Why , in this modern era of technology, are there so many people not in a relationship, with so many options available to them, both at home & in far away places ? Have past relationships affected your ability to trust , or are you so guarded & self- sufficient anything else ruin that safety of your own environment. Could your upbringing result in you feeling unsafe , experiencing chaos, upheaval & maybe loss, also have a barring on how you approach a relationship ?
daearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand1,542 posts
One2note: Why , in this modern era of technology, are there so many people not in a relationship, with so many options available to them, both at home & in far away places ? Have past relationships affected your ability to trust , or are you so guarded & self- sufficient anything else ruin that safety of your own environment. Could your upbringing result in you feeling unsafe , experiencing chaos, upheaval & maybe loss, also have a barring on how you approach a relationship ?
piss off. Are you a man or what. Man takes risks. Woman do too. If past holds you back. Maybe you need councilling
Not all of us need to be in a relationship..The law says I'm able to do as I please..Not to do things to please others just for the sake of pleasing others
daearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand1,542 posts
Mercedes_00: Not all of us need to be in a relationship..The law says I'm able to do as I please..Not to do things to please others just for the sake of pleasing others
be oneself and only then will true partner be discovered through just living truthfully.
Mercedes_00: Not all of us need to be in a relationship..The law says I'm able to do as I please..Not to do things to please others just for the sake of pleasing others
There's no legal obligation to be in a relationship . Someone like yourself maybe afraid of intimacy, or are just not drawn to it & enjoy cultivating your individuality?
One2note: There's no legal obligation to be in a relationship . Someone like yourself maybe afraid of intimacy, or are just not drawn to it & enjoy cultivating your individuality?
Nah not afraid just don't reckon anyone is able to give me as I'm able to give myself.
The more possibilities we encounter the more afraid we are to take a chance... Internet can make a stud out of every man and a princess out of every woman... To face the reality isn't very appealing for those who fear the truth... Why would I disturb my comfort?! Am I afraid that I may actually like it?! Five minutes of bliss or long term convenience?!
daearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand1,542 posts
One2note: There's no legal obligation to be in a relationship . Someone like yourself maybe afraid of intimacy, or are just not drawn to it & enjoy cultivating your individuality?
or maybe she is secretly within without knowing herself waiting for something that's right Something over long time with truthful words or thoughts that actually are real and mean something. I want that myself
daearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand1,542 posts
pKrema: The more possibilities we encounter the more afraid we are to take a chance... Internet can make a stud out of every man and a princess out of every woman... To face the reality isn't very appealing for those who fear the truth... Why would I disturb my comfort?! Am I afraid that I may actually like it?! Five minutes of bliss or long term convenience?!
I always take that step over the line. Crickey. It's just so worth trying. She might be the one .
One2note: I didn't sabotage any relationship. Sometimes things don't work out, for whatever reason but that hasn't & won't deter me from future relationships.
Well I took your words as you sabotaged because you were scared.
daearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand1,542 posts
One2note: I didn't sabotage any relationship. Sometimes things don't work out, for whatever reason but that hasn't & won't deter me from future relationships.
so you say at this moment. Not what I have seen you have written prior maybe your not being truthful with yourself
daears: or maybe she is secretly within without knowing herself waiting for something that's right Something over long time with truthful words or thoughts that actually are real and mean something. I want that myself
I don't doubt the fact , but it's important to keep an open mind , rather than dismiss any possibilities beyond doubt.
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Have past relationships affected your ability to trust , or are you so guarded & self- sufficient anything else ruin that safety of your own environment.
Could your upbringing result in you feeling unsafe , experiencing chaos, upheaval & maybe loss, also have a barring on how you approach a relationship ?