I agree with cos...it has nothing to do with grudges and everything to with seeing them for who they are and that's toxic....its about self care and self love....dna means nothing when it comes to toxicity....I don't do toxic period.....
Family is the best example of no good deed goes unpunished. To even accept the idea of “loved ones” over profit and loss means you’re going to get hurt, but you can’t stay mad at them. From a business point of view family is a terrible thing, to hold loyalty to a person over loyalty to what can be got from a person is not profitable.
Difficult family members are character building for all concerned.
Loyalty to blood is part of your healthy instincts and you simply must refrain from thinking too much like a dollar bill. Romance isn’t transactional and dealing with those difficult family members isn’t transactional, they are in fact an important part of socialisation that helps to avoid singledom and being on here forever.
I don't, but the far away from them the better... You can't choose your relatives but you don't have to put up with them just because they are your blood...
If you repeatedly attempt to use me as a doormat to wipe your muddy boots on, I simply cut you out of my life.
You have to think about someone in order to hold a grudge against them. It's difficult to hold a grudge against someone you no longer think about. So, nope - no grudges here.
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