life after your beloved past away... (32)
I suggest grief counciling or buy a book on
7 STAGES OF GRIEF
A date site is the last place you should be. Good luck to you.
7 STAGES OF GRIEF
A date site is the last place you should be. Good luck to you.
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There's no universal rule of grieving and getting over your loss.
Do not compare a person to another.
Be grateful for the opportunity to enjoy a company / relationship that gave you so much.
Give yourself a time to grieve and reflect.
Then move on with a light heart.
Do not compare a person to another.
Be grateful for the opportunity to enjoy a company / relationship that gave you so much.
Give yourself a time to grieve and reflect.
Then move on with a light heart.
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Enigmaticsmile: I am just wondering if somebody/someone like me is having a hard time coping with life after my partner died!
It is so hard to move on and accept the fact that i am really all alone now. Finding myself and falling in love in the real sense of LOVE is possible but i just cannot help but compare him to all men i met.
Finding fault is easier than being content that i really survived! Can somebody tell me that there is still life after his/her or after the death of your partner?
Is it much easier if you had children or is it much better that you did not had one?
Thans for all who will have time to read and say what they think about my thread!
I am wishing you all a very fruitful and full of LOVE for the year 2019! Hope to hear from all of you!
POI
You are not the only one. I am sure everyone who's love one passed on would be in the same kind of grief. Grief or sorrow is very natural to happen when our love ones die. The only thing I can share with you is that, take the time to let it pass but make sure too, that you will have to accept and that you have to move on.It is so hard to move on and accept the fact that i am really all alone now. Finding myself and falling in love in the real sense of LOVE is possible but i just cannot help but compare him to all men i met.
Finding fault is easier than being content that i really survived! Can somebody tell me that there is still life after his/her or after the death of your partner?
Is it much easier if you had children or is it much better that you did not had one?
Thans for all who will have time to read and say what they think about my thread!
I am wishing you all a very fruitful and full of LOVE for the year 2019! Hope to hear from all of you!
POI
Comparing him to anyone is not going to work. There is no way that anyone or anybody for that matter can compare to any of us. Similarity might be a good possibility but we are all individuals with our own different flaws and assets. Accept whoever will come in your life when you are ready.
Like Cossack said, I agree. Take time and then go from there.
Good luck and my condolence for your loss.
Welcome to the forum, my first time to see you.
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Enigmaticsmile: I am just wondering if somebody/someone like me is having a hard time coping with life after my partner died!
It is so hard to move on and accept the fact that i am really all alone now. Finding myself and falling in love in the real sense of LOVE is possible but i just cannot help but compare him to all men i met.
Finding fault is easier than being content that i really survived! Can somebody tell me that there is still life after his/her or after the death of your partner?
Is it much easier if you had children or is it much better that you did not had one?
Thans for all who will have time to read and say what they think about my thread!
I am wishing you all a very fruitful and full of LOVE for the year 2019! Hope to hear from all of you!
POI
It is so hard to move on and accept the fact that i am really all alone now. Finding myself and falling in love in the real sense of LOVE is possible but i just cannot help but compare him to all men i met.
Finding fault is easier than being content that i really survived! Can somebody tell me that there is still life after his/her or after the death of your partner?
Is it much easier if you had children or is it much better that you did not had one?
Thans for all who will have time to read and say what they think about my thread!
I am wishing you all a very fruitful and full of LOVE for the year 2019! Hope to hear from all of you!
POI
I'm sotty to hear about your sad loss. The old cliche it gets better with time might not mean much at the moment. Talk to people, don't bottle it up, and CS is one place you can let off steam, if you can stand the heat. I should take your time, work through the grief process, you are alive and that is precious.When your ready reach out. Good luck
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What I can say is, to let go. The last time I lost some one were my parents
so I let them go
so I let them go
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Sorry for your lost Smile, surround yourself with family & Friends to help you get through this difficult time, This to shall pass
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Well, my father died in May, it's still difficult
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u r right Tulefell! wish i cld not compare them wth him!
maybe someday i cld accept the fact that he is gone for real and he's not coming back and i cannot find a person like him.
thank you and have a nice day!
Poi
maybe someday i cld accept the fact that he is gone for real and he's not coming back and i cannot find a person like him.
thank you and have a nice day!
Poi
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thank a lot lindsyjones!
i really appreciate it! it's so frustating that it was 4 years ago and yet i am still mourning coz the first 2 years i did not have time to mourn! i was busy fighting for my right!
and the loss happenned back to back with the loss of my mother too! it was 2013 when my mother passed away right after the death of my mother followed by my husband! Those were the 2 most important people in my life maybe that's the reason why it's so hard for me to move on!
comparing will not help i know!
i wish u a very great 2019! God bless u!
