Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends.. ( Archived) (51)

Jan 1, 2019 12:34 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
Have they become the norm?

It appears that text messaging between family members and close friends...who live some distance away...has become the norm since the advent of new apps???

Have people lost the skill of direct conversations (phone calls.. Skype..)?

I myself find a voice much more human and enjoyable than a soulless text...especially when sending special greetings to a loved one.sigh
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Jan 1, 2019 12:42 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
I did something new today...
I didn't text the people that matter the most to me...
But I always send them my thoughts...don't know if they get them tho...
I am tired of words...
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Jan 1, 2019 12:43 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
Special greetings is one thing (and yes, I'd prefer hearing it instead of reading). But sometimes it's about practical information, as "when your train arrives?" People work, exercise, go to theatre and concerts, have dinner with friends (and dates)... To leave it all for a trivial conversation with a relative? Dunno... What's the point?
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Jan 1, 2019 12:49 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
pKrema: I did something new today...
I didn't text the people that matter the most to me...
But I always send them my thoughts...don't know if they get them tho...
I am tired of words...
So nice to see you here today Pk girl. hug

I feel the same too!
Every Xmas..new year...birthday etc..
Same messages...same replies..sigh

Wouldn't it be nice to hear a friendly voice for a change?

Sending thoughts is a good idea but...not many will pick it up?dunno

Anyway...wish you a happy New year and new thoughts and ideas. teddybear bouquet
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Jan 1, 2019 12:54 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
Tulefell: Special greetings is one thing (and yes, I'd prefer hearing it instead of reading). But sometimes it's about practical information, as "when your train arrives?" People work, exercise, go to theatre and concerts, have dinner with friends (and dates)... To leave it all for a trivial conversation with a relative? Dunno... What's the point?
I was mostly referring to special greetings like today ?

For example..I didn't get one phone call from anybody but..many texts which I couldn't be bothered to reply.

But...I did call my mother as she doesn't have a cell phone and apps.
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Jan 1, 2019 12:59 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
I was wondering how many of you have received any phone call from a loved one today ?
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Jan 1, 2019 1:00 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
I understand a text as mail: the sender doesn't want to / has no time to speak, but they cared about you so much that they bothered to show it. If you don't want to respond - it's your choice. You can always call and check the pulse, so to say. Can turn out that the sender didn't want to disturb you, but would be glad to talk if you show initiative. Or perhaps, they are busy. Or sick. Or just that - they don't want to talk to you, but still are willing to maintain some connection.
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Jan 1, 2019 1:01 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
It's difficult to give everybody you know, a phone conversation, especially this time of the year .

I also hate people who are constantly on phone conversations, especially when in their company .
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Jan 1, 2019 1:02 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
I've got a mail from a man, who's currently courting me. I'm fine with it.

Got as well a Skype message from an old friend from Moscow - she might be too busy for a conversation, plus time difference.
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Jan 1, 2019 1:03 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
daniela777: So nice to see you here today Pk girl.

I feel the same too!
Every Xmas..new year...birthday etc..
Same messages...same replies..

Wouldn't it be nice to hear a friendly voice for a change?

Sending thoughts is a good idea but...not many will pick it up?

Anyway...wish you a happy New year and new thoughts and ideas.
Happy New year Dani... hug
I'll keep on sending with the hope they pick them up...
If not, well, I tried...
Nobody wants to talk today...texts are so indifferent...
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Jan 1, 2019 1:11 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
Tulefell: I understand a text as mail: the sender doesn't want to / has no time to speak, but they cared about you so much that they bothered to show it. If you don't want to respond - it's your choice. You can always call and check the pulse, so to say. Can turn out that the sender didn't want to disturb you, but would be glad to talk if you show initiative. Or perhaps, they are busy. Or sick. Or just that - they don't want to talk to you, but still are willing to maintain some connection.
Yes I'm sure there are many reasons and excuses Tule..grin
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Jan 1, 2019 1:12 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
One2note:

I also hate people who are constantly on phone conversations, especially when in their company .
So do I !
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Jan 1, 2019 1:16 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
One2note: It's difficult to give everybody you know, a phone conversation, especially this time of the year
Of course but...
What about your family?
We use to have a Skype conversation with 4 or 5 of us at Xmas and other important events. But now...those are replaced by a one liner text
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Jan 1, 2019 1:19 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
Tulefell
TulefellTulefellGothenburg, Vastra Gotaland Sweden104 Threads 5 Polls 3,306 Posts
More, than one might expect, Daniela!

I'm one of those people, who understand written word better than spoken. Hence, I prefer to correspond. I use phone only with very close people or if there's some kind of urgency or if there's no other way to transfer information, as ordering taxi.
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Jan 1, 2019 1:20 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
pKrema: Happy New year Dani...
I'll keep on sending with the hope they pick them up...
If not, well, I tried...
Nobody wants to talk today...texts are so indifferent...
I agree! uh oh

I'm sure SOME would love to talk but...?

Before I had my smart phone people had no choice and couldn't text me.
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Jan 1, 2019 1:25 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
Tulefell: More, than one might expect, Daniela!

I'm one of those people, who understand written word better than spoken. Hence, I prefer to correspond. I use phone only with very close people or if there's some kind of urgency or if there's no other way to transfer information, as ordering taxi.
Well...to each their own I suppose.

I haven't had a smart phone for a long time and therefore not used to texting.

Up till not long ago Xmas greetings ..birthdays etc...were done over the phone or sending a card.
Which was a lot nicer!
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Jan 1, 2019 1:25 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
I'm able to hold a conversation for hours except when it comes to texting or any form of typed words.

I look at it as contacting me either way shows they care so I'm not fussed either way.
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Jan 1, 2019 1:26 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
daniela777: Of course but...
What about your family?
We use to have a Skype conversation with 4 or 5 of us at Xmas and other important events. But now...those are replaced by a one liner text
Never known a 4/5 Skype conversation!
As for my family, I spent time with them during the Christmas period, as it was traditional in days gone by .

I think people spend too much time on phones anyway & I find it just as offensive to phone , rather than make the effort to meet .
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Jan 1, 2019 1:28 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
Mercedes_00online today!
Mercedes_00online today!Mercedes_00Greater Sydney, New South Wales Australia18 Threads 20,456 Posts
One2note: Never known a 4/5 Skype conversation!
As for my family, I spent time with them during the Christmas period, as it was traditional in days gone by .

I think people spend too much time on phones anyway & I find it just as offensive to phone , rather than make the effort to meet .
My record is talking for 7 hours without a break
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Jan 1, 2019 1:34 PM CST Text Messaging Between Family Members and Close Friends..
One2note
One2noteOne2noteLondon, Essex, England UK286 Threads 3 Polls 7,606 Posts
Mercedes_00: My record is talking for 7 hours without a break
I can't imagine how long the conversation would have lasted , if you allowed them to speak back dunno laugh
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