Have people resigned themselves to remain single ? ( Archived) (168)

Oct 21, 2018 1:16 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Why , in this modern era of technology, are there so many people not in a relationship, with so many options available to them, both at home & in far away places ?
Have past relationships affected your ability to trust , or are you so guarded & self- sufficient anything else ruin that safety of your own environment.
Could your upbringing result in you feeling unsafe , experiencing chaos, upheaval & maybe loss, also have a barring on how you approach a relationship ?conversing
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Oct 21, 2018 1:21 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
daears
daearsdaearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand23 Threads 1,542 Posts
One2note: Why , in this modern era of technology, are there so many people not in a relationship, with so many options available to them, both at home & in far away places ?
Have past relationships affected your ability to trust , or are you so guarded & self- sufficient anything else ruin that safety of your own environment.
Could your upbringing result in you feeling unsafe , experiencing chaos, upheaval & maybe loss, also have a barring on how you approach a relationship ?
piss off. Are you a man or what. Man takes risks. Woman do too. If past holds you back. Maybe you need councilling dunno
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Oct 21, 2018 1:25 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
Not all of us need to be in a relationship..The law says I'm able to do as I please..Not to do things to please others just for the sake of pleasing others
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Oct 21, 2018 1:36 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
daears
daearsdaearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand23 Threads 1,542 Posts
Mercedes_00: Not all of us need to be in a relationship..The law says I'm able to do as I please..Not to do things to please others just for the sake of pleasing others
thumbs up teddybear be oneself and only then will true partner be discovered through just living truthfully. teddybear
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Oct 21, 2018 1:37 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Mercedes_00: Not all of us need to be in a relationship..The law says I'm able to do as I please..Not to do things to please others just for the sake of pleasing others
There's no legal obligation to be in a relationship .
Someone like yourself maybe afraid of intimacy, or are just not drawn to it & enjoy cultivating your individuality?
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Oct 21, 2018 1:39 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
One2note: There's no legal obligation to be in a relationship .
Someone like yourself maybe afraid of intimacy, or are just not drawn to it & enjoy cultivating your individuality?
Nah not afraid just don't reckon anyone is able to give me as I'm able to give myself.

Freedom/laughter and so on.
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Oct 21, 2018 1:41 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
daears: be oneself and only then will true partner be discovered through just living truthfully.
Many panic and spend way too much time concerning themselves deperately wanting a partner.

I think that's sad.
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Oct 21, 2018 1:41 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
daears: piss off. Are you a man or what. Man takes risks. Woman do too. If past holds you back. Maybe you need councilling
Without the use of obscene language, Can you recommend a suitable councillor, you being such an expert on my social activities?
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Oct 21, 2018 1:42 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
Mr Note it wasn't long ago you found the perfect match yet you deliberately sabotaged that relationship.

You confuse me all the time with woman.
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Oct 21, 2018 1:43 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Mercedes_00: Nah not afraid just don't reckon anyone is able to give me as I'm able to give myself.

Freedom/laughter and so on.
What about companionship, intamacy, friendship etc.?
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Oct 21, 2018 1:44 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
The more possibilities we encounter the more afraid we are to take a chance...
Internet can make a stud out of every man and a princess out of every woman...
To face the reality isn't very appealing for those who fear the truth...
Why would I disturb my comfort?!
Am I afraid that I may actually like it?!
Five minutes of bliss or long term convenience?!
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Oct 21, 2018 1:46 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
daears
daearsdaearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand23 Threads 1,542 Posts
One2note: There's no legal obligation to be in a relationship .
Someone like yourself maybe afraid of intimacy, or are just not drawn to it & enjoy cultivating your individuality?
or maybe she is secretly within without knowing herself waiting for something that's right dunno Something over long time with truthful words or thoughts that actually are real and mean something. I want that myself peace cool
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Oct 21, 2018 1:46 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
One2note: What about companionship, intamacy, friendship etc.?
I'm too tired for intimacy I don't need that.

I have plenty of companionship from both genders.
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Oct 21, 2018 1:47 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Mercedes_00: Mr Note it wasn't long ago you found the perfect match yet you deliberately sabotaged that relationship.

You confuse me all the time with woman.
I didn't sabotage any relationship.
Sometimes things don't work out, for whatever reason but that hasn't & won't deter me from future relationships.
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Oct 21, 2018 1:48 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
daears
daearsdaearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand23 Threads 1,542 Posts
pKrema: The more possibilities we encounter the more afraid we are to take a chance...
Internet can make a stud out of every man and a princess out of every woman...
To face the reality isn't very appealing for those who fear the truth...
Why would I disturb my comfort?!
Am I afraid that I may actually like it?!
Five minutes of bliss or long term convenience?!
I always take that step over the line. Crickey. It's just so worth trying. She might be the one dunno .
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Oct 21, 2018 1:49 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,446 Posts
One2note: I didn't sabotage any relationship.
Sometimes things don't work out, for whatever reason but that hasn't & won't deter me from future relationships.
Well I took your words as you sabotaged because you were scared.

That's how you came across to me.
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Oct 21, 2018 1:51 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
daears
daearsdaearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand23 Threads 1,542 Posts
One2note: I didn't sabotage any relationship.
Sometimes things don't work out, for whatever reason but that hasn't & won't deter me from future relationships.
so you say at this moment. Not what I have seen you have written prior dunno maybe your not being truthful with yourself dunno wow
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Oct 21, 2018 1:52 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
daears: or maybe she is secretly within without knowing herself waiting for something that's right Something over long time with truthful words or thoughts that actually are real and mean something. I want that myself
I don't doubt the fact , but it's important to keep an open mind , rather than dismiss any possibilities beyond doubt.
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Oct 21, 2018 1:56 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
MiMiArt
MiMiArtMiMiArtOmaha, Nebraska USA5 Threads 584 Posts
Thank you, Daears!! applause hug
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Oct 21, 2018 1:57 AM CST Have people resigned themselves to remain single ?
daears
daearsdaearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand23 Threads 1,542 Posts
MiMiArt: Thank you, Daears!!
teddybear hi Mr Art wave teddybear
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