Double Standards... (31)
I am totally for protecting my privacy. If someone doesn't care about their, well, it's their business.
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smiley963: How often do we have to deal with others, finding out that your moral standards are vastly different. You might feel that you have very high standards, but so do they, until it comes to the punch and you are getting undercut...
You ask for decency, but get low classed tendencies. You answer questions with honesty, just to find out that your answers are being cleverly by-passed, or half answered, just the basics, "they are just protecting their privacy", and you want to know so what about yours, but obviously the same does not apply.
Are these double standards in your book, and if not what are yours...
This thread is just a warning....You ask for decency, but get low classed tendencies. You answer questions with honesty, just to find out that your answers are being cleverly by-passed, or half answered, just the basics, "they are just protecting their privacy", and you want to know so what about yours, but obviously the same does not apply.
Are these double standards in your book, and if not what are yours...
Be carefull….
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smiley963: This thread is just a warning....
Be carefull….
a warning to who?Be carefull….
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Double standards exist and a lot of women are master manipulators, so a lot of the time, they get away with criminal actions, that no men would....women get much less jail time, than a man, for committing the same crime and many don't even serve any jail time at all...double standards...I could talk much more about female privilege...but I will leave folks to chew on this for a while and look into it if they have any doubts
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i'm ok with double standards (...cuz ya know we all are not equal..)
i do have some issue with hypocrisy.
i do have some issue with hypocrisy.
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Double standards?
You mean, people are not all the same...?!
You mean, people are not all the same...?!
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pKrema: Double standards?
You mean, people are not all the same...?!
It's their morals that differ immensely….You mean, people are not all the same...?!
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smiley963: It's their morals that differ immensely….
You either have morals or you don't, anything in between is just a character...------ This thread is Archived ------
pKrema: You either have morals or you don't, anything in between is just a character...
Lol...That's an idea...------ This thread is Archived ------
pedro27: a warning to who?
Everyone:There will mainly be someone always with worse moral standards than you...
I wonder what happens to the last one...denial...
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aries1234: Call me old fashioned , but i believe in the old moral standards, and honesty. Although i realise that some people pay lip service to these standards, and seem to be blind to their own failings, we are all human but we can try to live up to these and pass them on to our children
is there any point in supposedly getting to know someone based on a false story?...nope there isn't....you don't know anything about the person and it takes away your right to decide based on real info....not to mention there goes honesty right out the window....who wants to start anything based on that?....
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M4_Mischief: is there any point in supposedly getting to know someone based on a false story?...nope there isn't....you don't know anything about the person and it takes away your right to decide based on real info....not to mention there goes honesty right out the window....who wants to start anything based on that?....
i would add...you can't get to know someone beyond what they are willing to reveal. if they don't feel safe enough to be themselves and transparent in a relationship.... then there really is no relationship.
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M4_Mischief: is there any point in supposedly getting to know someone based on a false story?...nope there isn't....you don't know anything about the person and it takes away your right to decide based on real info....not to mention there goes honesty right out the window....who wants to start anything based on that?....
I agree with what you said, people shwing a tendency to lying and denial are a red flag------ This thread is Archived ------
M4_Mischief: is there any point in supposedly getting to know someone based on a false story?...nope there isn't....you don't know anything about the person and it takes away your right to decide based on real info....not to mention there goes honesty right out the window....who wants to start anything based on that?....
The excuse is:I'm protecting my privacy...
How many twists and turns...
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jono7: i would add...you can't get to know someone beyond what they are willing to reveal. if they don't feel safe enough to be themselves and transparent in a relationship.... then there really is no relationship.
I agree...its based totally on falsehood....I guess people have to decide whats more important...privacy or letting someone know you and if privacy is more important then you don't want to pursue anything with me that bad....so don't bother....------ This thread is Archived ------
pKrema: You either have morals or you don't, anything in between is just a character...
hiya pKrema could you explain this a bit? (thank you)
my understanding is that morals are a set of values of a particular group at a particular time. and that these values will be different depending on the group and the time.
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jono7: i would add...you can't get to know someone beyond what they are willing to reveal. if they don't feel safe enough to be themselves and transparent in a relationship.... then there really is no relationship.
Even just acquaintanceship , friendship, etc...If there is no honesty between the two parties...nothing is possible...
What do they have to hide that is so serious...is the question...
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M4_Mischief: I agree...its based totally on falsehood....I guess people have to decide whats more important...privacy or letting someone know you and if privacy is more important then you don't want to pursue anything with me that bad....so don't bother....
You are right honesty is so important,, lack of honesty is a deal breaker for me------ This thread is Archived ------
Tom I agree...its definitely a red flag and a deal breaker for me....
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You ask for decency, but get low classed tendencies. You answer questions with honesty, just to find out that your answers are being cleverly by-passed, or half answered, just the basics, "they are just protecting their privacy", and you want to know so what about yours, but obviously the same does not apply.
Are these double standards in your book, and if not what are yours...