Have women lost their femininity? ( Archived) (313)

Oct 14, 2018 8:55 AM CST Have women lost their femininity?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
One2note: Maybe single women raise good men , but without a male role model in their life , they develope female tendencies & depending on the parent , many grow up resenting men.
How can a boy recognise how a man should behave with a woman, when he's had little or no experience in his upbringing?
hmm....
i raised my son. he is a good man. infact, he is a great man.
how did this happen without his father being there?

many ways.
1) my older brother was active in my son's life and lived only a block away.
2) my friend's husband spent time regularly with my son, as did other male friends of mine (friends, not partners)
3) he had several male teachers as he went through school.
4) he is athletic, so also had male coaches

yes, it's not the same...but i gotta tell ya...he is a good man with great values. and i am positive that the lessons and values he learned are much more than his biological father could of ever provided. he did see his dad on ocassion but not often. i left his dad the day i found out i was pregnant. i gave him a choice...be a part of this and quit drinking, or keep drinking.
i made the right choice. i always understood that my son was a gift to be treasured.

i'm curious now...since you mentioned you raised your daughter....
was that without her mother? and do you apply the same misconceptions to her abilities?
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Oct 14, 2018 8:59 AM CST Have women lost their femininity?
Limun
LimunLimunAbidos, Central Serbia Serbia6 Threads 1 Polls 1,923 Posts
HexagonKeySet: Geez, I'd better be careful round you Ms Mindreader ... I never mentioned half naked !!!!

one lives in hope

;-)
who wants women fighting in jello in their winter coats uh oh
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Oct 14, 2018 9:34 AM CST Have women lost their femininity?
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
One2note: With so many single women nowadays, either through choice , or a busy lifestyle, or even , dare I say, from previous bad relationships , have they lost their femininity?
Most , through no choice of their own, have taken over the traditional male role, which has increased their testosterone level , thus making them more masculine, as a pose to feminine.
You may argue the opposite, but subconsciously, is this the real reason why so many women have become so frustrated & bitter creatures, in the modern era ?
I am no feminist , but i can't help noticing that women are excelling more in rolls traditionally assumed male in a patriarchal society, i cant help noticing the successful women airline pilots, astronauts and air force pilots, women who are successful doctors, surgeons , dentists and psychiatrists. successful engineers some of whom I know personally from different countries. Successful authors and poets and artists,
and i can't think of one that has lost their femininity.

I think femininity is inbuilt in a womans psyche, they were always thus flower waiting for a chance to bloom in a male dominated world.

Some people on here write in a very patronizing way, there are women out there BETTER than you.
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Oct 14, 2018 9:36 AM CST Have women lost their femininity?
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
I am no feminist , but i can't help noticing that women are excelling more in rolls traditionally assumed male in a patriarchal society, i cant help noticing the successful women airline pilots, astronauts and air force pilots, women who are successful doctors, surgeons , dentists and psychiatrists. successful engineers some of whom I know personally from different countries. Successful authors and poets and artists,
and i can't think of one that has lost their femininity.

I think femininity is inbuilt in a womans psyche, they were always thus flower waiting for a chance to bloom in a male dominated world.

Some people on here write in a very patronizing way, there are women out there BETTER than you.
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Oct 14, 2018 9:38 AM CST Have women lost their femininity?
aries1234: I am no feminist , but i can't help noticing that women are excelling more in rolls traditionally assumed male in a patriarchal society, i cant help noticing the successful women airline pilots, astronauts and air force pilots, women who are successful doctors, surgeons , dentists and psychiatrists. successful engineers some of whom I know personally from different countries. Successful authors and poets and artists,
and i can't think of one that has lost their femininity.

I think femininity is inbuilt in a womans psyche, they were always thus flower waiting for a chance to bloom in a male dominated world.

Some people on here write in a very patronizing way, there are women out there BETTER than you.
I think one2note meant ''some'' women have lost there femininity not all
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Oct 14, 2018 9:53 AM CST Have women lost their femininity?
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
pedro27: I think one2note meant ''some'' women have lost there femininity not all
His question was "have women lost their femininity" you cannot re frame another persons thread title.
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Oct 14, 2018 9:58 AM CST Have women lost their femininity?
aries1234: His question was "have women lost their femininity" you cannot re frame another persons thread title.
surely he didn't mean ''all'' women
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Oct 14, 2018 11:34 AM CST Have women lost their femininity?
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
pedro27: surely he didn't mean ''all'' women
That's what it saysgrin
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Oct 14, 2018 11:43 AM CST Have women lost their femininity?
aries1234: That's what it says
OK....we will wait till one2note confirms it............
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Oct 14, 2018 1:12 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
platosha
platoshaplatoshaSiem Reap, Cambodia2 Threads 111 Posts
One2note: Maybe single women raise good men , but without a male role model in their life , they develope female tendencies & depending on the parent , many grow up resenting men.
How can a boy recognise how a man should behave with a woman, when he's had little or no experience in his upbringing?
I do understand your point.. But one can't generalise everyone and put in same pot..

