Why do people change ( Archived) (57)

Nov 10, 2018 11:39 AM CST Why do people change
MisterForYou
MisterForYouMisterForYouValletta, Majjistral Malta87 Threads 16 Polls 962 Posts
Bearwoman: Aries the sad thing is that some people don't ever change and just remain their miserable self.
rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 11, 2018 7:43 PM CST Why do people change
aries1234: Why do people change when they get on line on CS.

Otherwise nice people become abusing and aggressive towards women, and other posters.

They act in a nasty way to others.

What is it about talking to a screen that bring out the nastier side of human nature.

Not all some stay sane and sweet which are you???
but how do you know that they are any nicer offline? I'd wager that isn't so.

We might just be seeing those aggressive qualities earlier on with some posters because of the "anonymity" of the internet. Mommie's basement being so safe and allrolling on the floor laughing
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Nov 11, 2018 9:09 PM CST Why do people change
secludedStar
secludedStarsecludedStarUtah, USA25 Threads 2,288 Posts
aries1234: ]

Not all some stay sane and sweet which are you???
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Nov 12, 2018 5:18 PM CST Why do people change
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,508 Posts
I don’t know, but I haven’t change and I treat
people how they treat me, I don’t play follow the leader either
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Nov 12, 2018 5:21 PM CST Why do people change
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
Some people change for the better and some don't change at all.
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Nov 12, 2018 5:22 PM CST Why do people change
Packersbabe1
Packersbabe1Packersbabe1Green Bay, Wisconsin USA3 Threads 16,508 Posts
Very true
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Nov 13, 2018 7:13 AM CST Why do people change
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
aries1234: Why do people change when they get on line on CS.

Otherwise nice people become abusing and aggressive towards women, and other posters.

They act in a nasty way to others.

What is it about talking to a screen that bring out the nastier side of human nature.

Not all some stay sane and sweet which are you???

O! what a thing it is, in a time of danger, and in the presence of death, the shining of a face upon a face! I have heard it broached that orders should be given in great new ships by electric telegraph. I admire machinery as much as any man, and am as thankful to it as any man can be for what it does for us. But, it will never be a substitute for the face of a man, with his soul in it, encouraging another man to be brave and true. Never try it for that. It will break down like a straw.


Charles Dickens
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Nov 13, 2018 7:55 AM CST Why do people change
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
aries1234: Why do people change when they get on line on CS.

Otherwise nice people become abusing and aggressive towards women, and other posters.

They act in a nasty way to others.

What is it about talking to a screen that bring out the nastier side of human nature.

Not all some stay sane and sweet which are you???
I'm a healthy mixture of good and evil innocent devil
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Nov 13, 2018 8:36 AM CST Why do people change
aries1234: Why do people change when they get on line on CS.

Otherwise nice people become abusing and aggressive towards women, and other posters.

They act in a nasty way to others.

What is it about talking to a screen that bring out the nastier side of human nature.

Not all some stay sane and sweet which are you???
I'm not sure people "change".
I think different personalities bring out different parts of us.
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Nov 13, 2018 9:00 AM CST Why do people change
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
Kaybee50: I'm not sure people "change".
I think different personalities bring out different parts of us.
I think you've got something there KB, some people you can see the goodness glowing from them, others rub you up the wrong way from go. I think the herd instinct comes into the equation as well.wine hug
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Nov 13, 2018 9:33 AM CST Why do people change
Most people don't change, they just revert back to who they really are. Most people behave extra good at least initially when new to a group. Given time, they start being themselves more and more. Few people have actually change because of anything that has happened here.
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Nov 13, 2018 10:39 AM CST Why do people change
Kidwell_
Kidwell_Kidwell_South East GBA Province, Buenos Aires Argentina17 Threads 2 Polls 767 Posts
aries1234: Why do people change when they get on line on CS.

Otherwise nice people become abusing and aggressive towards women, and other posters.

They act in a nasty way to others.

What is it about talking to a screen that bring out the nastier side of human nature.

Not all some stay sane and sweet which are you???
''Give a man a mask and he will tell you the truth''

Of course it becomes easy to be extremely honest and sometimes borderline nasty when is not a face to face conversation and the people you are flippin' off live across the pond from you.

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Nov 13, 2018 11:17 AM CST Why do people change
aries1234: Why do people change when they get on line on CS.

Otherwise nice people become abusing and aggressive towards women, and other posters.

They act in a nasty way to others.

What is it about talking to a screen that bring out the nastier side of human nature.

Not all some stay sane and sweet which are you???
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You and I have been on CS a long time and we have seen the time when CS was chaotic and almost impossible to post a nice comment because of the trolls. CS changed the format several times and it seems that the trolls are gone now.

If one person is nasty it seems that it gives someone else the "right" to also be nasty. That kind of action is the need of someone to belong. In general it seems to me that people are a little kinder now with the exception of a few strays.

In the real world I am very introverted and I almost never speak up but on CS I get the chance to give an opinion on a subject. It's just an opinion. If someone disagrees it doesn't bother me. If my opinion was a fact it still doesn't bother me when people lash out at me because I know in due time they will see that I wrote what was true.

To answer your question I am in the sweet category but I'm really not full of sugar plums and butterflies flirty
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Nov 13, 2018 11:43 AM CST Why do people change
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
secretagent09: You and I have been on CS a long time and we have seen the time when CS was chaotic and almost impossible to post a nice comment because of the trolls. CS changed the format several times and it seems that the trolls are gone now.

If one person is nasty it seems that it gives someone else the "right" to also be nasty. That kind of action is the need of someone to belong. In general it seems to me that people are a little kinder now with the exception of a few strays.

In the real world I am very introverted and I almost never speak up but on CS I get the chance to give an opinion on a subject. It's just an opinion. If someone disagrees it doesn't bother me. If my opinion was a fact it still doesn't bother me when people lash out at me because I know in due time they will see that I wrote what was true.

To answer your question I am in the sweet category but I'm really not full of sugar plums and butterflies
Good words Secrethug bouquet
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Nov 13, 2018 6:37 PM CST Why do people change
HexagonKeySet
HexagonKeySetHexagonKeySetCentral, Waikato New Zealand150 Threads 7 Polls 3,829 Posts
pedro27: face to face is different than cyber world forums and always will be, In cyber world there is more of freedom to truly speak your mind, were as in RL you might be different
That's because people get real brave when there's no possibility of an aggressive (physical) response to any level of provocation.

Of course the FUNY side of that is that the dumb asses who 'behave so brave' online sometimes FORGET when they're 'in real life' (those who actually do ever go out of the house) and they end up being taken down when a 'real person' gets back in their face !
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Nov 13, 2018 7:06 PM CST Why do people change
secludedStar
secludedStarsecludedStarUtah, USA25 Threads 2,288 Posts
Change is such a funny word
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Why not switch it for - adapt'
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Nov 13, 2018 7:31 PM CST Why do people change
_l_l_WS_l_l_
_l_l_WS_l_l__l_l_WS_l_l_germolene, New York USA110 Posts
secludedStar: Change is such a funny word
.
Why not switch it for - adapt'
words carry frequency on the vocal cords so "2" speak and when you express words verbally
the words ride out that frequency

I hope that make some sense

play on "word" hope laugh

also I might add class that means Plus not enough expression icons
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