time with him..2. Sex offenders run around everywhere 3. I'm set in my ways.
I realize I was pretty harsh in my first comment. But I was married for 28 years and have 1 son. I took his well being very seriously and I fought hard to stay married for the sake of my son. But my ex thought that continuing to drink (she had become an alcoholic) and party was more important then keeping the family together. So she divorced me. Now I have had to watch the endless parade of people going in and out of my son's life without being able to do anything about it. It's a hard thing to watch and hasn't been good for my son or my relationship with him.
I hope you make every effort to give your children all your attention and protect them. The best way to do that is to never bring another male into their lives until they are out on their own.
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Sep 11, 2018 9:09 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
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Still sound chauvinistic...

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Sep 11, 2018 9:31 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
I think with a new baby on the way I would focus on that before I would begin dating but its up to you.....wave
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Sep 11, 2018 9:51 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
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loulou77: Still sound chauvinistic...
You're still a troll.
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Sep 11, 2018 9:57 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
and I can see why your wife drank j........tongue
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Sep 11, 2018 10:13 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
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M4_Mischief: and I can see why your wife drank j........
Said the trolls sister.
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Sep 11, 2018 10:15 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
InstincThis
InstincThisInstincThishere, Utah USA15 Threads 1 Polls 2,637 Posts
bigjb62: Said the trolls sister.
err.-- You know what picks on trolls?.> ~-- usually its an ogre..> -- So.---

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Sep 11, 2018 10:31 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
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UrbanQueen92: I'm a single mom and I want to date but I have two young boys and a baby on the way.. Just seems impossible to date another guy..one: I'd never have any alone time with him..2. Sex offenders run around everywhere 3. I'm set in my ways.
For all the people who appear to only want to insult me for giving an opinion that you disagree with. Do you really think you are helping urbanqueen? I for one am not sorry for giving my opinion, but I am sorry for letting the people who are acting like trolls goad me into participating in the derailment her thread. For that I apologize to urbanqueen.sad flower
I will however pray that God protects you and your children no matter what decision you make about dating.
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Sep 11, 2018 10:48 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
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UrbanQueen92: I'm a single mom and I want to date but I have two young boys and a baby on the way.. Just seems impossible to date another guy..one: I'd never have any alone time with him..2. Sex offenders run around everywhere 3. I'm set in my ways.
Your priorities are all wrong. Do you need a man to pay for the baby or are you just negligent? Either way it's not a good look.
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Sep 11, 2018 11:01 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA3,787 Posts
UrbanQueen92: I'm a single mom and I want to date but I have two young boys and a baby on the way.. Just seems impossible to date another guy..one: I'd never have any alone time with him..2. Sex offenders run around everywhere 3. I'm set in my ways.
You're 24 years old and have two young boys and a baby on the way and you're looking for a man?
Hate to be blunt but you definitely don't need a man in your life right now.What you need to do is take care of your two young boys and the baby on the way.Theyr'e what's more important right now not a man.
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Sep 11, 2018 11:05 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA3,787 Posts
Bearwoman: You're 24 years old and have two young boys and a baby on the way and you're looking for a man?
Hate to be blunt but you definitely don't need a man in your life right now.What you need to do is take care of your two young boys and the baby on the way.They are what's more important right now not a man.
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Sep 11, 2018 11:08 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
bigjb62online now!
bigjb62online now!bigjb62Society Hill, South Carolina USA2 Threads 1,178 Posts
Bearwoman: You're 24 years old and have two young boys and a baby on the way and you're looking for a man?
Hate to be blunt but you definitely don't need a man in your life right now.What you need to do is take care of your two young boys and the baby on the way.Theyr'e what's more important right now not a man.
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Sep 11, 2018 11:20 PM CST How many single moms are afraid to date again because they have kids?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFrankfurt, Christmas Island68 Threads 1 Polls 2,011 Posts
bigjb62: For all the people who appear to only want to insult me for giving an opinion that you disagree with. Do you really think you are helping urbanqueen? I for one am not sorry for giving my opinion, but I am sorry for letting the people who are acting like trolls goad me into participating in the derailment her thread. For that I apologize to urbanqueen.
I will however pray that God protects you and your children no matter what decision you make about dating.
wave big Thanking u for respecting a single mom that in a way needs advisethumbs up

I am a single mom too but they arebgrowm ups.cheers
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