The best thing to do on CS is to leave all options OPEN ! Anyhow, no one is finding no one from here, so no need to go through each question and answer like you're taking a final exam; some are so serious here, as if all the brides or grooms are lined up!
Ano couldn't say it any better!! I love the ones who send a like on your profile but, set their mail settings so you can't mail or inquire what they may like. Such as you have to be a certain age or live in specific countries or must be single or not looking or married or looking for intimate encounters. The issue is how is anyone to find out what people are about if one sets unrealistic conditions. They ultimate sabotage their efforts in finding someone right from the start.
My mail settings are a little different. I opened the age range in order to not fully limit open conversation.
Why should email through the site be restricted to only potential partners? Occasionally, another person may want to go into a discussion off the forums and blogs. I have left room for that option. That option has been used at times and makes me glad that I did, no matter what may transpire.
However, I've noticed that my match settings may not seem to matter much for the profile settings. I've had supposed matches as young as 23 pop up in meet me. I attribute this to their potential settings not fully set for their profiles. Still, the site seems to disregard my profile preferences some times as they shouldn't be showing for me.
I take it all with a grain of salt and select no when too young or maybe too old. I make sure to set the age range when I look at matches as they don't seem to save automatically. I've often wondered if that is a part of the issue.
For the most part, I've chosen not to complicate it much.
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