Marriage - Why not all just live together? ( Archived) (39)

Apr 9, 2019 10:36 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
Most of us here had been married, and the memory is not so great always:

It goes to the extent of never wanting to marry again, for some.

Will you get married again, if the right guy / gal comes along?
How will you know it's the right guy / gal?
Do you first require a trial period together?
There are people here from all 4 corners of the globe,
Will they ever get round to meeting?
We all know what "get round to" means!!!

In some countries if you live together longer than a certain period,
you are perceived to be legally married,
and in community of property applies,
meaning everything brought into the marriage,
and after, are divided half / half!!!

Can you live with it?

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Apr 9, 2019 10:54 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
saidmahmoud
saidmahmoudsaidmahmoudHamburg Mitte, Hamburg Germany3 Threads 1 Polls 1,593 Posts
very difficult question mumbling
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Apr 9, 2019 10:54 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
One more reason for making sure she has her own home, so she can't take 1/2 of your's, and leave you homeless.


Proverbs 21:19
It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.
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Apr 9, 2019 11:19 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
Bandit_Geezer
Bandit_GeezerBandit_GeezerPatchogue, New York USA6 Threads 1,483 Posts
In this country there are not many advantages to marrying at this stage of life. Probably not.
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Apr 9, 2019 11:20 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
galrads
galradsgalradsDublin, Ohio USA2,264 Threads 279 Polls 36,283 Posts
I could only get married to someone young again under certain conditions... she is far far wealthier than I am, doesn't want children, takes care of herself, her family lives near us, has nice feet, doesn't shave (except facial hair) and has her own health care coverage.



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Apr 9, 2019 11:30 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
Bandit_Geezer: In this country there are not many advantages to marrying at this stage of life. Probably not.
Not here either!!!
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Apr 9, 2019 11:32 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
galrads: I could only get married to someone young again under certain conditions... she is far far wealthier than I am, doesn't want children, takes care of herself, her family lives near us, has nice feet, doesn't shave (except facial hair) and has her own health care coverage.
It sounds like a fellow American, that had been divorced where her kids are not with her.
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Apr 9, 2019 11:32 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
its written in the stars...!
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Apr 9, 2019 11:35 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
pedro27: its written in the stars...!
Like a book on "What to do, when"
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Apr 9, 2019 11:40 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
smiley963: Like a book on "What to do, when"
What I meant is ''What's meant for you won't pass you by'' as in it's written in the stars..!
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Apr 9, 2019 11:42 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
pedro27: What I meant is ''What's meant for you won't pass you by'' as in it's written in the stars..!
Fate:
the development of events outside a person's control, regarded as predetermined by a supernatural power.

Is that Christian?
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Apr 9, 2019 11:46 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
smiley963: Fate:
the development of events outside a person's control, regarded as predetermined by a supernatural power.

Is that Christian?
whats meant too be will eventually happen IMO.............2019..........
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Apr 9, 2019 11:50 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
pedro27: whats meant too be will eventually happen IMO.............2019..........
No, Everyone will have a specific state of mind, that can be changed by any event / person. Nothing is written in stone, and even then it can be changed!!!!
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Apr 9, 2019 12:06 PM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
smiley963: No, Everyone will have a specific state of mind, that can be changed by any event / person. Nothing is written in stone, and even then it can be changed!!!!
IMO God the father knows the future !
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Apr 9, 2019 12:12 PM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
smiley963: Most of us here had been married, and the memory is not so great always:

It goes to the extent of never wanting to marry again, for some.

Will you get married again, if the right guy / gal comes along?
How will you know it's the right guy / gal?
Do you first require a trial period together?
There are people here from all 4 corners of the globe,
Will they ever get round to meeting?
We all know what "get round to" means!!!

In some countries if you live together longer than a certain period,
you are perceived to be legally married,
and in community of property applies,
meaning everything brought into the marriage,
and after, are divided half / half!!!

Can you live with it?
I think that marriage is one of the building blocks or our society, part of the scial cohesion which hold our society together.
One of the bastions against the tyranny of the world order, which along with family life it has been chipped away and nothing put in it's place. What young girl doesn't dream of that perfect day when her soul is joined with her husbands, at her most beautiful and a prinsess for a day.

What father does not want to walk his daughter down the isle' what mother does not relive her own wedding through her daughter.
No a vote agaist weddings is a vote against freedom.smitten
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Apr 9, 2019 6:03 PM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
Will you get married again, if the right guy / gal comes along? NO
How will you know it's the right guy / gal? N/A
Do you first require a trial period together? N/A
There are people here from all 4 corners of the globe, Yes
Will they ever get round to meeting? I doubt it
We all know what "get round to" means!!! Yes

In some countries if you live together longer than a certain period,
you are perceived to be legally married,
and in community of property applies,
meaning everything brought into the marriage,
and after, are divided half / half!!!

Can you live with it? I don't have to because I live alone
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Apr 10, 2019 3:29 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
M4_Mischief: Will you get married again, if the right guy / gal comes along? NO
How will you know it's the right guy / gal? N/A
Do you first require a trial period together? N/A
There are people here from all 4 corners of the globe, Yes
Will they ever get round to meeting? I doubt it
We all know what "get round to" means!!! Yes

In some countries if you live together longer than a certain period,
you are perceived to be legally married,
and in community of property applies,
meaning everything brought into the marriage,
and after, are divided half / half!!!

Can you live with it? I don't have to because I live alone
We all make our decisions!!!
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Apr 10, 2019 4:23 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
Lookin4missright
Lookin4missrightLookin4missrightmelbourne, Victoria Australia400 Threads 24,032 Posts
!!!!!!
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Apr 16, 2019 10:10 PM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
Why marry if there is love?! Love is quite enough for living together happily. The other thing is that love is rarely found - I mean true love - love is almost impossible to find, but it certainly exists. For happiness love is indispensable. So keep looking for love. Good luck to everybody!wine
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Apr 16, 2019 11:29 PM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
saidmahmoud
saidmahmoudsaidmahmoudHamburg Mitte, Hamburg Germany3 Threads 1 Polls 1,593 Posts
But!
Why we should ?

dunno
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