Poi
i really appreciate it! it's so frustating that it was 4 years ago and yet i am still mourning coz the first 2 years i did not have time to mourn! i was busy fighting for my right!
and the loss happenned back to back with the loss of my mother too! it was 2013 when my mother passed away right after the death of my mother followed by my husband! Those were the 2 most important people in my life maybe that's the reason why it's so hard for me to move on!
comparing will not help i know!
i wish u a very great 2019! God bless u!
Poi
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Enigmaticsmile: I am just wondering if somebody/someone like me is having a hard time coping with life after my partner died!
It is so hard to move on and accept the fact that i am really all alone now. Finding myself and falling in love in the real sense of LOVE is possible but i just cannot help but compare him to all men i met.
Finding fault is easier than being content that i really survived! Can somebody tell me that there is still life after his/her or after the death of your partner?
Is it much easier if you had children or is it much better that you did not had one?
Thans for all who will have time to read and say what they think about my thread!
I am wishing you all a very fruitful and full of LOVE for the year 2019! Hope to hear from all of you!
POI
It's been 21 years of my dad and 5 years of mom since they were with meIt is so hard to move on and accept the fact that i am really all alone now. Finding myself and falling in love in the real sense of LOVE is possible but i just cannot help but compare him to all men i met.
Finding fault is easier than being content that i really survived! Can somebody tell me that there is still life after his/her or after the death of your partner?
Is it much easier if you had children or is it much better that you did not had one?
Thans for all who will have time to read and say what they think about my thread!
I am wishing you all a very fruitful and full of LOVE for the year 2019! Hope to hear from all of you!
POI
Yes honestly it was so hard to accept until now I sobbed everytime I wish they are both around but I learned to coped for the sake of my boys now big boys
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Become a nun or monk posing no further threat to people on earth.
An eye for an eye? That goes. The girls won’t fancy you anymore but you won’t be contributing to this century’s 8 billion dead. The pity is in the pain the fact that we all die should make us love one another, and sometimes it does. That’s what Jesus died for.
An eye for an eye? That goes. The girls won’t fancy you anymore but you won’t be contributing to this century’s 8 billion dead. The pity is in the pain the fact that we all die should make us love one another, and sometimes it does. That’s what Jesus died for.
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Are you really still stuck on your deceased boyfriend 4 years later?
Or are you just frustrated with unsuitable suitors?
Are you really rejecting good prospects?
Or are you just unwilling to settle because you've had better?
"I never compare my partner to me Ex's!" is one of those feel good things people say, but anyone who's been in a good relationship will refer back to it as a benchmark when the new partner's not quite working out.
Or are you just frustrated with unsuitable suitors?
Are you really rejecting good prospects?
Or are you just unwilling to settle because you've had better?
"I never compare my partner to me Ex's!" is one of those feel good things people say, but anyone who's been in a good relationship will refer back to it as a benchmark when the new partner's not quite working out.
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CossackCat: I suggest grief counciling or buy a book on
7 STAGES OF GRIEF
A date site is the last place you should be. Good luck to you.
Good suggestions.... Denial was the most difficult thing to get through for me after my wife died many moons ago. We had something that worked for us. and then one day it hit me cold that her absence is real and permanent and that I will never see and interact with her again.... healing after losing someone extremely close and significant in our lives sucks but we get through it. However, I’ve seen older guys walk around like zombies years after losing their wives of many years. Not sure they ever got through the denial.7 STAGES OF GRIEF
A date site is the last place you should be. Good luck to you.
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Ocee102: Are you really still stuck on your deceased boyfriend 4 years later?
Or are you just frustrated with unsuitable suitors?
Are you really rejecting good prospects?
Or are you just unwilling to settle because you've had better?
"I never compare my partner to me Ex's!" is one of those feel good things people say, but anyone who's been in a good relationship will refer back to it as a benchmark when the new partner's not quite working out.
Comparison is natural. We do it with everything. Or are you just frustrated with unsuitable suitors?
Are you really rejecting good prospects?
Or are you just unwilling to settle because you've had better?
"I never compare my partner to me Ex's!" is one of those feel good things people say, but anyone who's been in a good relationship will refer back to it as a benchmark when the new partner's not quite working out.
Exes, dead or not, are to be learned from. You should learn what works for you, and what doesn't, from past relationships. These experiences should influence future relationships. Otherwise you keep repeating the same mistakes over and over.
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It is so hard to move on and accept the fact that i am really all alone now. Finding myself and falling in love in the real sense of LOVE is possible but i just cannot help but compare him to all men i met.
Finding fault is easier than being content that i really survived! Can somebody tell me that there is still life after his/her or after the death of your partner?
Is it much easier if you had children or is it much better that you did not had one?
Thans for all who will have time to read and say what they think about my thread!
I am wishing you all a very fruitful and full of LOVE for the year 2019! Hope to hear from all of you!
POI