ali110: The women on here are not serious to find their soulmate Is it true ?
There are a lot fewer now than there were before due to the rise of social media. Most of the presentable ones go there. You have to really look at a member's motivation for being on a dating site before you can answer that question and weed out the non serious. The first question you should be asking is why a member is on here and why they simply don't use the dating pool available to themselves locally. Then the weeding out begins. Firstly there are toxic narcissistic sociopaths (Look them up on Youtube) and scammers. They will not look for soul bonding, but both will use trauma bonding instead. Add to those who have been on here since the Truman Administration, the hypochondriacs and the super obese etc and you will find the numbers of serious members shrinking. There are a few women who are genuinely looking for soul bonding, but not so many as there used to be. I get a lot of mail to wade through here, but have to weed out and discard most of them. Maybe one in ten if that would give you what you are seeking. Hope this has been of help.
Demeter123: There are a lot fewer now than there were before due to the rise of social media. Most of the presentable ones go there. You have to really look at a member's motivation for being on a dating site before you can answer that question and weed out the non serious. The first question you should be asking is why a member is on here and why they simply don't use the dating pool available to themselves locally. Then the weeding out begins. Firstly there are toxic narcissistic sociopaths (Look them up on Youtube) and scammers. They will not look for soul bonding, but both will use trauma bonding instead. Add to those who have been on here since the Truman Administration, the hypochondriacs and the super obese etc and you will find the numbers of serious members shrinking. There are a few women who are genuinely looking for soul bonding, but not so many as there used to be. I get a lot of mail to wade through here, but have to weed out and discard most of them. Maybe one in ten if that would give you what you are seeking. Hope this has been of help.
am very proud of being African for the moment I have to keep detailed personal information private just a name, ethnicity as black african , muslim and current location is enough to be shared here
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Is it true ?