Agoraphobia ( Archived) (56)

May 23, 2019 8:12 AM CST Agoraphobia
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
You have heard of this at one point in your life , you probably know someone who has this , you might not even know that you know a person like this !!

So, I would like to be a fly on the wall today ......... Please share your views on this and just let me read away :) I'm curious to know what you know!

Agoraphobia and Severe Social Anxiety . No googling!scold
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May 23, 2019 8:21 AM CST Agoraphobia
aries1234
aries1234aries1234plymout, Devon, England UK175 Threads 3 Polls 5,672 Posts
dillydally: You have heard of this at one point in your life , you probably know someone who has this , you might not even know that you know a person like this !!

So, I would like to be a fly on the wall today ......... Please share your views on this and just let me read away :) I'm curious to know what you know!

Agoraphobia and Severe Social Anxiety . No googling!
Plenty of aggro in Strathclyde rolling on the floor laughing blushing
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May 23, 2019 8:21 AM CST Agoraphobia
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
aries1234: Plenty of aggro in Strathclyde
Aye you laugh
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May 23, 2019 8:24 AM CST Agoraphobia
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
I've heard of some people who have it and are afraid of leaving their house.

But I've never met anyone in person.
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May 23, 2019 8:29 AM CST Agoraphobia
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
daniela777: I've heard of some people who have it and are afraid of leaving their house.

But I've never met anyone in person.
Me too , seems everyone has heard of someone having it but dont know them personally!
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May 23, 2019 8:41 AM CST Agoraphobia
MustangWriter
MustangWriterMustangWriterBoerne, Texas USA242 Threads 3 Polls 1,762 Posts
As I've gotten older I don't like crowds. Nor waiting in long lines. Which has hindered me from attending certain events like Spurs basketball games or Cowboy football games. I've never thought much on the origins of my recent dislikes. I just attributed it to getting older.
I'd rather watch it on TV, save the $$$ and be comfy.


Recently I purchased a Kawasaki 500 Ninja at a sheriffs sale (vehicles that were seized or impounded and never picked up). I used to ride motorcycles when I was younger and thought a motorcycle would be great to zip around town on those errands where a large SUV would be too much. As I drove it home I was skeered to death! I thought... I'm not 18 anymore... why the heck did I buy this crotch rocket?! So add motorcycles to the above list as well.
p.s. First $1200 buys it.

I don't know if that's a form of anxiety or not. I just thought I was refraining from being uncomfortable and having to pay $$$ to feel that way.
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May 23, 2019 8:46 AM CST Agoraphobia
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
MustangWriter: As I've gotten older I don't like crowds. Nor waiting in long lines. Which has hindered me from attending certain events like Spurs basketball games or Cowboy football games. I've never thought much on the origins of my recent dislikes. I just attributed it to getting older.
I'd rather watch it on TV, save the $$$ and be comfy.


Recently I purchased a Kawasaki 500 Ninja at a sheriffs sale (vehicles that were seized or impounded and never picked up). I used to ride motorcycles when I was younger and thought a motorcycle would be great to zip around town on those errands where a large SUV would be too much. As I drove it home I was skeered to death! I thought... I'm not 18 anymore... why the heck did I buy this crotch rocket?! So add motorcycles to the above list as well.
p.s. First $1200 buys it.

I don't know if that's a form of anxiety or not. I just thought I was refraining from being uncomfortable and having to pay $$$ to feel that way.
The first sign is the excuse making , that's what I figured out , and they always sound reasonable , hence why it goes unnoticed .


Does your anxiety take first place over the Agora ? Or is it the other way round ? Do you have triggers or just a state of high alert ?
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May 23, 2019 9:22 AM CST Agoraphobia
MustangWriter
MustangWriterMustangWriterBoerne, Texas USA242 Threads 3 Polls 1,762 Posts
I'm not going to over analyze it too much.
No more than when I was younger... I wore jeans.
Something happened in the past 5 years where now jeans hurt and are uncomfortable and I prefer wearing softer material. Wool/polyester blends or flat out drawstring "lounge" pants. Its just what I prefer these days that's all.

