ya get to know people by usin the forums havi a laff n just chattin then people like yta they check ya profile n start pm s its so much more revealin than just sendin flowers .........try it ..and welcome to the forums start a post sayin hello................paul
Why would they not be interested 4 months is a short period, Things dont happen as quickly as we like sometimes, Be patient you will meet someone when you least expect too
Dont be sad hunny. Scouser is right, when the time is right then you will meet someone out of the blue - its better to be alone and happy than unhappy with someone rather than being alone.
Scouser what are you up to on the International, you naughty boy - go to your room!!!
thanks bubbly. it`s difficult tho sumtimes as i`ve been on my own 3 years now. never really even had a long term relationship. always with wronguns so it`s never lasted.
PoppyfieldsHalifax, West Yorkshire, England UK66 posts
Just enjoy the banter and like englandzno1 says, email people and send flowers, your going to get plenty of response. I'd rather be on my own than with the wrong someone just for the sake of not being lonely..
alanGNottingham, Nottinghamshire, England UK8 posts
I agree with Nikki may, I've been on three months sent out about 60 messages got about 20 replies, had 2 dates. Now I,m not ugly, weird, creepy, strange, and I am very genuine in why I'm on a dating site, ie' to date leading to a lasting relationship. So why such a big discrepancy if everyone is using the site for what was intended, answer they are not. 1, My conclusions are some woman are married or in a relationship and are just playing with peoples emotions to get some kicks because they are not shown the proper attention at home, you know lonely bored housewives, Well just leave us alone and don't waste our times. 2, Another reason is money/wealth roulette, Women are trawling the net trying to locate wealthy men and not LOVE. Nasty shallow people. 3, Dating sites where its free to register then you have to pay later, Women/Men join out of curiosity, but proper paid up members can send a message not knowing they wont get a reply unless that member pays, therefore a total waste of time,dating site not very fair, it could be built into the system so that cant happen, but hey so what. Do you have any other points of view??? Thanks Nikki,thought it was just men suffering. Alan Walker Nottingham
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