Do you prefer to know where you stand with someone? (84)
smiley963: Some people are direct, and told that they are being anti-social, where others will connive behind your backs, showing a smiling face and sweet words, totally insincere!!!
Which do you prefer?
I'm not sure it matters. Most will cross paths with both types and more through out their life time. Which do you prefer?
You can't control them. You can control yourself and how you address it.
Walking away, or at least maintaining distance, while keeping minimal contact isn't a bad idea for the insincere.
For the direct, let's hope they can take as good as they give.
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smiley963: Some people are direct, and told that they are being anti-social, where others will connive behind your backs, showing a smiling face and sweet words, totally insincere!!!
Which do you prefer?
Sometimes we have to accept that people have reasons to keep you not knowing where you stand with them...and often they don't know themselves...yet...Which do you prefer?
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Draegoneer: I'm not sure it matters. Most will cross paths with both types and more through out their life time.
You can't control them. You can control yourself and how you address it.
Walking away, or at least maintaining distance, while keeping minimal contact isn't a bad idea for the insincere.
For the direct, let's hope they can take as good as they give.
Hi. It very much depends on Your personality, as to how you will handle these two totally diverse personalities. Thanks for the input!!!You can't control them. You can control yourself and how you address it.
Walking away, or at least maintaining distance, while keeping minimal contact isn't a bad idea for the insincere.
For the direct, let's hope they can take as good as they give.
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pKrema: Sometimes we have to accept that people have reasons to keep you not knowing where you stand with them...and often they don't know themselves...yet...
How do you feel about people going behind your back, to your boss, telling him all sorts of crap about you. How will you know they did it, except notice his suddenly ice cold demeanor?------ This thread is Archived ------
smiley963: How do you feel about people going behind your back, to your boss, telling him all sorts of crap about you. How will you know they did it, except notice his suddenly ice cold demeanor?
Well, that's life, isn't it...It was going to be too perfect if we knew everything...
I am sure most forumers will swear they don't give a crap what others are saying about them anyway...
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smiley963: How do you feel about people going behind your back, to your boss, telling him all sorts of crap about you. How will you know they did it, except notice his suddenly ice cold demeanor?
I'm not surpried your mates dobbed you in.------ This thread is Archived ------
pKrema: Well, that's life, isn't it...
It was going to be too perfect if we knew everything...
I am sure most forumers will swear they don't give a crap what others are saying about them anyway...
This is a community, where all sorts of malicious, kind and could not care less attitudes reside!!!!It was going to be too perfect if we knew everything...
I am sure most forumers will swear they don't give a crap what others are saying about them anyway...
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aries1234: I'm not surpried your mates dobbed you in.
I am the boss!!!!------ This thread is Archived ------
smiley963: Some people are direct, and told that they are being anti-social, where others will connive behind your backs, showing a smiling face and sweet words, totally insincere!!!
Which do you prefer?
Peace of mind...we achieve such a blessed peace of mind when we teach ourselves not to care what others say and think about us. Which do you prefer?
It simply doesn't matter what others think about us.
Let it go. Your mind will thank you.
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smiley963: I am the boss!!!!
God help SA
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Kaybee50: Peace of mind...we achieve such a blessed peace of mind when we teach ourselves not to care what others say and think about us.
It simply doesn't matter what others think about us.
Let it go. Your mind will thank you.
Are you a Buddhist, I was one too long ago. But no I don't agree with You, I live in reality!!!!It simply doesn't matter what others think about us.
Let it go. Your mind will thank you.
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aries1234: God help SA
By this time you have figured out, where you would be in this little scenario!!!!!------ This thread is Archived ------
smiley963: Are you a Buddhist, I was one too long ago. But no I don't agree with You, I live in reality!!!!
No, I am not a Buddhist. Why does that matter if I am or am not? 
I have learned, and continue to learn, through life's lessons and experiences what does and does not matter.
What I can and cannot control.
Cancer has taught me how short and precious life is and to embrace the positive and let go of the stuff that simply does not matter.
Trying to control others' thoughts, actions, words, feelings, etc. is something beyond our control, so let it go and peace of mind floods in.
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Kaybee50: No, I am not a Buddhist. Why does that matter if I am or am not?
I have learned, and continue to learn, through life's lessons and experiences what does and does not matter.
What I can and cannot control.
Cancer has taught me how short and precious life is and to embrace the positive and let go of the stuff that simply does not matter.
Trying to control others' thoughts, actions, words, feelings, etc. is something beyond our control, so let it go and peace of mind floods in.
I too had cancer. I'm expecting it to return soon, as the signs are there now.I have learned, and continue to learn, through life's lessons and experiences what does and does not matter.
What I can and cannot control.
Cancer has taught me how short and precious life is and to embrace the positive and let go of the stuff that simply does not matter.
Trying to control others' thoughts, actions, words, feelings, etc. is something beyond our control, so let it go and peace of mind floods in.
Ok, jokes aside. I really could not care less who says what about me in real life. Note cs is not real life, as some are using me as an example.
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smiley963: I too had cancer. I'm expecting it to return soon, as the signs are there now.
Ok, jokes aside.
I wasn't joking about the cancer. Ok, jokes aside.
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Kaybee50: I wasn't joking about the cancer.
Neither am I.------ This thread is Archived ------
smiley963: Neither am I.
O.k. Then I don't understand your comment about "All jokes aside" in regards to my cancer comment.------ This thread is Archived ------
Kaybee50: O.k. Then I don't understand your comment about "All jokes aside" in regards to my cancer comment.
I has nothing to do with that. It is my comment on:Peace of mind...we achieve such a blessed peace of mind when we teach ourselves not to care what others say and think about us.
It simply doesn't matter what others think about us.
Let it go. Your mind will thank you.
I did not take you too seriously!
It does matter to us, what our loved ones think of us!!!!!
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Kaybee50: O.k. Then I don't understand your comment about "All jokes aside" in regards to my cancer comment.
Hi B, take little notice, some people have no social skills whatsoever.
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