Inspiring author, Simon Sinek in his book Strart with Why: How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone to Take Action, tells the story of two car factories: one in America and one in Japan.
At the end of the assembly line in America, a man with a rubber mallet would tap the door to insure its proper alignment. In Japan, no such job or equipment were necessary.
“We make sure it fits when we design it.” In the Japanese auto plant, they didn’t examine the problem and accumulate data to figure out the best solution—they engineered the outcome they wanted from the beginning. If they didn’t achieve their desired outcome, they understood it was because of a decision they made at the start of the process.
Every decision we make can either be a short-term solution to a problem or it can be a deliberate course of action.
I have made several intentional decisions regarding my health, my lifestyle and the direction I want to steer my children towards. I have trained my mind to be disciplined all the while encouraging creativity and flexibility. I am not the victim of my circumstances.
I believe that I am in control and can design my outcome. Therefore, I make decisions that will lead to a long and fulfilling life.
A life built by design, not by default.
What decisions have you intentionally made that steered you in the direction you wanted to go? Why did you decide to go in that direction? How did you overcome your obstacles and fears? (Where they really that impossible?) What were the consequences of those decisions?
Apart from voluntary celibacy I stick to shorter term decisions when it comes to matters involving other people... Flexibility is essential and forgetting your fears sometimes is the only thing you have to do...
pKrema: Apart from voluntary celibacy I stick to shorter term decisions when it comes to matters involving other people... Flexibility is essential and forgetting your fears sometimes is the only thing you have to do...
Not all nice things in life have to be thought through and carefully projected ... Sometimes a moment of craziness can make you happy for life....
When I joined this site, I left several settings at default. One writer told me that I wasn’t very discriminating.
I realized he was correct. If I was truly looking for a serious partner, one who was experienced in the story of Life, then a young, fiery 20’ something young buck would be a waste of my time.
I altered my default.
I know that some desirous prospects have been eliminated and blocked. The design is intentional. I know what direction I want my life to go. It is my choice.
Kaylana04: Inspiring author, Simon Sinek in his book Strart with Why: How Great Leaders Inspire Everyone to Take Action, tells the story of two car factories: one in America and one in Japan.
At the end of the assembly line in America, a man with a rubber mallet would tap the door to insure its proper alignment. In Japan, no such job or equipment were necessary.
“We make sure it fits when we design it.” In the Japanese auto plant, they didn’t examine the problem and accumulate data to figure out the best solution—they engineered the outcome they wanted from the beginning. If they didn’t achieve their desired outcome, they understood it was because of a decision they made at the start of the process.
Every decision we make can either be a short-term solution to a problem or it can be a deliberate course of action.
I have made several intentional decisions regarding my health, my lifestyle and the direction I want to steer my children towards. I have trained my mind to be disciplined all the while encouraging creativity and flexibility. I am not the victim of my circumstances.
I believe that I am in control and can design my outcome. Therefore, I make decisions that will lead to a long and fulfilling life.
A life built by design, not by default.
What decisions have you intentionally made that steered you in the direction you wanted to go? Why did you decide to go in that direction? How did you overcome your obstacles and fears? (Where they really that impossible?) What were the consequences of those decisions?
Tell us your story.
That's all well and good, but lets not forget it was (an American) Edwards Deming who's brilliance ( Hey, let's build QUALITY PRODUCTS instead of cranking out massive heaps of cr*p from our US factories ) that got him 'deported' to Japan after WW2 because his fellow (exceptional) Americans were too shortsighted to see the advantages - the USA was the only place in the world that had much by way of unbombed manufacturing capacity so they could sell 'any old crap' and 'The Market' just had to take it!
And today ... well, even China cottoned on to the idea of 'Building In Quality' even on low priced products ... and the USA is squealing foul play and kidnapping Chinese Executives and trying to stand on their necks to cripple their manufacturing !
Novel idea ... how about competing on equal terms ... objective stuff like quality, reliability, durability, style, desirability and price ?
Why are European cars sought after in the USA ... all of the above !
Why are US cars NOT sought after anywhere in the world ...a complete lack of all of the above !
The only halfway decent GM products have been made in South Korea in the old DAEWOO plant for most of the last decade !
HexagonKeySet: That's all well and good, but lets not forget it was (an American) Edwards Deming who's brilliance ( Hey, let's build QUALITY PRODUCTS instead of cranking out massive heaps of cr*p from our US factories ) that got him 'deported' to Japan after WW2 because his fellow (exceptional) Americans were too shortsighted to see the advantages - the USA was the only place in the world that had much by way of unbombed manufacturing capacity so they could sell 'any old crap' and 'The Market' just had to take it!
