Woman makeing the first move ( Archived) (83)

Dec 4, 2018 11:26 AM CST Woman makeing the first move
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden103 Threads 5 Polls 3,290 Posts
Yay or nay?

To women: have you ever made the first move on a dating site? What was the result?

To men: a woman made the first move: your reaction, if any?
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Dec 4, 2018 11:32 AM CST Woman makeing the first move
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Tulefell: Yay or nay?

To women: have you ever made the first move on a dating site? What was the result?

To men: a woman made the first move: your reaction, if any?
I believe some men fear she is a scammer if she makes the first move, I didn't realise it till recently, when friends shared online experience...
I prefer to be approached, not because of possible rejection but because I think I am robbing the guy out of something truly masculine...
Sorry millennials, but your modern ways are proving to be just loose behaviour and not much else...
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Dec 4, 2018 11:33 AM CST Woman makeing the first move
Limun
LimunLimunAbidos, Central Serbia Serbia6 Threads 1 Polls 1,923 Posts
Tulefell: Yay or nay?

To women: have you ever made the first move on a dating site? What was the result?

To men: a woman made the first move: your reaction, if any?
im all for it

yes, they do it all the time, on the internet and in real life
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Dec 4, 2018 11:33 AM CST Woman makeing the first move
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
Tulefell: Yay or nay?

To women: have you ever made the first move on a dating site? What was the result?

To men: a woman made the first move: your reaction, if any?
Is this a serious question today? Women make the first move with me all the time, especially after they enquirer about me with their friends and learn, even though I could care less how I dress and my personality sucks, I’m smart, loving and confident as well as economically and emotionally stable.


wave
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Dec 4, 2018 11:37 AM CST Woman makeing the first move
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
Tulefell: Yay or nay?

To women: have you ever made the first move on a dating site? What was the result?
No. Not on a date site.

In real life, yes. Men either love it and are flattered or they start twitching.. like.. "What just happened? This isn't supposed to happen"
rolling on the floor laughing
It is my generation. roll eyes
Some men don't like it or assume women are wh*res and are being "too forward"
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Dec 4, 2018 11:40 AM CST Woman makeing the first move
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
I accept all and every moves by any women on me, I do not discriminatescold
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Dec 4, 2018 11:41 AM CST Woman makeing the first move
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
CossackCat: No. Not on a date site.

In real life, yes. Men either love it and are flattered or they start twitching.. like.. "What just happened? This isn't supposed to happen"

It is my generation.
Some men don't like it or assume women are wh*res and are being "too forward"
You cant live in the USA if that is really your observation tongue
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Dec 4, 2018 11:45 AM CST Woman makeing the first move
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
galrads: You cant live in the USA if that is really your observation
It is not an observation. It is my experience.
And I probably am asking a different type of men than the women asking you.
tongue
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Dec 4, 2018 11:45 AM CST Woman makeing the first move
Ocee102
Ocee102Ocee102unkown, California USA10 Threads 1,399 Posts
On dating sites, most female profiles who make the fist move are scammers.


Here's the thing.

On a dating site, your profile is a needle, in a haystack sized pile of needles.

If someone's profile grabs your attention and you sit back hoping that one person will see something special in your profile, it's just probably not going to happen. It's a dating site profile. A bad a pic or three, and a collection a stats no one with an ounce a sense would bet a quarter on being truthful.
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Dec 4, 2018 11:46 AM CST Woman makeing the first move
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
Bnaughty: I accept all and every moves by any women on me, I do not discriminate
Oh that is funny. laugh
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Dec 4, 2018 11:46 AM CST Woman makeing the first move
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
I should have said, millennials and boomers... laugh
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Dec 4, 2018 11:47 AM CST Woman makeing the first move
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
No they won't approach men and this will never change...Many western want everything with little effort and men to jump through endless hoops to just get validation from a woman...I don't worship women and no man shouldgrin
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Dec 4, 2018 11:50 AM CST Woman makeing the first move
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
pKrema: I prefer to be approached, not because of possible rejection but because I think I am robbing the guy out of something truly masculine
thumbs up
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Dec 4, 2018 12:00 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
saidmahmoud
saidmahmoudsaidmahmoudHamburg Mitte, Hamburg Germany3 Threads 1 Polls 1,593 Posts
we can discuss further on this matter
Approaching the new (mission impossible) in the future .
Am talking about the destructive #metoo movement
And scared men wearing body worn cameras

This is about the real life
But online I think everyone is free
You can say whatever you want if someone doesn't like what you are saying he will ignoring you or blocking you
Here the gender roles is not working the way we might think.
The more you are smart the more you get chances.
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Dec 4, 2018 12:08 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
It's the woman who chooses the man , who chooses her, in real life .

However , on dating sites, you have to lower your standard, as even the most mediocre of women , even those without a photo , will receive mail.

I'm not shallow , but I won't settle for a munter!!
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Dec 4, 2018 12:08 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
Tulefell: Yay or nay?

To women: have you ever made the first move on a dating site? What was the result?

To men: a woman made the first move: your reaction, if any?
Yes I have on a few occasions when I notice that the man has viewed my profile several times and he happens to live in the same country.

Today..for example...there's a guy who lives in the same town and has viewed my profile endless times!!
So I suggested we meet for a drink and he accepted!

I suppose he was just too shy to ask? Or...he felt intimidated? dunno



And to Mr Charming..tongue
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Dec 4, 2018 12:12 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
Arthur_Sixpence
Arthur_SixpenceArthur_SixpenceEnnis, Clare Ireland51 Threads 4 Polls 1,001 Posts
No, never happened, here or real life...
Frankly, I'd drop down dead by now if it did... The truth of it is, however much we like to think looks are unimportant, the reality is, looks, from the outset equate to attraction, and without that there's no real interest...
Where I am with life now, I'm not bothered about being proved wrong...
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Dec 4, 2018 12:13 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
LeeCharming
LeeCharmingLeeCharmingCardiff, South Glamorgan, Wales UK537 Threads 273 Polls 6,941 Posts
saidmahmoud: we can discuss further on this matter
Approaching the new (mission impossible) in the future .
Am talking about the destructive #metoo movement
And scared men wearing body worn cameras

This is about the real life
But online I think everyone is free
You can say whatever you want if someone doesn't like what you are saying he will ignoring you or blocking you
Here the gender roles is not working the way we might think.
The more you are smart the more you get chances.
meetoo is a massive problem and radical lesbian feminists might well be behind it...it's a way to demonise every man and make him walk on hot coals, just to get the chance to date a woman, but he could get falsly accused, unless he has a camera recording, written consent and maybe even witnesses...this is paving the way for break up of western society...the feminist agenda is to get at innocent children at schools and brainwash them into thinking they are not, what they were born to be, so in future the population is reduced and people have no identity, no gender, no rights, no love, no compassion, the self preservation, no free speech, no hope and no future....frustrated

People should Look up the things I talk about and then they will begin understand the truth
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Dec 4, 2018 12:14 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
The results? Nobody ever thought I was a scammer!
Especially when they see my 180 blogs I've written! laugh

Most have been quite charming and wanted to communicate and make friends.

Only a few couldn't be bothered because they were looking for a full time partner and I am not.
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Dec 4, 2018 12:19 PM CST Woman makeing the first move
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
LeeCharming: No they won't approach men and this will never change...Many western want everything with little effort and men to jump through endless hoops to just get validation from a woman...I don't worship women and no man should
So let me get this right.

You want women to revert to old ways and becomes submissive to men and not be feminists??? But you complain that they don't do the assertive thing and approach men??

You can't have it all one way, with your own little tweets here and there....you either want your woman to have old style values or you don't.
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