But yeah, you on the other hand are pretty and young and should be making the scene in uncomfortable clothes. Why you are not doing that may be social anxiety but maybe its because you prefer a more intimate atmosphere. dunno
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May 23, 2019 9:24 AM CST Agoraphobia
methuzelah
methuzelahmethuzelahTampa, Florida USA296 Threads 1,633 Posts
1st time heard of this wordconfused
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May 23, 2019 9:30 AM CST Agoraphobia
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
MustangWriter: I'm not going to over analyze it too much.
No more than when I was younger... I wore jeans.
Something happened in the past 5 years where now jeans hurt and are uncomfortable and I prefer wearing softer material. Wool/polyester blends or flat out drawstring "lounge" pants. Its just what I prefer these days that's all.

But yeah, you on the other hand are pretty and young and should be making the scene in uncomfortable clothes. Why you are not doing that may be social anxiety but maybe its because you prefer a more intimate atmosphere.
Wait!! Apparently your body goes through a change every 7 years , its like a reset I suppose , sooooo thats means in 2 years , you may be able to wear jeans again!!!

Mine started 4 years ago which means I have 3 years left !!! Seems a long time but I can wait!


No its all people not so much environmental ....... No eye contact , no people seeing ...... I see shoes , a lot of shoes if I have a journey but no interacting or looking .
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May 23, 2019 9:31 AM CST Agoraphobia
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
methuzelah: 1st time heard of this word
Ok google it then you cheater laugh
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May 23, 2019 9:33 AM CST Agoraphobia
methuzelah
methuzelahmethuzelahTampa, Florida USA296 Threads 1,633 Posts
dillydally: Ok google it then you cheater
you tell me the meaning.beer
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May 23, 2019 9:37 AM CST Agoraphobia
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
methuzelah: you tell me the meaning.
Ahhh I see what you did there scold laugh

agoraphobia

noun
extreme or irrational fear of entering open or crowded places, of leaving one's own home, or of being in places from which escape is difficult.


Try living in a world where the floor is Lava! Then get to your mums to borrow milk without a teleporter laugh
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May 23, 2019 9:46 AM CST Agoraphobia
daniela777
daniela777daniela777Mi Paraiso, Murcia Spain44 Threads 2,714 Posts
I don't like crowds either...nor loud noises..but it has nothing to do with getting older..as Mustang said!
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May 23, 2019 9:52 AM CST Agoraphobia
dillydally
dillydallydillydallyBehind the hills and Burns ..., Strathclyde, Scotland UK57 Threads 2,697 Posts
daniela777: I don't like crowds either...nor loud noises..but it has nothing to do with getting older..as Mustang said!
Anxiety perhaps ? Even if not Agora , the anxiety is a main trigger (not for just agora) . Anxiety then leads to hundreds of other things , it's a vicious cycle!
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May 23, 2019 11:07 AM CST Agoraphobia
raphael119
raphael119raphael119washington d.c., District of Columbia USA19 Threads 3 Polls 5,181 Posts
Some S.S.R.I are like silver bullets for some people. desensitization and self hypnosis can really help.
Prognosis is good, with a wide range of severity and time involved. It is closely related P.T.S.D.
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May 23, 2019 1:24 PM CST Agoraphobia
Don_Fred
Don_FredDon_FredJinotega, Nicaragua1 Threads 7 Posts
daniela777: I don't like crowds either...nor loud noises..but it has nothing to do with getting older..as Mustang said!
But there's quite a difference between, 'not liking'moping , ... and "having a fear of". help wow
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May 23, 2019 1:38 PM CST Agoraphobia
dillydally: You have heard of this at one point in your life , you probably know someone who has this , you might not even know that you know a person like this !!

So, I would like to be a fly on the wall today ......... Please share your views on this and just let me read away :) I'm curious to know what you know!

Agoraphobia and Severe Social Anxiety . No googling!
I have issues with this, prevents me from normal interactions.
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May 23, 2019 1:46 PM CST Agoraphobia
Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) is characterized by persistent and excessive worry about a number of different things. People with GAD may anticipate disaster and may be overly concerned about money, health, family, work, or other issues. Individuals with GAD find it difficult to control their worry.
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May 23, 2019 1:47 PM CST Agoraphobia
Generalized Anxiety Disorder (GAD) is characterized by persistent and excessive worry about a number of different things. People with GAD may anticipate disaster and may be overly concerned about money, health, family, work, or other issues. Individuals with GAD find it difficult to control their worry.
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