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Nov 8, 2018 11:02 AM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
MisterForYou
MisterForYouMisterForYouValletta, Majjistral Malta87 Threads 16 Polls 962 Posts
For some peeps, being a smoker can be a deal-breaker, in dating terms. How much of a deal is it for you?
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Nov 8, 2018 11:16 AM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
I don't mind "socially", "rarely", "trying to quit" smoking for as long as he doesn't smoke inside the house...
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Nov 8, 2018 11:20 AM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
MisterForYou
MisterForYouMisterForYouValletta, Majjistral Malta87 Threads 16 Polls 962 Posts
pKrema: I don't mind "socially", "rarely", "trying to quit" smoking for as long as he doesn't smoke inside the house...
'Trying to Quit' is the worst form of self delusion possible. It's like saying, 'I'll go on that diet just as soon as I finish this box of doughnuts.'
People who say 'trying to quit' have invariably been saying that for years. And will always be saying it.
You're either a smoker. Or you're not.

smoking
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Nov 8, 2018 11:22 AM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
marlindap
marlindapmarlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada585 Posts
I do not smoke but i do not care if someone else does, as long as it is not in a vehicle.
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Nov 8, 2018 11:24 AM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
MisterForYou: 'Trying to Quit' is the worst form of self delusion possible. It's like saying, 'I'll go on that diet just as soon as I finish this box of doughnuts.'
People who say 'trying to quit' have invariably been saying that for years. And will always be saying it.
You're either a smoker. Or you're not.
Long term trying is out of the question devil
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Nov 8, 2018 11:29 AM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
pKrema: Long term trying is out of the question
I haven't smoked for 20 years , I just decided to give up one day, and did, no problem , no withdrawal, i don't see the problem.
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Nov 8, 2018 11:41 AM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
aries1234: I haven't smoked for 20 years , I just decided to give up one day, and did, no problem , no withdrawal, i don't see the problem.
I am a former smoker too, and same, just stopped smoking at once...there's no other way, really...
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Nov 8, 2018 11:45 AM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
MisterForYou
MisterForYouMisterForYouValletta, Majjistral Malta87 Threads 16 Polls 962 Posts
pKrema: I am a former smoker too, and same, just stopped smoking at once...there's no other way, really...
I have huge respect for quitters. But here's the thing...the most difficult part is to STAY quit. How do you resist when you're out with a drink in your hand, and everyone around you is smoking??
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Nov 8, 2018 11:53 AM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
MisterForYou: I have huge respect for quitters. But here's the thing...the most difficult part is to STAY quit. How do you resist when you're out with a drink in your hand, and everyone around you is smoking??
Resist? It can never, ever tempt me again...
Once in my dream I got persuade to smoked and I was totally devastated (still in my dream) that I did it, I felt guild ridden when I woke up and this awful feeling hounded me the whole day...uh oh
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Nov 8, 2018 11:58 AM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
MisterForYou
MisterForYouMisterForYouValletta, Majjistral Malta87 Threads 16 Polls 962 Posts
pKrema: Resist? It can never, ever tempt me again...
Once in my dream I got persuade to smoked and I was totally devastated (still in my dream) that I did it, I felt guild ridden when I woke up and this awful feeling hounded me the whole day...
Wow. That says volumes about you.
So once you make up your mind about something, that's it!
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Nov 8, 2018 12:07 PM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
well I smoke so a smoker would be preferred cause I don't plan on quitting any time soon......wave
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Nov 8, 2018 12:09 PM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
MisterForYou
MisterForYouMisterForYouValletta, Majjistral Malta87 Threads 16 Polls 962 Posts
M4_Mischief: well I smoke so a smoker would be preferred cause I don't plan on quitting any time soon......
:::scratches M4::::

laugh
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Nov 8, 2018 12:10 PM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
MisterForYou: 'Trying to Quit' is the worst form of self delusion possible. It's like saying, 'I'll go on that diet just as soon as I finish this box of doughnuts.'
People who say 'trying to quit' have invariably been saying that for years. And will always be saying it.
You're either a smoker. Or you're not.
I agree with that statement!
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Nov 8, 2018 12:14 PM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
MisterForYou: :::scratches M4::::
hey at least I don't say im trying to quit 50 times cause I know its not gonna happen.....tongue


I also smoke pot so must be 420 friendly......angel
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Nov 8, 2018 12:16 PM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
I meant to add.. I'm a non smoker...never have and never will.

When younger I could tolerate someone smoking as long as it wasn't in confined spaces.

As I got older...I can't even stand it and...worst of all...I couldn't kiss a smoker.barf
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Nov 8, 2018 1:53 PM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
Interesting both of my last two near misses were smokers and one of the reasons they stayed near misses was because they smoked and I will be very surprised if I ever went out with a smoker as I don't want that stink about and kiss a lady who smokes.
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Nov 8, 2018 5:31 PM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
MisterForYou: For some peeps, being a smoker can be a deal-breaker, in dating terms. How much of a deal is it for you?
it's a deal breaker. I can't/won't be around it
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Nov 8, 2018 5:40 PM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
If someone I was with smoked all deals would be totally off.My late hubby smoked like a smoke stake and he died of lung cancer.
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Nov 8, 2018 5:46 PM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
MisterForYou: For some peeps, being a smoker can be a deal-breaker, in dating terms. How much of a deal is it for you?
I'm a smoker. I don't allow it inside the home no matter what the outdoor weather conditions might be.

Obviously it doesn't matter to me either way if a woman is a smoker or not.

I think more non-smokers would be likely to have actual issues with it.

There are smokers that might also have issues, since it isn't allowed inside of my home.
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Nov 8, 2018 5:48 PM CST Partner search: How important is the 'Smoker/Non-Smoker' issue?
wobblyheed
wobblyheedwobblyheedSunderland, Tyne and Wear, England UK14 Threads 785 Posts
fifitrixibelle: <<crosses wobbs off "to do" list
I was on it?

(Note to self. Dig exercise bike out of shed tomorrow.)
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