Don't look Back In Anger!! (33)
TulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 PostsI forget. A short memory has its advantages :)
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annaroach: Isn't it futile, to hold grudges, and to stay angry, for things that happened
in the past,, who does that affect only ourselves.
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I agree with you 100% Anna in the past,, who does that affect only ourselves.
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Life is too short to carry negative thoughts around with us and it is self defeating to do so. Oh, the memories will remain with us simply as reminders of how to do better the next time and perhaps a life lesson. I love the concept of not carrying around any possible guilt associated with what has happened in the past. 
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2intrigued: I agree with you 100% Anna Life is too short to carry negative thoughts around with us and it is self defeating to do so. Oh, the memories will remain with us simply as reminders of how to do better the next time and perhaps a life lesson. I love the concept of not carrying around any possible guilt associated with what has happened in the past.
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annaroach: Isn't it futile, to hold grudges, and to stay angry, for things that happened
in the past,, who does that affect only ourselves.
Is your opinion different from mine?
the person holding the hot coal, is the one that gets burned...in the past,, who does that affect only ourselves.
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annaroach: Isn't it futile, to hold grudges, and to stay angry, for things that happened
in the past,, who does that affect only ourselves.
Is your opinion different from mine?
So far I´ve used Facebook to search and destroy three of my former primary school classmatesin the past,, who does that affect only ourselves.
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Bnaughty: So far I´ve used Facebook to search and destroy three of my former primary school classmates
This means: you are done with Kindergarten?------ This thread is Archived ------
Bnaughty: So far I´ve used Facebook to search and destroy three of my former primary school classmates
I hope they've learned a lesson from it.Don't mess with BNs' colouring book.
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I will forgive but I wont repeat....my job is to forgive for me and that means it has very little to do with the other person.....
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Oh I expected a thread about Oasis....
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annaroach: Isn't it futile, to hold grudges, and to stay angry, for things that happened
in the past,, who does that affect only ourselves.
Is your opinion different from mine?
I don;t know if it is futile or not, but I agree that it is not a good idea. It can be a challenge. I recommend focusing attention elsewhere. So even if you do not forgive, you will be otherwise occupied and not thinking about your grudge so much. It's hard to stay angry at someone who you never think aboutin the past,, who does that affect only ourselves.
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I choose to look back with indifference...in other words it doesn't bother me one way or another anymore.....
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annaroach: Isn't it futile, to hold grudges, and to stay angry, for things that happened
in the past,, who does that affect only ourselves.
Is your opinion different from mine?
Few people benefit from the past mistakes, when I say mistake not necessarily yours but mistakes that got you messed up in the first place. Letting it go is good for us to move on,in the past,, who does that affect only ourselves.
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it doesn't mean to forget about it, all it means rap it and store it in your memory in a safe place where you can benefit from it by looking back & analyzing step by step how you got there for only us can see the inner problem and solve it accordingly. By doing so we'll make us stronger mentally and prevent us falling into the trap over and over again.
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annaroach: Isn't it futile, to hold grudges, and to stay angry, for things that happened
in the past,, who does that affect only ourselves.
Is your opinion different from mine?
I used to hitch-hike all over the place; and a favorite gag of spoiled rich kids, is, waiting till you run to the car, then burning rubber, and all laughing at the person, in the rear window...in the past,, who does that affect only ourselves.
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I quickly learned to release any anger towards them.
I'd stand there happily waving at the jerks, who I didn't wanna ride with, anyway...
They'd get so angry at our 15 second past, the time and energy they wasted trying to piss me off, and watching me smiling and waving at them....
They'd start cussing and yelling, and flipping me off! and I'd just smile and wave more. lol
Psychic vampires try to trick you into angry grudges, so they can suck your energy.
If you give in, you'll be the one feeling bad.
Just rise above them; and you'll be the one laughing.
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