PeKaatjeOPAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands6,334 posts
More and more people stay single, a lot of them not by free choice. In the mean time, there are lots of datingsites worldwide. Some, like CS are free, most you have to pay for. And especially the ones that asks for your money are often not to be trusted, having fake profiles, a girl gets the attention of a man and she says she wants a date, but there never will be a date, for the girl is not excisting, just a man with a stolen picture. But everytime the bait will think she wants to meet him, so he pays for the next month, and a third. And when he's tired of the waiting he search on and finds a new not excisting girl, maybe the same man he spoke to before.
Love should be the highest gift and luck on this world, it's cruel to ask money from someone who just wants to be lucky with the partner of his or her life. Especially when it's all fraud.
Maybe all datingsites should be disappear, make one big worldwide free datingsite ruled by the governments, or companies like google, apple etc. Cuz when I am on datingsite a, and the love of my life is on datingsite b, c or d, I guess we'll never find each other.
I think after that happens for so long people just kind of get sick of it and give up.....I mean why keep beating a dead horse?......one can only be excited and positive when it hasn't turned into years of disappointment.....so im not really sure they do themselves any service by having fake people write to real people.....
PeKaatjeOPAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands6,334 posts
M4_Mischief: I think after that happens for so long people just kind of get sick of it and give up.....I mean why keep beating a dead horse?......one can only be excited and positive when it hasn't turned into years of disappointment.....so im not really sure they do themselves any service by having fake people write to real people.....
There's always a fooll willing to pay, and with each new generation there will be new fools. I know a guy who refused to take internet, and now he's calling datinglines for almost 2000 euro each month, while on the internet you can have private contact by skype etc, and then you can also see each other. I still wonder why these phonelines still excist? Why are people still calling and paying way to much money?
You are right Molly and high by the way hope you are well. Lots of people have met on line but only the folk who were duped do we hear about. I know folk in my circle who met on line and paid too, but by infogathered it would appear if you pay for 3 months and in that time do not connect then give up for awhile on that site i would say.
Many years ago....when there was no tv, internet, pagers, cellphones etc.... during those times people wouldn't know how the other couple are getting by on the other side of the town, on top of it add the lack of entertainment sources. So eventually people had to follow the traditional way as their parents or great great parents once did. Now a days, people seeing the hardships, divorces, lack of finances, specially women being the most targeted ones left with children helpless etc... and the current technologies and devices help people to wide open their eyes and change their perspectives in all these.
PeKaatjeOPAnkeveen, North Holland Netherlands6,334 posts
Well, people getting less children than in the past in Western Europe.
I guess it's just like in the animal world, when animals discover (don't know how they do it but they do) that there will be less food the coming year, they get less children.
In the past people worked almost till they died and when they became old they needed the children to feed them. So they produced more children.
Then the gouvernment chnges the laws, people got money from the gouvernment after their working life and also a pensioncheque. So there is no need to produce more children, actually, having children is costing much money. Especially when they want to study and so on.
In the past, having children was neccessary, now it's luxury.
If people in Africa get enough money when they are retired, I bet they also will have less children, but now they keep producing them, running for a worldwide disaster.
The reason why people prefer to be single is those same people themselves... One can find million and one reasons to stay in their cocoon, comfort and indulgence, why think of someone else and put up with their needs and ways... We can have fun and you can get a taxi home afterwards...I don't really want to be disturbed changing my morning routine, making you coffee and wondering how to get you out of my house faster... And staying overnight or sharing the same living space may give you the wrong idea of something that isn't there... l-l-looove... No, I am fine on my own...that's the truth...and some may disagree but it's here and it's real... Financial or image union...or kind of necessity...
pKrema: Anyway, I had an awful day and I hate it when there's nobody to tell about it...
sharing a bad day with someone is not a good thing...sharing love with someone and affect is...I'm sure you know plenty of women, who will join you in complaining about their day or complaining about men...the nagging and complaining is something I do not miss from relationships and many women are so good at it
LeeCharming: sharing a bad day with someone is not a good thing...sharing love with someone and affect is...I'm sure you know plenty of women, who will join you in complaining about their day or complaining about men...the nagging and complaining is something I do not miss from relationships and many women are so good at it
Sharing the good and bad, Lee, the good and BAD...remember...?! Stop cherry picking...
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And when he's tired of the waiting he search on and finds a new not excisting girl, maybe the same man he spoke to before.
Love should be the highest gift and luck on this world, it's cruel to ask money from someone who just wants to be lucky with the partner of his or her life. Especially when it's all fraud.
Maybe all datingsites should be disappear, make one big worldwide free datingsite ruled by the governments, or companies like google, apple etc.
Cuz when I am on datingsite a, and the love of my life is on datingsite b, c or d, I guess we'll never find each other.