With all the technology available to us .. (131)
One2note: Why do people still refuse to Skype, FaceTime, or another video call, or a simple phone chat & insist on texting or emailing??
Are they just shy , or are they hiding something ?
Because of the things they might see?! Are they just shy , or are they hiding something ?
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Or may be because you will suddenly become a living creature, not just a picture and they will have to treat you as such...?!
It's like reading comics, no movement, no sound...then you just close the page and there is no voice to remember...
I wondered that myself for a long time...
It's like reading comics, no movement, no sound...then you just close the page and there is no voice to remember...
I wondered that myself for a long time...
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pKrema: Because of the things they might see?!
Ok, let's put crudeness aside for a moment & assume you are dealing with a normal human being !
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I see it as a red flag when someone refused to Skype or FaceTime with me 
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pKrema: Or may be because you will suddenly become a living creature, not just a picture and they will have to treat you as such...?!
It's like reading comics, no movement, no sound...then you just close the page and there is no voice to remember...
I wondered that myself for a long time...
The last 3 women I've mailed on here , have refused to video call, even after interacting with them for a reasonable amount of time .It's like reading comics, no movement, no sound...then you just close the page and there is no voice to remember...
I wondered that myself for a long time...
So , should I be suspicious?
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MiMiArt: I see it as a red flag when someone refused to Skype or FaceTime with me
Mimi, I couldn't agree more. In fact , I'd go as far as blocking them ------ This thread is Archived ------
One2note: The last 3 women I've mailed on here , have refused to video call, even after interacting with them for a reasonable amount of time .
So , should I be suspicious?
Well, I had someone who didn't want to hear my voice even...for more than a year... So , should I be suspicious?
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pKrema: Well, I had someone who didn't want to hear my voice even...for more than a year...
How did that end ?------ This thread is Archived ------
One2note: The last 3 women I've mailed on here , have refused to video call, even after interacting with them for a reasonable amount of time .
So , should I be suspicious?
well,maybe they are suspicious of you?So , should I be suspicious?
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One2note: Mimi, I couldn't agree more. In fact , I'd go as far as blocking them
I think that’s good enough of an indication that the other person has something to hide.
I can understand if the person refuses to Skype in the beginning but c’mon, after several weeks of chatting? Nope
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Conrad73: well,maybe they are suspicious of you?
How so ??------ This thread is Archived ------
One2note: How did that end ?
Painfully...for me tho, I don't believe it was a big deal for the other side...------ This thread is Archived ------
One2note: The last 3 women I've mailed on here , have refused to video call, even after interacting with them for a reasonable amount of time .
So , should I be suspicious?
Someone who wants to Skype or whatever after one email and are keen to go off site straightaway...I call that suspicious.So , should I be suspicious?
After exchanging a number of emails I also find it suspicious???
Many will give you excuses why they can't...computer or lack of internet connection etc..but.. The ones who just don't want for some other reasons...I can't be bothered with.
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Conrad73: well,maybe they are suspicious of you?
Conrad you have posted 85 thousand times here.............you have posted the most........do you like this site...?------ This thread is Archived ------
Anyway, people have reasons to behave in a certain way...
It's better to be clear with your intentions from the start...
I don't start anything if I can't walk the talk...
It's better to be clear with your intentions from the start...
I don't start anything if I can't walk the talk...
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MiMiArt: I think that’s good enough of an indication that the other person has something to hide.
I can understand if the person refuses to Skype in the beginning but c’mon, after several weeks of chatting? Nope no excuses good enough for refusal to show your face after we have chatted for some time.
Exactly mimi , which is why you've found someone & others live in a fantasy world !I can understand if the person refuses to Skype in the beginning but c’mon, after several weeks of chatting? Nope no excuses good enough for refusal to show your face after we have chatted for some time.
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daniela777: Someone who wants to Skype or whatever after one email and are keen to go off site straightaway...I call that suspicious.
After exchanging a number of emails I also find it suspicious???
Many will give you excuses why they can't...computer or lack of internet connection etc..but.. The ones who just don't want for some other reasons...I can't be bothered with.
It's that fine line where, what is a reasonable time , between mailing & giving your personal details.After exchanging a number of emails I also find it suspicious???
Many will give you excuses why they can't...computer or lack of internet connection etc..but.. The ones who just don't want for some other reasons...I can't be bothered with.
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pKrema: Well, I had someone who didn't want to hear my voice even...for more than a year...
high pitched voice ?I recommend cold schnapps
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Are they just shy , or are they hiding something ?