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Apr 22, 2019 9:40 AM CST Private - What do you withheld...
Harbal
HarbalHarbalSouth Yorkshire, England UK49 Threads 3 Polls 2,248 Posts
smiley963: I make no demands or explicit requests:
It depends on what you feel comfortable divulging!!!
I'm not secretive for the sake of it, there isn't much about me that I mind people knowing. If someone wants to know something about me, it makes things far easier if they tell me what it is, rather than my having to guess, or start reeling off everything about myself in the hope that I will mention whatever it is they are interested in.
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Apr 22, 2019 9:42 AM CST Private - What do you withheld...
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
Harbal: I'm not secretive for the sake of it, there isn't much about me that I mind people knowing. If someone wants to know something about me, it makes things far easier if they tell me what it is, rather than my having to guess, or start reeling off everything about myself in the hope that I will mention whatever it is they are interested in.
Lol...Very well put...

I was under the impression, when young, that all people are like that, to my big mistake, but we live and learn...
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Apr 22, 2019 9:44 AM CST Private - What do you withheld...
Fervid_heart
Fervid_heartFervid_heartCoffeville, Alabama USA234 Posts
As you said in OP. It varies from person to person with whom I share more intimate details of my life. For instance I tell just about any person about being raised by a single mom. However; I tell some one I feel more trusting of the same thing but expand the conversation as to the hows and whys the situation came to be.
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Apr 22, 2019 9:45 AM CST Private - What do you withheld...
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
My privacy cosists of what i choose to reveal at any time, due t the public nature of CS i don't reveal much, but will reveal more on thw CS mail, is asked.
here are some people I don't feel safe revealing anything too because it could be brought up to my detriment later
I know you are deliberately maginalising me because Ihave seen your true nature as have many others do don't bother tp reply, it will be ignoredscold
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Apr 22, 2019 9:45 AM CST Private - What do you withheld...
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
Fervid_heart: As you said in OP. It varies from person to person with whom I share more intimate details of my life. For instance I tell just about any person about being raised by a single mom. However; I tell some one I feel more trusting of the same thing but expand the conversation as to the hows and whys the situation came to be.
Gee...Thanks for your post...You summed it up nicely...
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Apr 22, 2019 10:08 AM CST Private - What do you withheld...
ChesneyChrist
ChesneyChristChesneyChristManchester, Greater Manchester, England UK7,144 Posts
I’m not at liberty to divulge all information but personally I don’t care much for keeping you in the dark. I’m rather pragmatic.
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Apr 22, 2019 10:10 AM CST Private - What do you withheld...
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
ChesneyChrist: I’m not at liberty to divulge all information but personally I don’t care much for keeping you in the dark. I’m rather pragmatic.
Thanks for your heart-felt admission...
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Apr 22, 2019 2:22 PM CST Private - What do you withheld...
smiley963: Please read the write-up:
It is all about the word "Private" meaning different to different people.
Thus: Do you know how to explain Your "Private"?
Yes.

But I'm not going to tell you!
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Apr 22, 2019 3:17 PM CST Private - What do you withheld...
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
mykingdomforanam: Yes.

But I'm not going to tell you!
I feel you being very humane here, for us poor earthlings!!!
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Apr 22, 2019 3:27 PM CST Private - What do you withheld...
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
smiley963: I feel you being very humane here, for us poor earthlings!!!
If you are not open and as honest as the circumstances allow, no relationship has a chance of working.

But games seems to be the in-thing lately...
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Apr 22, 2019 4:11 PM CST Private - What do you withheld...
I don't reveal much of myself on here at all.
We are multi-faceted creatures.
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Apr 22, 2019 10:02 PM CST Private - What do you withheld...
M4_Mischief
M4_MischiefM4_MischiefBelleville, Ontario Canada6,250 Posts
Private to me means not in the public realm...also information that I feel is really none of your business....however there are certain times I just meet people can talk about anything and everything....I really have nothing to hide but at the same time there are certain things that people just don't need to know as strangers.....other times with new friendships it will depend on the person and how close we get as friends....and discussions get deeper....wave
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Apr 22, 2019 11:55 PM CST Private - What do you withheld...
smiley963
smiley963smiley963Johannesburg, Gauteng South Africa254 Threads 5 Polls 3,651 Posts
M4_Mischief: Private to me means not in the public realm...also information that I feel is really none of your business....however there are certain times I just meet people can talk about anything and everything....I really have nothing to hide but at the same time there are certain things that people just don't need to know as strangers.....other times with new friendships it will depend on the person and how close we get as friends....and discussions get deeper....
Yes, It depends on how close you are to the person, as to what you will reveal...
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