You keep saying he is a catch..... I'm lost in what way. Surely a catch would prefer to treat you like a real person and discuss the argument (at least to try and provide some closure). All real relationships have moments of disagreements. When both people calm down, they can (and I'd argue should) talk them through later. That way a compromise can be found to strengthen the relationship. If a compromise can't be found either party needs to decide if they can change to save the relationship or move on as the relationship cannot work in the long term.
Seems to me that he's far from a catch (at least, it was the wrong relationship). Try to learn from it and move on.
aloeluv: You keep saying he is a catch..... I'm lost in what way. Surely a catch would prefer to treat you like a real person and discuss the argument (at least to try and provide some closure). All real relationships have moments of disagreements. When both people calm down, they can (and I'd argue should) talk them through later. That way a compromise can be found to strengthen the relationship. If a compromise can't be found either party needs to decide if they can change to save the relationship or move on as the relationship cannot work in the long term. You are right..
Seems to me that he's far from a catch (at least, it was the wrong relationship). Try to learn from it and move on.
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It took me a while to notice; and until I did, I thought she meant, he had her in a mental prison.
Nice to know she's stronger than that. :)