Infidelity and You. (63)

Oct 19, 2018 3:43 PM CST Infidelity and You.
Could you accept a partner who cheated on you? Or would it be mega-overs.

Here are some myth-busters about women's sexuality.

Oct 19, 2018 4:03 PM CST Infidelity and You.
MisterForYou: Could you accept a partner who cheated on you? Or would it be mega-overs.
Mega-overs.

No, if, ands or buts, about it
Oct 19, 2018 4:11 PM CST Infidelity and You.
bluyeeez
bluyeeezbluyeeeznew paris, Pennsylvania USA1 Posts
I would have a tough time accepting some one who cheated on me,,
Oct 19, 2018 4:30 PM CST Infidelity and You.
I've never really Given it much thought.
If she was having an affair , I would assume she would leave me before I had the chance to do likewise !
Oct 19, 2018 4:38 PM CST Infidelity and You.
Car54
Car54Car54Brussels, Hainaut Belgium1 Threads 280 Posts
MisterForYou: Could you accept a partner who cheated on you? Or would it be mega-overs.

Here are some myth-busters about women's sexuality.

I throw cheaters overboard without a life jacket.
I left a cheater with rent and all the bills. Didn't even tell her I'd found out about it. She didn't deserve an explanation. I disappeared and she never heard from again.
Does that answer your question laugh
Oct 19, 2018 4:46 PM CST Infidelity and You.
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden29 Threads 2 Polls 1,328 Posts
MisterForYou: Could you accept a partner who cheated on you? Or would it be mega-overs.

Here are some myth-busters about women's sexuality.

How would I know that he cheated on me?
Oct 19, 2018 5:04 PM CST Infidelity and You.
Car54
Car54Car54Brussels, Hainaut Belgium1 Threads 280 Posts
Tulefell: How would I know that he cheated on me?
Guess you'd have to wait to see him in bed with your best friend. laugh
I thought you women had a sixth sense about those things... was that just bullocks? grin
Oct 19, 2018 5:09 PM CST Infidelity and You.
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden29 Threads 2 Polls 1,328 Posts
Car54: I throw cheaters overboard without a life jacket.
I left a cheater with rent and all the bills. Didn't even tell her I'd found out about it. She didn't deserve an explanation. I disappeared and she never heard from again.
Does that answer your question
Seems like you didn't care about her plus she found sex with you unsatisfying. Have you put that information in your profile? Some women might find that relevant.
Oct 19, 2018 5:12 PM CST Infidelity and You.
Car54
Car54Car54Brussels, Hainaut Belgium1 Threads 280 Posts
Tulefell: Seems like you didn't care about her plus she found sex with you unsatisfying. Have you put that information in your profile? Some women might find that relevant.
You're funny laugh Did you ever think about doing stand up comedy?
Oct 19, 2018 5:47 PM CST Infidelity and You.
If my partner cheated me, it's over and done.
If I'm not good enough, well, go to someone else.
Oct 19, 2018 6:11 PM CST Infidelity and You.
Tulefell: Seems like you didn't care about her
That doesn't make sense. The person who cheated is the one who stopped caring.

What is left to do? Sit around and "talk about it"? Ask questions? Look for some type of closure that doesn't exist? doh

No.. people should go with their life.
Oct 19, 2018 6:17 PM CST Infidelity and You.
I would be done......wine
Oct 19, 2018 6:17 PM CST Infidelity and You.
Car54: I throw cheaters overboard without a life jacket.
I left a cheater with rent and all the bills. Didn't even tell her I'd found out about it. She didn't deserve an explanation. I disappeared and she never heard from again.
Does that answer your question
AGREE.
Oct 19, 2018 6:22 PM CST Infidelity and You.
Car54
Car54Car54Brussels, Hainaut Belgium1 Threads 280 Posts
CossackCat: That doesn't make sense. The person who cheated is the one who stopped caring.

What is left to do? Sit around and "talk about it"? Ask questions? Look for some type of closure that doesn't exist?

No.. people should go with their life.
What she wrote doesn't make sense and she knows it.
She just wanted to get at me, try and get me pissed laugh
I have to say, some of the posts I write have plenty in them to trigger self-centered self-entitled post-Wall bitter hags so I don't hold it against them when they try to get under my skin.
Oct 20, 2018 4:01 PM CST Infidelity and You.
Accepting a partner who doing this, is like saying, you agree and you are allowing it
oh hell to noscold
Oct 21, 2018 2:25 AM CST Infidelity and You.
We often get on the defensive mode when it comes to cheating...no, it isn't possible to be my fault, kind of...
It's a cowardly act to cheat, of course, but reasons could be associated with our own behavior towards our partner... Or may be we are just not for each other...
I greatly dislike the term "fighting for love"...why do you need to fight for it?!
If one wants to go, just let them go...
Oct 21, 2018 6:08 AM CST Infidelity and You.
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deedee123xoonline today!deedee123xolimerick, Limerick Ireland8 Threads 1,991 Posts
I would certainly want a discussion about it, if I felt they would be completely honest about it and themselves.

Then we would decide what course of action to take.
Oct 21, 2018 6:17 AM CST Infidelity and You.
pKrema: We often get on the defensive mode when it comes to cheating...no, it isn't possible to be my fault, kind of...
It's a cowardly act to cheat, of course, but reasons could be associated with our own behavior towards our partner... Or may be we are just not for each other...
I greatly dislike the term "fighting for love"...why do you need to fight for it?!
If one wants to go, just let them go...
Great response. I agree with you totally in those parts where I don't disagree with you...:-)
Why dislike the term 'fight for love'? Sometimes an act of infidelity can be a cry for attention
in a bid to save a faltering relationship. Imo it's way not a black-and-white issue.
Oct 21, 2018 6:24 AM CST Infidelity and You.
MisterForYou: Great response. I agree with you totally in those parts where I don't disagree with you...:-)
Why dislike the term 'fight for love'? Sometimes an act of infidelity can be a cry for attention
in a bid to save a faltering relationship. Imo it's way not a black-and-white issue.
Pushing a cart with square wheels, that's fighting for love...(unless other external reasons apply)...
A cry for attention?
Infidelity doesn't happen with beating a drum, see I am shagging someone else because I need your attention.... dunno
Oct 21, 2018 6:26 AM CST Infidelity and You.
pKrema: Pushing a cart with square wheels, that's fighting for love...(unless other external reasons apply)...
A cry for attention?
Infidelity doesn't happen with beating a drum, see I am shagging someone else because I need your attention....
Please, apply the shrink in you....the reasons behind affairs are complex and nuanced. As a woman, you should be agreeing with me, dammit...:-)

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