Inappropriate conduct or not? (31)
Friskyone: Is it appropriate to conduct a background check on someone before your first date in order to protect yourself or is it an invasion of one's privacy?
Hypothetical, not asking for advice.
A finger sniff test is necessary during..Hypothetical, not asking for advice.
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Friskyone: Is it appropriate to conduct a background check on someone before your first date in order to protect yourself or is it an invasion of one's privacy?
Hypothetical, not asking for advice.
You should learn body language Hypothetical, not asking for advice.
There's some classes teaching these things online you can find more
Ask a lot of questions silly and good and mean questions
Gather all the information
This is better than invading others privacy or accessing information about someone in such a rude way
Oh sorry I forgot it's not about getting advice about this
Personally yes I do when I able or have the opportunity to do this thing
Because the world is full of psychopaths
And you know the psychopaths are very very good at convincing people ,
And you can not predict what they could do
Awareness is not only priceless but also a one of your weapon for survive.
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I think I see where this is..
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mikey4691: A finger sniff test is necessary during..
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saidmahmoud: You should learn body language
There's some classes teaching these things online you can find more
Ask a lot of questions silly and good and mean questions
Gather all the information
This is better than invading others privacy or accessing information about someone in such a rude way
Oh sorry I forgot it's not about getting advice about this
Personally yes I do when I able or have the opportunity to do this thing
Because the world is full of psychopaths
And you know the psychopaths are very very good at convincing people ,
And you can not predict what they could do
Awareness is not only priceless but also a one of your weapon for survive.
So are you saying it's an invasion of privacy if you conduct the background BEFORE the first date?There's some classes teaching these things online you can find more
Ask a lot of questions silly and good and mean questions
Gather all the information
This is better than invading others privacy or accessing information about someone in such a rude way
Oh sorry I forgot it's not about getting advice about this
Personally yes I do when I able or have the opportunity to do this thing
Because the world is full of psychopaths
And you know the psychopaths are very very good at convincing people ,
And you can not predict what they could do
Awareness is not only priceless but also a one of your weapon for survive.
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mikey4691: I think I see where this is..
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Friskyone: So are you saying it's an invasion of privacy if you conduct the background BEFORE the first date?
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To check someone on line you d need a person's name and a lot of other information, like date and place of birth. If someone would give you that before meeting in person, the poor sod / moo is stupid, which is enough info for me and there's no point to conduct more research.
I myself won't meet anyone, who d make an attempt to check my background.
What s appropriate or not - that's the matter of your own sense of appropriation.
I myself won't meet anyone, who d make an attempt to check my background.
What s appropriate or not - that's the matter of your own sense of appropriation.
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Going by some of the replies here, I think a background check would be in order for anyone posting on the forums. While you're at it, check for a criminal and/or petty misdemeanour record as well.
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If the information is accessible and you access it, then you're not the one invading someone's privacy. That has already been done. Some people, like politicians and extroverts, voluntarily broadcast. If it isn't appropriate to take advantage of this now, it will be the norm eventually.
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Is it appropriate to ask for a fertility test, before dating? My ex never told me she could not have kids... she just let me figure it out... is that fair to a man?
Do you, or have you ever worked in law enforcement... ... 
Do you, or have you ever worked in law enforcement...
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Why not make a background check, a credit report, a doctor's note, and a sample of DNA mandatory before a first date? 
I'm seriously glad to be closer to the end than the beginning.
I'm seriously glad to be closer to the end than the beginning.
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Friskyone: Is it appropriate to conduct a background check on someone before your first date in order to protect yourself or is it an invasion of one's privacy?
Hypothetical, not asking for advice.
Get full medical and psychiatric records too and school reports Hypothetical, not asking for advice.
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aries1234: Get full medical and psychiatric records too and school reports
Don't forget Boy/Girl scout records, test results from the 40 yard dash, dental records and...... ------ This thread is Archived ------
Ask for a birth certificate to confirm they aren't an alien. 
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Friskyone: Is it appropriate to conduct a background check on someone before your first date in order to protect yourself or is it an invasion of one's privacy?
Hypothetical, not asking for advice.
I wouldn't even know how to go about it Hypothetical, not asking for advice.
But no, it wouldn't be on my to-do radar anyway.
I use my gut instinct instead.
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Friskyone: Is it appropriate to conduct a background check on someone before your first date in order to protect yourself or is it an invasion of one's privacy?
Hypothetical, not asking for advice.
It's a bit like the term drug & disease free if you're doing a background check it begs the question what's your own background? And the answer to that is I don't want to know. I don't want to hear about your life from you or the official channels.Hypothetical, not asking for advice.
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It's enough to stalk them on any social media... 
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