Distance relationships ( Archived) (72)

Dec 6, 2018 1:15 AM CST Distance relationships
Blanche223
Blanche223Blanche223Rome, Lazio Italy1 Threads 1 Posts
Please what are your opinions about distance relationships?
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Dec 6, 2018 1:19 AM CST Distance relationships
Blanche223: Please what are your opinions about distance relationships?
Hmmm ,,, I wouldn't mind,,,,
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Dec 6, 2018 1:50 AM CST Distance relationships
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
michaelright: Hmmm ,,, I wouldn't mind,,,,
Do you mean with the potential to meet up some time or.... only at distance??? confused
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Dec 6, 2018 1:52 AM CST Distance relationships
daears
daearsdaearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand23 Threads 1,542 Posts
Blanche223: Please what are your opinions about distance relationships?

Could one trust the unknown dunno . Some of us do. Some are not so trusting. One must be a very special person to have learnt that trust so soon. Not very common in this society anymore. I'm sad. BUT to us whom still live this way. My teddybear Blessings are with ya all teddybear
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Dec 6, 2018 1:55 AM CST Distance relationships
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
I think they suck!!!

At first, people are all enthusiastic about knowing each other, with the idea of a potential meet up and, who knows, maybe something deeper but...

After a period of "temporary madness", when things have calmed down, they begin to get boring and people just get tired of each other and the meet never take place. sigh


Unless people have already met up close and personal and a connection has already been made, then the distance should not matter. Sometimes absence makes the hearts grow fonder. dunno
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Dec 6, 2018 2:06 AM CST Distance relationships
daniela777: I think they suck!!!

At first, people are all enthusiastic about knowing each other, with the idea of a potential meet up and, who knows, maybe something deeper but...

After a period of "temporary madness", when things have calmed down, they begin to get boring and people just get tired of each other and the meet never take place.


Unless people have already met up close and personal and a connection has already been made, then the distance should not matter. Sometimes absence makes the hearts grow fonder.
I think the answer is to meet up quickly instead of endless texes , and then start debating the weather as you have nothing in common to talk of , ,,,
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Dec 6, 2018 2:14 AM CST Distance relationships
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
michaelright: I think the answer is to meet up quickly instead of endless texes , and then start debating the weather as you have nothing in common to talk of , ,,,
I agree! thumbs up

However, we need to exchange a few messages first to see if we are on the same wavelength, then a few phone calls, as the voice is important!
Then, some skype contact is equally important as well as a good sense of humour, otherwise, it´s just a waste of time.


For me, a connection can be made at first contact, as I am attracted by the personality and the written word, followed by the voice.
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Dec 6, 2018 2:20 AM CST Distance relationships
daears
daearsdaearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand23 Threads 1,542 Posts
daniela777: I think they suck!!!

At first, people are all enthusiastic about knowing each other, with the idea of a potential meet up and, who knows, maybe something deeper but...

After a period of "temporary madness", when things have calmed down, they begin to get boring and people just get tired of each other and the meet never take place.


Unless people have already met up close and personal and a connection has already been made, then the distance should not matter. Sometimes absence makes the hearts grow fonder.

Just imagine ....... feels like the one. Totally enjoying feeling that they are the one. An earnt meeting ( ages of every other respectfully done kind of communication other than in person ) . An then finally in person. dunno . . I call that foreplay. Isn't that what makes one stand out n the crowd dunno . Actual dedication proven dunno . Distance apart does make the heart grow fonder. An opportunity of feeling love is so worth it wether meeting now or later. teddybear . What happens after that is the same either way dunno
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Dec 6, 2018 2:21 AM CST Distance relationships
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
They aren't for me........wave
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Dec 6, 2018 2:57 AM CST Distance relationships
Limun
LimunLimunAbidos, Central Serbia Serbia6 Threads 1 Polls 1,923 Posts
Blanche223: Please what are your opinions about distance relationships?
love them
mostly cause of the distance of the in-laws
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Dec 6, 2018 3:02 AM CST Distance relationships
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
Apart from all the modern technology (texting, skyping, FB etc...), when we only had telephones, people used to call each other..... or. write.
Now, the skill of writing and sending a letter to a loved one seems to have disappeared! sigh

As for phone calls... most people prefer to send texts and have lengthy conversations on whatsapp, rather than pick up the phone (free of charge!) and talk in person.

Unfortunately, Many misunderstandings arise due to the lack of communication sigh frustrated
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Dec 6, 2018 4:08 AM CST Distance relationships
Mercedes_00
Mercedes_00Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,428 Posts
They work
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Dec 6, 2018 4:46 AM CST Distance relationships
daears
daearsdaearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand23 Threads 1,542 Posts
Mercedes_00: They work
I agree peace
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Dec 6, 2018 6:23 AM CST Distance relationships
if it fits your needs then it is okay.

Not my cup of tea.
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Dec 6, 2018 6:36 AM CST Distance relationships
Blanche223: Please what are your opinions about distance relationships?
very successful and pleasent cheers
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Dec 6, 2018 6:39 AM CST Distance relationships
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
Blanche223: Please what are your opinions about distance relationships?
You first and only post? It says ZERO.confused

The answer is. NO. Don't do it. Women have NOTHING to gain. Especially if their biological clock is ticking.
NEVER waste that time on man. Run out and get one near you that is WORTHY OF YOU.

bouquet
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Dec 6, 2018 6:44 AM CST Distance relationships
CossackCat: You first and only post? It says ZERO.

The answer is. NO. Don't do it. Women have NOTHING to gain. Especially if their biological clock is ticking.
NEVER waste that time on man. Run out and get one near you that is WORTHY OF YOU.
yep , than why most most of women over there are divorced or separated ?
It depends on the people not the distance ,
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Dec 6, 2018 6:44 AM CST Distance relationships
Mercedes_00: They work
thumbs up
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Dec 6, 2018 7:02 AM CST Distance relationships
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden103 Threads 5 Polls 3,298 Posts
Blanche223: Please what are your opinions about distance relationships?
Driving distance :D
No less, no more.

That's said, I have a very long time pen-pal from another country, vi have even discussed who eats what for breakfast a couple of times. Don't think, though, we are going to meet: there is no necessaty, as our relationship is just perfect, as it is. Meeting in person won't add anything, perhaps the opposite: it might take away the mistery, that our resp imagination created about the other.

But if you want a relationship in the real life, the distance is a hinder.
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Dec 6, 2018 7:09 AM CST Distance relationships
Tulefell: Driving distance :D
No less, no more.

That's said, I have a very long time pen-pal from another country, vi have even discussed who eats what for breakfast a couple of times. Don't think, though, we are going to meet: there is no necessaty, as our relationship is just perfect, as it is. Meeting in person won't add anything, perhaps the opposite: it might take away the mistery, that our resp imagination created about the other.

But if you want a relationship in the real life, the distance is a hinder.
I don't see any point to to appose the long distance relationship

The women against LDR got married with local men but are divorced , it proves marrying a local one is not necessary , personally if I find a good match overseas it will be happy to welcome her wine
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