whether you ask too much conditions when you looking for love (35)
crystalsmileGuilin, Guangxi China22 Threads 427 Postsi ask an Internet man what are you looking for?he answer he is looking for a woman that will be able to listen to him, communicate her feelings to him , make him laugh, hold and comfort him in need, stand by his side, respect him, a passionate lover in every way, support him in every way, love him and only him, make him smile, protect him when needed, romantic from time to time ,constantly reactive, and treat him right ...he ask so much conditions, he want a lady to do so much thing for him,to match him...but whether himself also can do so much thing for a lady ?its difficult to find such lady...do you think he want too much,greedy?its unfair to a lady?
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Nobody's preferences are too much....what we each prefer is personal to us....often we learn what we want and don't want and works and doesn't work for us...that's how we come up with preferences in the first place...im sure there is a lady out there who is just as he prefers just like there is for all of us......what I do agree with tho is be the person that you want in your life as far as good qualities go....if you cant communicate your feelings then its not gonna work with a woman who communicates hers because she is a communicator and you aren't...etc etc....
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M4_Mischief
i just think find a 100 % perfect one to match us is very difficult,maybe change lower standard is better.
i just think find a 100 % perfect one to match us is very difficult,maybe change lower standard is better.
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There's nothing wrong to know what you want and what you will not put up with, Crystal...
But I know that there's always room for a change or compromise once you meet someone who feels like the right person for you...
But I know that there's always room for a change or compromise once you meet someone who feels like the right person for you...
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Stems from American culture but I find the way many people behave painfully intentional. Choice culture leaving no room for surprises or originality because it's so put together. To demand and be in demand, to promote or be promoted.. How much freedom does an advert and its consumer have?
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ChesneyChrist: Stems from American culture but I find the way many people behave painfully intentional. Choice culture leaving no room for surprises or originality because it's so put together. To demand and be in demand, to promote or be promoted.. How much freedom does an advert and its consumer have?
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Bemoaning the loss of variables and chance encounters in this world that's as stage-managed as it is. At one time there was a chance that something would happen by chance and this is different to the grim predictability of choice. Knowing exactly who will be where and when is a step away from knowing how and why. The mysteriousness of the other and the unpredictability of life fall away in the age of information.
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I understand why the middle classes choose to find that quirky little bistro not mentioned in any guide book even if that bistro does offer relatively poor service and value for money. I see this as an example of a choice trying desperately hard not to be one. It's grimly predictable in a way that the middle class do this and i like to think of these decisions as alt-choices; the attempt to make a choice nobody else has made in a quest for authenticity and self-determination.
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The path to finding a life partner can be a long and rocky one - and indeed is for most of us.
''All of the disaster dates, mismatched relationships and awkward one night stands can leave many feeling like they are never going to meet their soul mate.
we create too high expectations for our future partner. Which only makes the threshold higher for finding your match.
"But there's an annoying yet wonderful randomness about it.
"All those calamities, false starts and heartbreaks never knowing when or if or how "The One" is going to appear in your life. Once we've found someone to settle down with perhaps we're inclined to look at the negative aspects of the dating journey.''
''All of the disaster dates, mismatched relationships and awkward one night stands can leave many feeling like they are never going to meet their soul mate.
we create too high expectations for our future partner. Which only makes the threshold higher for finding your match.
"But there's an annoying yet wonderful randomness about it.
"All those calamities, false starts and heartbreaks never knowing when or if or how "The One" is going to appear in your life. Once we've found someone to settle down with perhaps we're inclined to look at the negative aspects of the dating journey.''
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I loath being asked what am I bloody looking for?
My reply leaves them speechless.
My reply leaves them speechless.
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Mercedes_00: I loath being asked what am I bloody looking for?
My reply leaves them speechless.
C'mon, Inspire us! lets here your answer.. My reply leaves them speechless.
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MiMiArt: So Merc, what are you actually looking for eh?
I tell them I'm looking for my last pack of Depends 
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Suffice is to say that humanity inflates itself in the same way because the promotion is always based upon a comparison.
And for this reason there's more diversity between the primitive. There's more difference between one village in the north of England and another in the south than there is between London, Paris, New York and all of the world-cities combined.
And for this reason there's more diversity between the primitive. There's more difference between one village in the north of England and another in the south than there is between London, Paris, New York and all of the world-cities combined.
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Mercedes_00: I loath being asked what am I bloody looking for?
My reply leaves them speechless.
I don't recall having to be looking for something as a human condition My reply leaves them speechless.
Why can people not be content with what they have right now, in this moment
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crystalsmile: i ask an Internet man what are you looking for?he answer he is looking for a woman that will be able to listen to him, communicate her feelings to him , make him laugh, hold and comfort him in need, stand by his side, respect him, a passionate lover in every way, support him in every way, love him and only him, make him smile, protect him when needed, romantic from time to time ,constantly reactive, and treat him right ...he ask so much conditions, he want a lady to do so much thing for him,to match him...but whether himself also can do so much thing for a lady ?its difficult to find such lady...do you think he want too much,greedy?its unfair to a lady?
Sit without distractions apart from natures sounds just listen What do you hear
Actual living sounds
If your electricity was gone an your phone gone flat
What now
What is actually more important amounst living creatures
Pity alot have forgotten the real
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ChesneyChrist: Suffice is to say that humanity inflates itself in the same way because the promotion is always based upon a comparison.
And for this reason there's more diversity between the primitive. There's more difference between one village in the north of England and another in the south than there is between London, Paris, New York and all of the world-cities combined.
Sorry but Mr chestney.And for this reason there's more diversity between the primitive. There's more difference between one village in the north of England and another in the south than there is between London, Paris, New York and all of the world-cities combined.
I'm primitive
An I'll be able to carry on speaking less an doing more
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Miss Merc needs to plant some trees deep 
She'd have more than enough muscles to dig lots of holes for em ( oh 
naughty me ) 
Not alot of giggy happening on this dating site
That's sad - er than Miss Mercedes not putting the pedal to the medal if ya get my thoughts 
Let's chip in for battries for the dude
Crickey
I come with 2.8 volts already
She'd have more than enough muscles to dig lots of holes for em
( oh naughty me ) Not alot of giggy happening on this dating site
That's sad - er than Miss Mercedes not putting the pedal to the medal if ya get my thoughts
Let's chip in for battries for the dude
Crickey
I come with 2.8 volts already
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crystalsmile: i ask an Internet man what are you looking for?he answer he is looking for a woman that will be able to listen to him, communicate her feelings to him , make him laugh, hold and comfort him in need, stand by his side, respect him, a passionate lover in every way, support him in every way, love him and only him, make him smile, protect him when needed, romantic from time to time ,constantly reactive, and treat him right ...he ask so much conditions, he want a lady to do so much thing for him,to match him...but whether himself also can do so much thing for a lady ?its difficult to find such lady...do you think he want too much,greedy?its unfair to a lady?
Just roll the dice man. I mean like if the three of you enjoy doing it in church at christmas, the hospital waiting room, driving through a car wash, on ice skates, on a train, in the air, on a sleigh ride, while snorkeling, in a bar, while typing on cs.... just roll the dice and if it stops workin it stops working. ------ This thread is Archived ------
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