smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
It is essential to know your partner's background, and he must know yours too, else it is an accident waiting to happen. Attitude makes a big difference whether you are overlooked, rejected or avoided.
Butcher559: I think people can be rejected or avoided for a number of reasons.. for their past or the history of the peoples or there country of origin are very common reasons, but i see it in the way of every person is an individual.. that may or may not believe and live their life the way their country of origin is perceived to the rest of the world... People who make a decision on a person based that persons past has a very poor perspective on life... Show me a person that has not their beliefs and ways over the years, we are not the same people we were 5 or 10 years ago. Great thread subject.
Hi Butch and thanks for taking part in my thread... I believe there's a seed of truth in everything everyone of us says about importance of the background... As we all have different experience in life...
smiley963: It is essential to know your partner's background, and he must know yours too, else it is an accident waiting to happen. Attitude makes a big difference whether you are overlooked, rejected or avoided.
pKrema: Thanks Track! I know it's easy to say people change... I've seen the same person turn completely different when in their own original environment and not because they don't want to be looked at like a poser but because of their true calling... I also know many try hard to be different but it somehow transpires and leaves a taste of falseness around them... You know what they say..."You can take the Russian out of Russia but you can't take Russia out of them"...
Why do you deny us more of your threads Background is important to me and upbringing We discover how people really are after being around them a lot Never been rejected cause of my background and don't bather to chase women these days Many, but not all people get judged by their backgrounds and it's always been this way
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Attitude makes a big difference whether you are overlooked, rejected or avoided.