Have women lost their femininity? ( Archived) (313)

Oct 13, 2018 3:14 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
MisterForYou: I understand perfectly. That's why I made a suggestion.
So explain yours .
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Oct 13, 2018 3:29 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
One2note: So explain yours .
Do you need more time ?
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Oct 13, 2018 3:35 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
mollybaby: The counter-argument to that is that girls who are brought up by single dads turn into testosterone-fuelled woman-haters.
Would you agree with that?

Or might it possibly be that children who are reared properly turn out to be well-adjusted humans, no matter who rears them?
I think children are influenced by the parents , in role model capacity .
If a boy is raised solely by his mother , then yes , he will pick up some female tendencies & visa verse .
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Oct 13, 2018 3:47 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
One2note: KN , I've dated a few women in recent months & I can assure you , most women in my age range have been damaged , or what people nowadays like to call , "baggage"!
The rest are either too young ,too old , or are in a relationship!
I've come to the conclusion that I'm gonna be single for a very long time, unless the ball bounces in my direction by pure chance !
.... or you change....
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Oct 13, 2018 3:54 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
jono7: .... or you change....
In what way do you suggest I should change ?
Should I not take the lead role in the relationship.
Do I let the woman pay on a date ?
Should I not be the breadwinner ?
Should I not plan romantic weekends away ?
Should I not instigate the first kiss ?

How do you suggest I change ?
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Oct 13, 2018 3:58 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
MisterForYou
MisterForYouMisterForYouValletta, Majjistral Malta87 Threads 16 Polls 962 Posts
One2note: In what way do you suggest I should change ?
Should I not take the lead role in the relationship.
Do I let the woman pay on a date ?
Should I not be the breadwinner ?
Should I not plan romantic weekends away ?
Should I not instigate the first kiss ?

How do you suggest I change ?
Mebbe if you approached a relationship as an equal partnership....ie you don't always have to feel you need to lead. confused
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Oct 13, 2018 4:03 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
MisterForYou: Mebbe if you approached a relationship as an equal partnership....ie you don't always have to feel you need to lead.
It's not about leading , it's about knowing what makes your partner happy & acting on it .
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Oct 13, 2018 4:04 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
MisterForYou
MisterForYouMisterForYouValletta, Majjistral Malta87 Threads 16 Polls 962 Posts
One2note: It's not about leading , it's about knowing what makes your partner happy & acting on it .
If you say so. thumbs up
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Oct 13, 2018 4:10 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
MiMiArt: Hmmmm...

Methinks women are easy to be manipulated or handled.

Men that are smart would know what buttons to push thus unlocking the wonders of women

Push the right button, even a hard-hearted feminist will melt in a man’s hand...
thiis is very true!

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Oct 13, 2018 4:13 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
MsContessa
MsContessaMsContessaMayo, Ireland24 Threads 1,227 Posts
One2note: In what way do you suggest I should change ?
Should I not take the lead role in the relationship.
Do I let the woman pay on a date ?
Should I not be the breadwinner ?
Should I not plan romantic weekends away ?
Should I not instigate the first kiss ?

How do you suggest I change ?
Women were respected much more in my mothers time.
Men would have their bags carried for them.
Men beckoned them ahead in a queue.
Men opened doors for them.
Men paid women complements..
Being feminine did not mean that women were weak,
it meant that men protected and respected them more.

Men and women will never be the same as far as gender is concerned. They think and act differently.
Women tend to be more caring, empathic and loving. Men tend to more protective, respectful and a provider.
We should celebrate our differences and how much those attributes brings to a relationship.
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Oct 13, 2018 4:21 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
MsContessa: Women were respected much more in my mothers time.
Men would have their bags carried for them.
Men beckoned them ahead in a queue.
Men opened doors for them.
Men paid women complements..
Being feminine did not mean that women were weak,
it meant that men protected and respected them more.

Men and women will never be the same as far as gender is concerned. They think and act differently.
Women tend to be more caring, empathic and loving. Men tend to more protective, respectful and a provider.
We should celebrate our differences and how much those attributes brings to a relationship.
I couldn't agree more .
Im glad there are still women like yourself , you value men a women's roles in society .

bouquet
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Oct 13, 2018 4:24 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
One2note: I couldn't agree more .
Im glad there are still women like yourself , you value men a women's roles in society .
The disappointing thing about men nowadays, is how they break down when a woman leaves them.
If they were man enough in the fist place , that situation would never have occurred!
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Oct 13, 2018 4:31 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
One2note: The disappointing thing about men nowadays, is how they break down when a woman leaves them.
If they were man enough in the fist place , that situation would never have occurred!
Are you for real with your comments on this thread or is it a wind up?
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Oct 13, 2018 4:37 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
deedee123xo: Are you for real with your comments on this thread or is it a wind up?
He is a wind up merchant seeking attentiongrin
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Oct 13, 2018 4:40 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
aries1234: He is a wind up merchant seeking attention
I hope so and not the alternative, that he is actually for real...otherwise I would have seriously got him all wrong....how backward can one be eh????
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Oct 13, 2018 4:43 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
deedee123xo: Are you for real with your comments on this thread or is it a wind up?
i know of a lot of professional men who took their own life after their woman walked away with other men.... quite common here except with convicts

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Oct 13, 2018 4:45 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
MisterForYou: Perhaps you need to update your concept of femininity? Just a suggestion.
i'm soooo glad you posted this. i've been thinking about this as i read the posts.
perhaps if folks define what is femininity....that would be a place to start?
i'm thinkin' from the posts that there will be some differences of opinion about what is 'femininity' because the dictionary defines it as 'womanly qualities'...and that my friend....is pretty hard to pin down.
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Oct 13, 2018 4:47 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
jono7: i'm soooo glad you posted this. i've been thinking about this as i read the posts.
perhaps if folks define what is femininity....that would be a place to start?
i'm thinkin' from the posts that there will be some differences of opinion about what is 'femininity' because the dictionary defines it as 'womanly qualities'...and that my friend....is pretty hard to pin down.
that sounds like fun....laugh
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Oct 13, 2018 4:48 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
2intrigued: So, given you own circumstances, would it be fair of a woman to question/understand how a single man who has taken over both roles can be more masculine? Do you see where I'm going with this?
typing .........laugh .......probably not....
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Oct 13, 2018 4:49 PM CST Have women lost their femininity?
jono7
jono7jono7Out West, British Columbia Canada3 Threads 8,017 Posts
galrads: that sounds like fun....
laugh

wave hiya galrads
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