There are many other man woman has in her life who can successfully play a Man role: brother, grandfather, friend, relative etc.. in many cases biological father also participate in child life.
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Oct 14, 2018 1:12 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
One2note: With so many single women nowadays, either through choice , or a busy lifestyle, or even , dare I say, from previous bad relationships , have they lost their femininity?
Most , through no choice of their own, have taken over the traditional male role, which has increased their testosterone level , thus making them more masculine, as a pose to feminine.
You may argue the opposite, but subconsciously, is this the real reason why so many women have become so frustrated & bitter creatures, in the modern era ?
I don't intend to read all the pages to see what has already been said.
Just to respond to the question.
I don't think that women have lost their femininity, maybe because of changed circumstances
They might have taken on the role of trying to be a mother and father, in so far as it is possible,
but i don't think that it affected any testosterone levels.
Also many good fathers are a part of their sons/daughters lives and play their part as good parents.
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Oct 14, 2018 1:18 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
platosha
platoshaplatoshaSiem Reap, Cambodia2 Threads 111 Posts
Limun: Problems to trust Men?
Both genders are the victims of ... lets call it progress ...I dont want to dive in something that people see as conspiracy theory ...
Now observe single people around you or try to analyze from their posts - n deep down, there are less than 10 percent of people who want a longerish relationship
We can point fingers at Men, Women -blame each other , but the sad truth is -we prefer shor therm relationships ,the shorter the better , read romantic novels or watch movies -happily ever after ... and we love to whine
laugh I ve noticed you changed your name,, good to see same witty Dedowave and your are right .
That's where real problem is: men do not want long relationship nowadays.. they don't commit.. it is sad..
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Oct 14, 2018 1:19 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
annaroach: I don't intend to read all the pages to see what has already been said.
Just to respond to the question.
I don't think that women have lost their femininity, maybe because of changed circumstances
They might have taken on the role of trying to be a mother and father, in so far as it is possible,
but i don't think that it affected any testosterone levels.
Also many good fathers are a part of their sons/daughters lives and play their part as good parents.
It does Anna .
It may only be evident for the short term , but even something as simple as driving , raises women's testosterone.
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Oct 14, 2018 1:21 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
One2note: It does Anna .
It may only be evident for the short term , but even something as simple as driving , raises women's testosterone.
I'm afraid ,i will need proof of that
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Oct 14, 2018 1:22 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
platosha: I do understand your point.. But one can't generalise everyone and put in same pot..

There are many other man woman has in her life who can successfully play a Man role: brother, grandfather, friend, relative etc.. in many cases biological father also participate in child life.
Mo , every case varies & you have to appreciate , not every single mother has male role models in their daily lives .
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Oct 14, 2018 1:48 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
The proof that nobody can be persuaded to be anything other than who they really are!!!!

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Oct 14, 2018 1:55 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
mollybaby
mollybabymollybabyCork City, Cork Ireland56 Threads 8 Polls 23,608 Posts
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Oct 14, 2018 1:57 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
marlindaponline today!
marlindaponline today!marlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada581 Posts
I had no idea there was such thing as a manly duty, duties are just something that need to be done. The only thing you can blame for this is economics you can save a lot of money by doing things yourself. I disagree that so called male role duties create testosterone , but i will say they build confidence and independence. Thankfully there are some men out there that appreciate the fact you can fix their car.
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Oct 14, 2018 1:58 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
annaroach
annaroachannaroachLimerick, Ireland217 Threads 6,747 Posts
Love it Molly,
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Oct 14, 2018 2:01 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
marlindap: I had no idea there was such thing as a manly duty, duties are just something that need to be done. The only thing you can blame for this is economics you can save a lot of money by doing things yourself. I disagree that so called male role duties create testosterone , but i will say they build confidence and independence. Thankfully there are some men out there that appreciate the fact you can fix their car.
I agree with you marlin at last a bit of sense.wine handshake
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