PeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands6,334 posts
annaroach: That was just plain nasty, why did you accept the beer?
I never refuse a free beer, and I give away beers to. But don't say here you have a beer, when you're giving me one back? I only give drinks to people I like, but I also accept drinks from people I don't like. And sometimes I give someone a drink and I don't get anything back. Well that's just the way it seems to work...
to Limun haha,looks not beautiful illusion. whether ladys would envy each other? he say honey to this lady,he say sweety to that lady?am I only one of his honeys? maybe he has many many honeys is it love?
to MisterForYou haha,should i flutter each day i become dear honey of 100 men,though i become honeys of many many men ,but why i dont happy,i just feel very sad,becuase i just want to be the true love of one special man,yes,only oneā¦
aries1234: Well i think that's a separate issue, most people know the difference between love and like, and he varying degrees of love.
In our dialect in Devon and Cornwall it is not unusual to call a women dear or darling, and as I said, not so much there days, but before calling a woman of equal status , my lovely ,or, my beauty, was not uncommon. Calling another man my dear was acceptable as well.
god,please give me a spiecial one. our hearts only bloom for the unique
oh,in western culture drinking one cup of beer so complicate?is it means accept dating??? oh, i study ,if were me,I protect my beer .i dont free invite beer,avoid misunderstanding
CossackCat: That would annoy the hell out of me. I see that as disrespectful and condescending. Perhaps it depends on the culture and generation? But I certainly don't like it.. and I usually give them a taste of their own medicine (so they know what it feels like)
PeKaatje: I never refuse a free beer, and I give away beers to. But don't say here you have a beer, when you're giving me one back? I only give drinks to people I like, but I also accept drinks from people I don't like. And sometimes I give someone a drink and I don't get anything back. Well that's just the way it seems to work...
You need to be careful when accepting beer from someone, a stranger at that
I am an old fashioned gent.....and I say dear to strangers....it's politeness....not creepy......and if a lady does not like us gents saying it, just please be nice about it, and say you dislike hearing "dear". Thank you.
80sjunkie: I am an old fashioned gent.....and I say dear to strangers....it's politeness....not creepy......and if a lady does not like us gents saying it, just please be nice about it, and say you dislike hearing "dear". Thank you.
80sjunkie: I am an old fashioned gent.....and I say dear to strangers....it's politeness....not creepy......and if a lady does not like us gents saying it, just please be nice about it, and say you dislike hearing "dear". Thank you.
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