What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ? ( Archived) (41)

Nov 22, 2018 10:34 AM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
In my opinion the reason is unmet realistic expectations because we live in a world of false standards created by social media or government

Relationships need to be worked on. They aren’t either perfect or bad. But good is now disposable.


cheers
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Nov 22, 2018 10:44 AM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
galrads: In my opinion the reason is unmet realistic expectations because we live in a world of false standards created by social media or government
I totally agree.

I read a few years ago that over 50% of divorce cases, in the USA, that FaceBook posts are documented.

So my guess is:

Social engineering

galrads: Relationships need to be worked on. They aren’t either perfect or bad. But good is now disposable.
thumbs up We live in a disposable society. From disposable razors to people
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Nov 22, 2018 10:53 AM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
I think it's because we've become a throwaway society.
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Nov 22, 2018 11:06 AM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Increased self worth-often delusional... Nobody is good enough for me...

Getting in a relationship with someone for all the wrong reasons-They suit me in some way...They are convenient...We don't have to get too much involved because we both know we don't want to take it too far anyway...

I want to keep it casual because I might miss on the big thing when it comes...
And many many more..
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Nov 22, 2018 11:07 AM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,401 Posts
Technology is a haven for both genders to hide and cheat.

Technology destroys.
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Nov 22, 2018 11:08 AM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
"I'm too good for you" is a issue with some these days.
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Nov 22, 2018 11:18 AM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Track16: "I'm too good for you" is a issue with some these days.
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Nov 22, 2018 11:24 AM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
Mercedes_00: Technology is a haven for both genders to hide and cheat.

Technology destroys.
technology makes if possible to reach across the world for a partner and not settle for the person from the next street.
It is more the diffidence of the people involved, and some psychopathic people who will try to destroy any budding relation ship, because , if they can't have if , your not going to.

A lot of men on this prog. , CS,
positively hate women and others aspirations.
to romance
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Nov 22, 2018 11:31 AM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,401 Posts
aries1234: technology makes if possible to reach across the world for a partner and not settle for the person from the next street.
It is more the diffidence of the people involved, and some psychopathic people who will try to destroy any budding relation ship, because , if they can't have if , your not going to.

A lot of men on this prog. , CS,
positively hate women and others aspirations.
to romance
My post was in reference to the many people I know in the real world..You see when I make an assumption it's because of valid information from the horses mouths so to speak..
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Nov 22, 2018 11:36 AM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
"I like her/him but they won't get my friend's approval ..."
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Nov 22, 2018 11:40 AM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
Mercedes_00: My post was in reference to the many people I know in the real world..You see when I make an assumption it's because of valid information from the horses mouths so to speak..
Well you admit id is an assumption, and we all know what they say about tha.
Am I and other CS'ers not in the real world, are we phantomsdunno

I too speak from personal experience, i just disagree with your comment.
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Nov 22, 2018 11:47 AM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,401 Posts
aries1234: Well you admit id is an assumption, and we all know what they say about tha.
Am I and other CS'ers not in the real world, are we phantoms

I too speak from personal experience, i just disagree with your comment.
I take what posters say with a grain of salt which means posters are a face behind a screen.

I take what is said to me in the real world as valid truth.

Yeah technology isn't the sole purpose of what is stated on the subject line of this thread but it sure plays a huge part as far as broken relationships are concerned.
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Nov 22, 2018 11:48 AM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
pKrema: "I like her/him but they won't get my friend's approval ..."
Or as Samantha Fish tells it ... Somebody’s Always Trying (to interfere and break relationships up.)

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Nov 22, 2018 11:52 AM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
cheatingpopcorn
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Nov 22, 2018 11:55 AM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
MikeD12
MikeD12MikeD12Broadstairs, Kent, England UK16 Threads 2 Polls 2,809 Posts
Social media & False Representation
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Nov 22, 2018 11:59 AM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
Mercedes_00: I take what posters say with a grain of salt which means posters are a face behind a screen.

I take what is said to me in the real world as valid truth.

Yeah technology isn't the sole purpose of what is stated on the subject line of this thread but it sure plays a huge part as far as broken relationships are concerned.
I am in the real world as well' i'm not a non person as you seem to think CS'ers are. If you think so little of us why are you here.
Using the very technology you poo poo, to lecture us on the real world.
I see you as a narcissist judging by some of your posts trying to dominate CS. JMO
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Nov 22, 2018 12:01 PM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
MiguelUknow
MiguelUknowMiguelUknowSantiago de Queretaro, Queretaro Mexico14 Threads 638 Posts
Must be pride.
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Nov 22, 2018 12:30 PM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
marlindaponline today!
marlindaponline today!marlindapClearwater, British Columbia Canada581 Posts
it could be because so many people want to live like they are single while being in a relationship. People do not need each other like they did years ago, in these days you have to step up and own your relationship or you will lose it.
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Nov 22, 2018 12:35 PM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
marlindap: it could be because so many people want to live like they are single while being in a relationship. People do not need each other like they did years ago, in these days you have to step up and own your relationship or you will lose it.
wave ive always wanted to be with someone not need. I hear a lot of people today say having a relationship but living alone is the way to go. So, what enables people to not need or want a closer relationship. dunno
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Nov 22, 2018 12:45 PM CST What do you think are the reasons that either prevent or destroy most relationships today ?
Inthewoods
InthewoodsInthewoodsColorado Springs, Colorado USA9,887 Posts
galrads: ive always wanted to be with someone not need. I hear a lot of people today say having a relationship but living alone is the way to go. So, what enables people to not need or want a closer relationship.
Maybe, everybody's afraid to need someone, like it's a weakness... dunno sometimes it's a part of being close... I wish someone needed me...
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