Yes, the powerful destroy competition. I will look up the history surrounding Edwards Deming. Thanks Hex!
As a young child, I saw the shambles that were the lives around me. It was then and there that I decided that I would choose a different route in life.
I saw where addictions led to, where promiscuity ended up, where poor decisions had severe consequences.
A life that has boundaries travels a clearer route.
I set goals for myself - and I achieved them. I set limitations for myself - and I kept them. I stood strong against the "popular" tide - and I weathered the storms. I did not let emotion sway me and lies to deceive me. When Life threw a solid punch, I regathered myself, focused on my true value and continued on my journey.
Has it been easy? No Do I regret anything? No
I never forget one's Potential - potential to grow and to learn. There is always Hope for the future then.
Yes, I live on a small, biological farm in the middle of an Eastern European country. These and many more pleasures are the results of my intentional design of my life.
Designing your life could be a double edged knife... As you may not be happy after achieving all you wanted, because it wasn't your thing after all... The world is full with miserable people who state they got what they wanted... Allow a little work done by the Fate and you may be pleasantly surprised ...
Every decision we make can either be a short-term solution to a problem or it can be a deliberate course of action.
I have made several intentional decisions regarding my health, my lifestyle and the direction I want to steer my children towards. I have trained my mind to be disciplined all the while encouraging creativity and flexibility. I am not the victim of my circumstances.
Our lives are made up of decisions, one after another, every day. Some are small and seem quite insignificant, some of course can be life changing. But, most every decision we make affects us and sometimes others, to some greater or lesser degree. We need to know how to make the right decisions, for ourselves and those around us, but that's not always easy, especially in our formative years. It's not, though perhaps it should be, taught in most schools, our parents may never have broached on the subject and our friends might have been as clueless as ourselves. We are just left with a basic idea of evaluating a situation and then leaving it to and hopefully learning from trial and error, although many people learn little from past bad decisions. We can though, gain wisdom from our past actions and by such look to learn and be guided by those who have great wisdom and knowledge, something that used to be widely acknowledged and accepted in earlier generations. I posting this little extract below again as you asked Kaylana, it's a shame the thread I originally posted it in was deleted, but some of it had become a bit hostile.
"Venerable Dr. Rahula, outlines 10 kinds of fallacies in reasoning (from several suttas including the Kalama, Bhaddiya, Canki and others) that if one were to believe to be true could create such false view.
Fallacy 1. Reported information is true Fallacy 2. Traditional values, beliefs, and practices are actual truths Fallacy 3. Social truths are actual truths Fallacy 4. The texts are true Fallacy 5. Logical reasoning is always correct Fallacy 6. Reasoning based on imagination and speculation is correct Fallacy 7. Hypothesized reasoning is correct Fallacy 8. One should accept a view because it is compatible with one's own way of thinking. Fallacy 9. One's persuasive skill validates the message Fallacy 10. Individual authority is a dependable criterion for making decisions
The four forms of correct evaluation (from the Kalama Sutta) are:
Right Evaluation 1. Wrong motivations lead to wrong decisions
Right Evaluation 2. Absence of wrong motivation leads to right decisions
Right Evaluation 3. Consequences of a decision make it right or wrong
Right Evaluation 4. Attention to the views of qualified people lead to right decisions.
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At the end of the assembly line in America, a man with a rubber mallet would tap the door to insure its proper alignment. In Japan, no such job or equipment were necessary.
“We make sure it fits when we design it.” In the Japanese auto plant, they didn’t examine the problem and accumulate data to figure out the best solution—they engineered the outcome they wanted from the beginning. If they didn’t achieve their desired outcome, they understood it was because of a decision they made at the start of the process.
Every decision we make can either be a short-term solution to a problem or it can be a deliberate course of action.
I have made several intentional decisions regarding my health, my lifestyle and the direction I want to steer my children towards. I have trained my mind to be disciplined all the while encouraging creativity and flexibility. I am not the victim of my circumstances.
I believe that I am in control and can design my outcome. Therefore, I make decisions that will lead to a long and fulfilling life.
A life built by design, not by default.
What decisions have you intentionally made that steered you in the direction you wanted to go?
Why did you decide to go in that direction?
How did you overcome your obstacles and fears? (Where they really that impossible?)
What were the consequences of those decisions?
Tell us your story.