ysabeljhen: When someone you’re dating says “I love you” but you don’t feel the same way, it’s always best to respond with great care and consideration for the other person’s feelings.
Mix Kindness, Empathy And Gentleness With Truth
Kindness, empathy, gentleness mixed with the truth about how you feel is generally the very best policy.
How about you?
I'll try to convince them they actually don't... If it doesn't work, I'll be gone in a heartbeat...
PeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands6,334 posts
When you just meet a girl, she will say: I want you. When you're getting married she will say: I want you very much When you're divorcing she will say: I want everything from you.
ysabeljhen: When someone you’re dating says “I love you” but you don’t feel the same way, it’s always best to respond with great care and consideration for the other person’s feelings.
Mix Kindness, Empathy And Gentleness With Truth
Kindness, empathy, gentleness mixed with the truth about how you feel is generally the very best policy.
How about you?
I would firstly think about the following before I replied. Am I being what they call "love bombed" or is this feeling they say they have genuine. Love bombing is a tactic that both scammers and narcissistic sociopaths use at the beginning of their grooming cycle to ensnare their victims. These can be both men and women. I would then consider how long I had chatted with them or even dated them. Then I would use my own intuition (gut feelings} and common sense.
It is easy for a person to say "I love you", but another to commit themselves for the long haul in practice.
ysabeljhen: When someone you’re dating says “I love you” but you don’t feel the same way, it’s always best to respond with great care and consideration for the other person’s feelings.
Mix Kindness, Empathy And Gentleness With Truth
Kindness, empathy, gentleness mixed with the truth about how you feel is generally the very best policy.
How about you?
Just be honest and tell the truth. I mean a date is a p of process to find out a deeper connection or simply the lack of it. I wouldn't go out with him again so as not to waste both our time.
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