pKrema: Comfort zone... How willing you are to leave it...and embrace a challenge...? Either in life or love... Have fun... :-)
Good question,, i am strugeling with making a decision at the moment, About staying here or moving to be nearer family in UK. It comes about again ,as they have said it to me at Christmas. That's the life part! The love part is, if i find the right one for me,, i would go anywhere with him! I guess it's easier when there is two
annaroach: Good question,, i am strugeling with making a decision at the moment, About staying here or moving to be nearer family in UK. It comes about again ,as they have said it to me at Christmas. That's the life part! The love part is, if i find the right one for me,, i would go anywhere with him! I guess it's easier when there is two
Kids want you near...that's the selfish part of their care for you... I do understand that very well... Keeping an eye on you, the closer the better... And I too believe the love part is easier, when two people have each other it's easy to go through life...
Limun: it kinda depends on the bite -what my partner brings to the table
Sure, that's an important part, may be it could be an easier decision if your partner is flexible and with a potential to bring more to the table afterwards... When your partner is well established it will be harder for them to make a move that would put them in a position less attractive...than it originally was...
smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa3,651 posts
pKrema: Comfort zone... How willing you are to leave it...and embrace a challenge...? Either in life or love... Have fun... :-)
I believe that it is just your nature most of the time, and the rest is determined on if you will really get what you want out of it, and is not necessarily a challenge btw. Again it will just depend on you, and how much you want whatever!
pKrema: Sure, that's an important part, may be it could be an easier decision if your partner is flexible and with a potential to bring more to the table afterwards... When your partner is well established it will be harder for them to make a move that would put them in a position less attractive...than it originally was...
i meant ,potential partner but- to be honest , going through profiles ,observing their pictures and reading ,their wishes and expectations, i got the impression that a lot have read some material from the dark web - - How to hide the fact that you`re stupid and appier smart.deep and profound -
smiley963: I believe that it is just your nature most of the time, and the rest is determined on if you will really get what you want out of it, and is not necessarily a challenge btw. Again it will just depend on you, and how much you want whatever!
I agree, it all depends on how much you want...or sometimes need... And if it's a need, yes, there is no challenge...
Limun: i meant ,potential partner but- to be honest , going through profiles ,observing their pictures and reading ,their wishes and expectations, i got the impression that a lot have read some material from the dark web - - How to hide the fact that you`re stupid and appier smart.deep and profound -
That's the trend, Bobane...that's the trend... The more complicated you appear the bigger turn off you are in my eyes... But ego self-flattering is a sport nowadays... Deep and meaningless (like one very smart person says)... isn't attractive...
My life is a dichotomy. I am a comfort-zone-crashing introvert. There are too many adventures that will be missed if I worry and wring my hands about stepping outside my comfort zone...so I dive in head first.
Kaybee50: My life is a dichotomy. I am a comfort-zone-crashing introvert. There are too many adventures that will be missed if I worry and wring my hands about stepping outside my comfort zone...so I dive in head first.
I will allow myself to add...a head and a heart first...
Kaybee50: My life is a dichotomy. I am a comfort-zone-crashing introvert. There are too many adventures that will be missed if I worry and wring my hands about stepping outside my comfort zone...so I dive in head first.
you're inspirational thank you
i love a good adventure!! as for comfort zone... i don't even know where i left mine....
daniela777: I have left my " comfort zone" many many times...from house to house...other towns...other countries...leaving family behind... and that's it.
Not moving anymore...for anybody!
If your heart is where your home is, you've made it, Dani...
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How willing you are to leave it...and embrace a challenge...?
Either in life or love...
Have fun... :-)