do you hold any grudes against family members...? ( Archived) (17)

Dec 10, 2018 10:53 AM CST do you hold any grudes against family members...?
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Dec 10, 2018 11:30 AM CST do you hold any grudes against family members...?
Bearwoman
BearwomanBearwomanNorthgate, Ohio USA9 Threads 3,267 Posts
Not really and why should I allow anyone to hold me prisoner within their miserable world.
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Dec 10, 2018 11:42 AM CST do you hold any grudes against family members...?
EXRED
EXREDEXREDNorthumberland, England UK6 Threads 1,659 Posts
No i do not hold grudges just close the door on them ha ha
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Dec 10, 2018 12:50 PM CST do you hold any grudes against family members...?
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
No...But some do against me.sad flower
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Dec 10, 2018 12:52 PM CST do you hold any grudes against family members...?
MikeD12
MikeD12MikeD12Broadstairs, Kent, England UK16 Threads 2 Polls 2,809 Posts
No - I just told them ALL to F Off in 2010 laugh laugh laugh
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Dec 10, 2018 12:59 PM CST do you hold any grudes against family members...?
deedee123xo
deedee123xodeedee123xoLimerick, Ireland15 Threads 3,538 Posts
pedro27: post on
No, thankfully.

Do you?
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Dec 10, 2018 1:00 PM CST do you hold any grudes against family members...?
CossackCat
CossackCatCossackCatSomewhere, Maryland USA492 Threads 45 Polls 9,137 Posts
I wouldn't call it a grudge. They know who they are.
And have been cut out.

DNA is not an excuse or a waiver for toxicity
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Dec 11, 2018 12:55 AM CST do you hold any grudes against family members...?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
I agree with cos...it has nothing to do with grudges and everything to with seeing them for who they are and that's toxic....its about self care and self love....dna means nothing when it comes to toxicity....I don't do toxic period.....wave
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Dec 11, 2018 2:10 AM CST do you hold any grudes against family members...?
Limun
LimunLimunAbidos, Central Serbia Serbia6 Threads 1 Polls 1,923 Posts
pedro27: post on
sure, why wouldn't i laugh
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Dec 11, 2018 2:24 AM CST do you hold any grudes against family members...?
Bluesky60
Bluesky60Bluesky60Marysville, Washington USA225 Posts
Dont bother with such hateful people.family or not.
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Dec 11, 2018 2:36 AM CST do you hold any grudes against family members...?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Family is the best example of no good deed goes unpunished. To even accept the idea of “loved ones” over profit and loss means you’re going to get hurt, but you can’t stay mad at them. From a business point of view family is a terrible thing, to hold loyalty to a person over loyalty to what can be got from a person is not profitable.
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Dec 11, 2018 4:20 AM CST do you hold any grudes against family members...?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
pedro27: post on
You keep your wicked family members around if for no other reason than to intimidate your new girlfriend.

Maybe on some level Nannan deserves to be alone this Christmas, but no.
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Dec 11, 2018 5:02 AM CST do you hold any grudes against family members...?
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
Difficult family members are character building for all concerned.

Loyalty to blood is part of your healthy instincts and you simply must refrain from thinking too much like a dollar bill. Romance isn’t transactional and dealing with those difficult family members isn’t transactional, they are in fact an important part of socialisation that helps to avoid singledom and being on here forever.
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Dec 11, 2018 7:13 AM CST do you hold any grudes against family members...?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
I don't, but the far away from them the better...
You can't choose your relatives but you don't have to put up with them just because they are your blood...
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Dec 11, 2018 7:19 AM CST do you hold any grudes against family members...?
No but there are some I am closer to than other. I'm pretty sure there are those in the family who disapproves of my life style.
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Dec 12, 2018 8:20 AM CST do you hold any grudes against family members...?
RedHeadedTaurus
RedHeadedTaurusRedHeadedTaurusHere, Michigan USA17 Threads 1 Polls 8,455 Posts
If you repeatedly attempt to use me as a doormat to wipe your muddy boots on, I simply cut you out of my life.


You have to think about someone in order to hold a grudge against them. It's difficult to hold a grudge against someone you no longer think about. So, nope - no grudges here.
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Dec 12, 2018 1:41 PM CST do you hold any grudes against family members...?
newinsouth
newinsouthnewinsouthAiken, South Carolina USA26 Threads 2 Polls 1,039 Posts
Toxic family member has been cut out of my life. So true, you can choose your friends, not your relatives.doh
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