Marriage - Why not all just live together? ( Archived) (39)

Apr 17, 2019 12:22 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
saidmahmoud: But!
Why we should ?
if you have to ask that question then you most certainly shouldn't...marriage isn't about whats in it for you....its about two people who love each other and choose to commit to each other by marrying one another....wave
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Apr 17, 2019 2:22 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
MikeD12
MikeD12MikeD12Broadstairs, Kent, England UK16 Threads 2 Polls 2,809 Posts
It used to be that some people got married mainly for the married man's tax allowance here in the UK . - However - With my views as an agnostic when I got married & now widowed I have to say what I did to the canon who married us and later a bishop when asked why I wanted to get married and was married respectively - Bot times I said we love each other & to me God is neither existent nor parent so it is entirely the pairs choice.
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Apr 17, 2019 2:24 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
Butin
ButinButinIngatestone, Essex, England UK17 Threads 1,900 Posts
M4_Mischief: Will you get married again, if the right guy / gal comes along? NO
How will you know it's the right guy / gal? N/A
Do you first require a trial period together? N/A
There are people here from all 4 corners of the globe, Yes
Will they ever get round to meeting? I doubt it
We all know what "get round to" means!!! Yes

In some countries if you live together longer than a certain period,
you are perceived to be legally married,
and in community of property applies,
meaning everything brought into the marriage,
and after, are divided half / half!!!

Can you live with it? I don't have to because I live alone
....how much. Does it cost. For a dog licence.........grin rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing do you heel when told..??????or are you still on the lead..?¿???¿???¿??kiss yay lips rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing laugh
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Apr 17, 2019 2:35 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
I've never been married...
But I know I'll look good in white, isn't it enough to try?! laugh
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Apr 17, 2019 2:41 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
MiMiArt
MiMiArtMiMiArtOmaha, Nebraska USA5 Threads 584 Posts
pKrema: I've never been married...
But I know I'll look good in white, isn't it enough to try?!
love love love
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Apr 17, 2019 2:43 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Alright, alright...antique white... snooty





MiMi... bouquet
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Apr 17, 2019 2:58 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
MiMiArt
MiMiArtMiMiArtOmaha, Nebraska USA5 Threads 584 Posts
Alright, alright...antique white...


And what sort of veil would you like? smitten
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Apr 17, 2019 3:03 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
daears
daearsdaearsIn a house lol, Hawke's Bay New Zealand23 Threads 1,542 Posts
I've never been married
Never met a woman
That could settle me yet peace
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Apr 17, 2019 3:04 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
Butin
ButinButinIngatestone, Essex, England UK17 Threads 1,900 Posts
pKrema: Alright, alright...antique white...





MiMi...
..........only virgins get married in white...........scold and you. Have been around the. Block a few times........,cheering rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 17, 2019 3:04 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
MiMiArt: Alright, alright...antique white...


And what sort of veil would you like?
No veil...
Embedded image from another site

But something similar to this...
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Apr 17, 2019 3:06 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
pKrema
pKremapKremaAt home, Shumen Bulgaria6 Threads 4,707 Posts
Butin: ..........only virgins get married in white........... and you. Have been around the. Block a few times........,
Guest list:


Tru
snooty




tongue
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Apr 17, 2019 3:10 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
Butcher559
Butcher559Butcher559Whangarei, Northland New Zealand13 Threads 1 Polls 750 Posts
mykingdomforanam: One more reason for making sure she has her own home, so she can't take 1/2 of your's, and leave you homeless.


Proverbs 21:19
It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and an angry woman.
Yeah mate, the woman's got to have her own home.. absence makes the heart grow fonder.
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Apr 17, 2019 3:11 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
Butin
ButinButinIngatestone, Essex, England UK17 Threads 1,900 Posts
pKrema: Guest list:


Tru
.....blues blues blues crying crying crying crying ........rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 17, 2019 3:17 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
Cavalero
CavaleroCavaleroVerviers, Liege Belgium12 Threads 4 Polls 701 Posts
smiley963: Most of us here had been married, and the memory is not so great always:

It goes to the extent of never wanting to marry again, for some.

Will you get married again, if the right guy / gal comes along?
How will you know it's the right guy / gal?
Do you first require a trial period together?
There are people here from all 4 corners of the globe,
Will they ever get round to meeting?
We all know what "get round to" means!!!

In some countries if you live together longer than a certain period,
you are perceived to be legally married,
and in community of property applies,
meaning everything brought into the marriage,
and after, are divided half / half!!!

Can you live with it?
Yea... I like the idea of the trial period. Somehow that option in you OP jumped at me... Let's say... A 90-year trial period with both NOT living with each other? rolling on the floor laughing
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Apr 17, 2019 4:05 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
MiMiArt
MiMiArtMiMiArtOmaha, Nebraska USA5 Threads 584 Posts
pKrema: No veil...

But something similar to this...
Oh wow!!!!! That’s beautiful love

And you got the hair for it!! applause

MiMi’s hair is like a rat’s tail help
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Apr 17, 2019 8:48 AM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
mikey4691
mikey4691mikey4691Knoxville, Tennessee USA8 Threads 6,868 Posts
I've already married 3 American women.. Never again.. I might consider Asian, as long as she's never uttered the words, Love You Long Time...

heart beating
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Apr 18, 2019 3:33 PM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
Marriage makes things official and legally in most countries the rights of married couples over their kids and property are different to that of single parents. It is a bit like why do we eat from a plate instead of from packs or containers that food comes in? It is because we are supposed to be better then animals!
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Apr 18, 2019 4:10 PM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
Darkbeauty71: Marriage makes things official and legally in most countries the rights of married couples over their kids and property are different to that of single parents. It is a bit like why do we eat from a plate instead of from packs or containers that food comes in? It is because we are supposed to be better then animals!
Well, I am a human being with rights, and a single mother, with even more rights.

Thus I earn a lot of money to feed and house my kids, with no man having any rights in my household. We now live a mil% better than when their father was around abusing us all, not working, and boozing the rest away, with blackouts as his escape mechanism, to not own up to his mistakes. What a wash-out!!!

Do I want to marry again:
Definitely not!!!
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Apr 18, 2019 11:45 PM CST Marriage - Why not all just live together?
LonelyTraveler
LonelyTravelerLonelyTravelerHalle, Oost Vlaanderen Belgium10 Posts
I agree with you. When I look around me there are more people married and divorced a few times and so do I. First spending a lot of money for the marriage and after for the lawyer(s), when children are involved it brings more problems.
The last years I see more and more couples living together some are registered as a couple and some not, this not only man/woman but homo couples also. They live happier than married people because they know they can break-up the partnership any time without all consequences as by ordinary marriage, less pressure and more trust on both sides.
Not every marriage is a love story and many visitors here knows it very good by experience, a marriage sound nice as in a romantic movie but it is better to live a long time together to know each other before considering to marry again.
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