What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet? ( Archived) (77)

Nov 18, 2018 5:30 PM CST What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet?
Everybody_Knows
Everybody_KnowsEverybody_KnowsTipperary, Ireland9 Posts
"I wouldn't blame you."
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Nov 18, 2018 7:41 PM CST What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet?
_l_l_WS_l_l_
_l_l_WS_l_l__l_l_WS_l_l_germolene, New York USA110 Posts
hickory dickory dock the mouse ran around the clock

professor
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Nov 18, 2018 9:44 PM CST What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
_l_l_WS_l_l_: hickory dickory dock the mouse ran around the clock
The clock struck one the mouse came down hickory dickory ducktongue
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Nov 18, 2018 9:46 PM CST What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
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Nov 18, 2018 9:50 PM CST What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
hey M4hug

maybe I would say "thank you"blushing
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Nov 18, 2018 9:51 PM CST What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
I might go with the finger guns......wave bouquet laugh
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Nov 18, 2018 10:12 PM CST What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
M4_Mischief: I might go with the finger guns......
laugh no other follow up words from him thensigh
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Nov 18, 2018 10:13 PM CST What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
he might say....pew pew pew.......laugh
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Nov 18, 2018 10:19 PM CST What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
M4_Mischief: he might say....pew pew pew.......
laugh you're funny...who goes dead first?help
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Nov 18, 2018 10:23 PM CST What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
ysabeljhen: you're funny...who goes dead first?
the one being finger gunned so I guess all he can do is fall down cause he wouldn't be able to talk.....laugh
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Nov 18, 2018 10:28 PM CST What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
M4_Mischief: the one being finger gunned so I guess all he can do is fall down cause he wouldn't be able to talk.....
laugh that's the scene you created smitten what would be the caption of the scene?laugh
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Nov 19, 2018 12:00 AM CST What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
ysabeljhen: When someone you’re dating says “I love you” but you don’t feel the same way, it’s always best to respond with great care and consideration for the other person’s feelings.

Mix Kindness, Empathy And Gentleness With Truth

Kindness, empathy, gentleness mixed with the truth about how you feel is generally the very best policy.



How about you?
I'll try to convince them they actually don't...
If it doesn't work, I'll be gone in a heartbeat... uh oh
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Nov 19, 2018 3:36 AM CST What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet?
ysabeljhen
ysabeljhenysabeljhenFlying Fish Cove, Christmas Island71 Threads 2 Polls 1,874 Posts
pKrema: I'll try to convince them they actually don't...
If it doesn't work, I'll be gone in a heartbeat...
hey beautiful pkremahug
confused why?teddybear
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Nov 19, 2018 3:50 AM CST What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet?
tame97
tame97tame97wanganui, Manawatu-Wanganui New Zealand13 Threads 4 Polls 68 Posts
I would say I love me more lol
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Nov 19, 2018 4:01 AM CST What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet?
PeKaatje
PeKaatjePeKaatjeAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands59 Threads 3 Polls 6,334 Posts
When you just meet a girl, she will say: I want you.
When you're getting married she will say: I want you very much
When you're divorcing she will say: I want everything from you.


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Nov 19, 2018 4:35 PM CST What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet?
Demeter123
Demeter123Demeter123Sundsvall, Vasternorrland Sweden149 Posts
ysabeljhen: When someone you’re dating says “I love you” but you don’t feel the same way, it’s always best to respond with great care and consideration for the other person’s feelings.

Mix Kindness, Empathy And Gentleness With Truth

Kindness, empathy, gentleness mixed with the truth about how you feel is generally the very best policy.



How about you?
I would firstly think about the following before I replied.
Am I being what they call "love bombed" or is this feeling they say they have genuine. Love bombing is a tactic that both scammers and narcissistic sociopaths use at the beginning of their grooming cycle to ensnare their victims. These can be both men and women.
I would then consider how long I had chatted with them or even dated them. Then I would use my own intuition (gut feelings} and common sense.

It is easy for a person to say "I love you", but another to commit themselves for the long haul in practice.wave
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Nov 19, 2018 5:29 PM CST What do you say when someone you’re dating says, “I love you” but you’re not there yet?
ysabeljhen: When someone you’re dating says “I love you” but you don’t feel the same way, it’s always best to respond with great care and consideration for the other person’s feelings.

Mix Kindness, Empathy And Gentleness With Truth

Kindness, empathy, gentleness mixed with the truth about how you feel is generally the very best policy.



How about you?
Just be honest and tell the truth. I mean a date is a p of process to find out a deeper connection or simply the lack of it. I wouldn't go out with him again so as not to waste both our time.

But I would be very polite in saying it.bouquet
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