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Mar 15, 2019 4:37 AM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
Your ego is your conscious mind, the part of your identity that you consider your "self." If you say someone has "a big ego," then you are saying he is too full of himself. (Google)

When someone say to you:

"You are gorgeous"
"You're very bright"
"You're very artistic"
"Your logic is great"
"I wish I was like you"

How do you react?

dunno dunno dunno dunno dunno
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Mar 15, 2019 4:56 AM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
Now:

When someone say to you:

"You are ugly"
"You're very stupid"
"You're very dense"
"Your logic is atrocious"
"If I was like you, I'd jump off a cliff"

How do you react?

dunno dunno dunno dunno dunno
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Mar 15, 2019 5:56 AM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
The ego is our conscious sense of who we are, the central complex of consciousness.
It seeks complete autonomy over the self and commonly, from its narrow view of the world, it's task is, security and dominance.
It's real purpose is to create a dialogue between the Self and the perceived world, although the ego likes to rule the roost in its frantic search for individualisaction.

I quite like this quote below from James Hollis, it seems quite apt on here.

"The ego is like a petty tyrant who must fulminate on the rightness of its position as a compensation for the swamp of doubt upon which it's castle is built."
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Mar 15, 2019 6:20 AM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
bodleing2: The ego is our conscious sense of who we are, the central complex of consciousness.
It seeks complete autonomy over the self and commonly, from its narrow view of the world, it's task is, security and dominance.
It's real purpose is to create a dialogue between the Self and the perceived world, although the ego likes to rule the roost in its frantic search for individualisaction.

I quite like this quote below from James Hollis, it seems quite apt on here.

"The ego is like a petty tyrant who must fulminate on the rightness of its position as a compensation for the swamp of doubt upon which it's castle is built."
I don't know about Buddhism but..
In shamanism... during the course of the medicine wheel work...we had to get rid of the Ego...as well as the roles we play in our life.

I believe in Buddhism there is something similar...so I've heard?
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Mar 15, 2019 6:26 AM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
daniela777: I don't know about Buddhism but..
In shamanism... during the course of the medicine wheel work...we had to get rid of the Ego...as well as the roles we play in our life.

I believe in Buddhism there is something similar...so I've heard?
I believe getting the ego under control is paramount to development doh
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Mar 15, 2019 7:36 AM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
daniela777: I don't know about Buddhism but..
In shamanism... during the course of the medicine wheel work...we had to get rid of the Ego...as well as the roles we play in our life.

I believe in Buddhism there is something similar...so I've heard?
Of course we need ego to go about our everyday business of conscious life, to mobilse our psychic energy to move towards our goals with some form of consistency and continuity.
But we need to be constantly aware in order to loosen the egos grip. Without awareness, the ego will control us rather than the other way round.
Many Buddhist retreats are silent retreats. I've never attended one, but often thought a silent retreat would, to a large degree, help to keep the ego in check.
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Mar 15, 2019 7:37 AM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
aries1234: I believe getting the ego under control is paramount to development
thumbs up
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Mar 15, 2019 9:12 AM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
If you say "I'm me", that me is your Ego talking. Without that Ego, we have no Self. Some people are so crushed by bullies, that the Self is so deeply buried, that only psychiatric treatment will help them slowly come out of that self-imposed Shell, created as a natural defence mechanism, survival.
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Mar 15, 2019 11:04 AM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
smiley963: Your ego is your conscious mind, the part of your identity that you consider your "self." If you say someone has "a big ego," then you are saying he is too full of himself. (Google)

When someone say to you:

"You are gorgeous"
"You're very bright"
"You're very artistic"
"Your logic is great"
"I wish I was like you"

How do you react?
as Alexa would say, “I’m not sure.” but, if i had the kind of life as some of the members on cs, I probably would have shot myself a long time ago.
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Mar 15, 2019 11:07 AM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
galrads: as Alexa would say, “I’m not sure.” but, if i had the kind of life as some of the members on cs, I probably would have shot myself a long time ago.
Hi sweetie. Alexa, your computer assistant? I was just getting jealous here. From observation, you have a very healthy ego, and I don't say that of many. How are you feeling today?
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Mar 15, 2019 11:11 AM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
I say "Thank you" to both...
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Mar 15, 2019 11:11 AM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
smiley963: Hi sweetie. Alexa, your computer assistant? I was just getting jealous here. From observation, you have a very healthy ego, and I don't say that of many. How are you feeling today?
I cant wait to be able and put on a pair of zoomer swim fins and do about 80 laps. wave
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Mar 15, 2019 11:13 AM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
galrads: I cant wait to be able and put on a pair of zoomer swim fins and do about 80 laps.
Sounds great. I'll fly over and join you, as we have Autumn starting here, and I don't like the cold.
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Mar 15, 2019 11:14 AM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
pKrema: I say "Thank you" to both...
Lol. That way did Not occur to me!!!!
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Mar 15, 2019 11:39 AM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
Bnaughty
BnaughtyBnaughtyMálaga, Andalusia Spain43 Threads 2 Polls 4,685 Posts
TerryBull: A finger of fudge is just enough to give your bum a treat
Not for you though, a marrow would be more satisfying for your wrecked hole
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Mar 15, 2019 12:00 PM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
Bnaughty: Not for you though, a marrow would be more satisfying for your wrecked hole
I should stick with a finger of fudge uo yer bumprofessor grin
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Mar 15, 2019 12:45 PM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
bodleing2: Of course we need ego to go about our everyday business of conscious life, to mobilse our psychic energy to move towards our goals with some form of consistency and continuity.
But we need to be constantly aware in order to loosen the egos grip. Without awareness, the ego will control us rather than the other way round.
Many Buddhist retreats are silent retreats. I've never attended one, but often thought a silent retreat would, to a large degree, help to keep the ego in check.
That's your ego saying "check me" .dancing
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Mar 15, 2019 12:49 PM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
BB_snickers: That's your ego saying "check me" .
And my self saying check mate.

cheers
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Mar 15, 2019 1:03 PM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
BB_snickers
BB_snickersBB_snickersNarnia, Ontario Canada56 Threads 3,755 Posts
bodleing2: And my self saying check mate.
rolling on the floor laughing

and the winner is ... confused



confused
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Mar 15, 2019 1:22 PM CST EGO - How comfortable are You with it?
bodleing2
bodleing2bodleing2Manchester, Greater Manchester, England UK84 Threads 6,132 Posts
BB_snickers: and the winner is ...
I'd like to say Self, but that could be my ego. I'll have to keep a close eye on them both, but that there are three of us?....dunno

Its just that wherever I go, ego's.

wave
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